Softspaces Podcast
For too long, many of us have been taught that loving well means giving until we’re empty. We stretch ourselves thin, carry burdens that aren't ours to bear, and wonder why our relationships leave us feeling drained instead of nourished. But the truth is, we don’t lack love—we lack the capacity to sustain it.
Soft Spaces is an elevated conversation designed to change that. Together, we are stepping out of the "strong friend" narrative and into the intentional architecture of relational capacity. This is a soft, paced room where we audit our emotional bandwidth, learn how to map boundaries without building walls, and expand our containers to hold deeper, healthier intimacy.
By the end of each episode, host Yolanda Lewis helps you better understand your limits so you can stop fracturing your peace to keep others whole.
You don't have to over-extend to be worthy of connection. So, pull up a chair, take a deep breath, and let’s expand our capacity together.
Episodes
3 episodes
S4 Ep2: You're Not Fine: The Truth About Self-Abandonment (And Why You Keep Breaking Promises to Yourself)
"I'm fine."If those words have ever come out of your mouth when you were anything but, you're not alone — but you might be surprised to learn what's actually happening underneath. In this episode, we break down self-abandonment: ...
Why You Push Away Good Things in Life: Yolanda Lewis on Intimacy and Expanding Capacity
If you've ever waited years for something to happen — the relationship, the breakthrough, the dream — and then found yourself unable to celebrate when it finally did, this episode is for you. It's time to understand what's really going on.<...
