The Lulu Essey Podcast
Welcome to The Lulu Essey Podcast — a raw, unedited space for honest conversations about building a life that feels deeply aligned with who you truly are.
Here we explore the full spectrum of well-being: mental fitness, emotional resilience, authentic confidence, and the courage to create a life on your own terms. Through lived experience and evidence-informed approaches, you'll discover that transformation is truly an inside job.
Each episode offers practical tools and tiny, consistent steps for navigating anxiety, uncertainty, and life's challenges. You'll learn how to build confidence from within, find calm in chaos, and deepen connection with yourself and others — one small, powerful action at a time.
Come as you are — no judgment, no quick fixes. Because creating a meaningful life isn't about perfection; it's about progress with self-compassion, acceptance, and the willingness to embrace both light and shadow on your journey.
The Lulu Essey Podcast
Mental Fitness 101: What to Do Every Single Day
WHY DOESN'T ANYONE TEACH US MENTAL FITNESS BASICS? You know how to exercise your body. You know consistency builds strength. So why doesn't anyone teach us the same fundamentals for your mind?
Most of us were never taught Mental Fitness 101. We overcomplicate it. We wait for the perfect method. But Mental Fitness works exactly like physical fitness - you just need to know what to do. Every. Single. Day.
This back-to-basics episode gives you 3 micro tools you can use right now, plus the daily foundations that make them stick. No theory. No complexity. Just what actually works.
What you'll discover:
- Why Mental Fitness works exactly like physical fitness (and why that changes everything)
- The 3 micro tools: The Friend Test, The Choice Pause, The Humanity Reminder
- Daily foundations: consistency, nature, mindful hydration, mirror practice
- Why celebrating small wins matters as much as celebrating crisis recovery
- How maintenance is lifelong - not because you're broken, but because you're alive
- Why acceptance (not perfection) is what creates lasting change
Powerful Quotes:
"Mental Fitness works exactly like physical fitness. Different tools build different capacities. Some days you're mentally stronger than others. And maintenance is lifelong - not because you're broken, but because you're alive."
"When you think of it as fitness instead of fixing, everything changes. You're not trying to repair something wrong with you. You're building strength."
"Don't only celebrate when you emerge from crisis. Celebrate when you practice consistently and feel the difference. Those moments matter."
"The bridge between struggling and thriving isn't perfection. It's practice. Daily, imperfect, messy, beautifully human practice."
⏱ Timestamps:
00:00 - You already know how to do this
02:23 - The physical fitness parallel that changes everything
05:15 - The 3 micro tools you can use today
12:42 - Daily foundations that make it stick
17:48 - Why we need to celebrate Mental Fitness wins
20:36 - The maintenance reality: it's ongoing, not a destination
22:18 - You're exactly where you need to be
This episode is for you if:
- You're feeling lost and don't know where to start with Mental Fitness
- You've been overcomplicating mental health and need to get back to basics
- You're navigating holiday stress and family intensity
- You want simple, practical tools that actually work
- You need permission to start small and celebrate the tiny wins
- You're ready to stop overthinking and start practicing
Share this with someone who's overwhelmed and doesn't know where to begin. What's one micro tool you're going to try today?
Download The LOVE Framework free at https://www.luluessey.com/freetool - designed to work alongside these daily practices.
Remember: Mental Fitness is maintenance, not magic. And you're worth showing up for. Every. Single. Day.💛
This is an inside job. Share this episode with those you love. 💛
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Thank you for being here. You are enough. ✨