What We're Not Taking To Our Graves
Welcome to What We’re Not Taking to Our Graves, the podcast where we dive into the controversial and taboo topics that everyone else is too scared to touch. In a world that often shies away from difficult conversations, we’re here to create a safe space for open dialogue, connection, and understanding.
Each episode features candid discussions, personal anecdotes, and heartfelt revelations, all served with honesty and a touch of humor. Whether you’re seeking validation, insight, or simply a relatable perspective, this podcast is here to illuminate the paths we’ve traveled and the lessons we’ve learned. We want to create a safe space for listeners to connect with their own experiences, Tune in, and hear the stories that have shaped us in ways we’re finally ready to speak about.
Episodes
17 episodes
BREAK UP WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND
we've all been there- listening patiently to our bestfriend/sister/cousin/co-worker going on and on about her partner and nodding while offering supportive advice when all you want to do is scream "BREAK UP WITH HIM ALREADY!!" well,...
The Orgasm Gap + Masturbation
In this episode of What We're Not Taking to Our Graves, we’re diving into the orgasm gap. Why it exists, who it affects most, and what it reveals about how we’ve been taught to think about sex and pleasure. We’re also breaking down the...
Dating After Divorce Part Two
In this episode, we pick up right where we left off. We've talked about casual dating as a single mom, but what the heck does it even look like to be in a serious relationship with someone as a single mom? How does one be a girlfriend after bei...
The "It Ends With Us" Controversy
In today’s episode, we’re diving deep into the heated drama between Justin Baldoni and Blake Lively, all sparked by the It Ends With Us movie adaptation. What started as excitement over this highly anticipated film has quickly spiraled...
Exploring Kinks – Making Fantasies a Reality
In this episode of What We're Not Taking to Our Graves, we’re getting real about communicating fantasies and kinks with your partner. How do you bring up those conversations without feeling awkward or judged? What does it take to turn ...
Get In Bitches, We're Unpacking Religious Trauma
If you listened to last week's episode, you know that one of our biggest goals for 2025 is to figure out the whole religion thing again. As two people who grew up heavily involved in church, to now questioning so much- we're very much unsure of...
24 Things We Are Leaving In 2024
(yes, we are well aware of how incredibly cheesy this is- yes, we still did it)2024 was one of those crash course years for growth for both of us. One of those years where you find yourself sitting in the bathtub thinking holy shit, whe...
Blending families, Mindset Shifts, and Reflecting on 2024- it's not that deep
This week, we’re talking about the challenges and growth that come with blending families and making mindset shifts in day-to-day life. From figuring out how to navigate new family dynamics to letting go of the pressure to have it all together,...
The Mental Load of Motherhood (and Other Things, Probably)
In this episode of What We’re Not Taking To Our Graves, we’re unpacking the mental load of motherhood—and other things, probably. Being a mom is one of the most rewarding experiences, but the unspoken balancing act of emotional labor c...
Email From a Listener, Desire, Scorekeeping + Cameo From Our Men
On this week's episode, we sit down and read through a listener's email together for the first time! We open up the conversation surrounding discussing desires with our partners, scorekeeping in relationships and navigating the balance between ...
Porn, Sexual Intimacy, and Sex Drives, Oh My!
In this episode, we explore the complex relationship between porn and modern sexual dynamics. We delve into how pornography influences sexual desire and intimacy, examining its impact on emotional connections and relationships. We also discuss ...
What We're Not Taking To Our Graves- Hot Takes
This week, we dive into our favorite hot takes, unpopular opinions, and controversial statements to discuss- perfect for sparking conversation around the Thanksgiving table or any gathering where a healthy debate can thrive. Join us as we share...
Let's Talk About Sex, Baby
In this episode, we dive deep into one of society's most persistent taboos: sex. Why is it still such a controversial topic? From cultural taboos to personal stigmas, we explore the roots of our collective discomfort with discussing sex openly....
Origin Story (Rowan's Version)
Hi pals. This episode feels a little harder to put out into the world— mostly because I do that thing where you have the trauma you’re comfortable talking about and the trauma you don’t actually want to address. I found myself havi...
Origin Story (Alissa's Version)
Hi Pals, Alissa here. I have typed this out 5 times now and I cannot for the life of me make this sound as polished as the other descriptions. In this episode, I discuss my childhood trauma, mental health diagnoses, and more. Trigg...