Season Four Chaos And Catch-Up

A guy makes an AI “couple photo” after one date, and suddenly we’re asking the only question that matters: is that cute, or is that a horror movie trailer? Season four starts exactly how we live, loud, chaotic, and accidentally honest. We catch up on fitness prep and routines, why this cut feels more balanced, and how tiny habits like walking the dog or getting outside can shift your whole mood when you’re busy, stressed, and trying to stay consistent.

From there we spiral into dating boundaries and the “prospect” phase, including the 90-day rule, what we learn after getting burned by love bombing, and why phone calls can feel like an energy vampire when you already have a full life. We even pull up ChatGPT mid-recording to unpack why ending a call can be weirdly hard, and the conversation turns into real talk about people-pleasing, social anxiety, ADHD, and autistic communication patterns like struggling with transitions.

We also go deeper on sobriety, grief, and friendship growth, how we used to be “too supportive of the spiral,” and what changed when healing became the priority. Add Florida travel, parenting and cheer Worlds, plus our absolutely unhinged hatred of certain cars, and you’ve got a messy, relatable reset for anyone rebuilding routines, relationships, and mental health. If you laughed, cringed, or felt seen, subscribe, share this with a friend, and leave a review so more people can find the show.

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Transcript

Cold Open And Sound Chaos

SPEAKER_03 0:34

That was very aggressive.

SPEAKER_00 0:36

That was aggressive.

SPEAKER_03 0:37

Um But welcome.

SPEAKER_00 0:39

Welcome. I don't know why that made me laugh so hard. It it Okay. I know exactly what I'm saying. No, because we just had a conversation about whether or not this was season four. And then once we figured out that it was season four, you just were like so ready for it.

SPEAKER_03 0:56

I turned us down. I turned us down. Is that better? It's it was fine before. Okay. I like us loud.

SPEAKER_00 1:03

I like us loud and you know what's funny is I would say probably half of our episodes consist of three to five minutes of you adjusting the sound.

SPEAKER_03 1:15

You think that we you know why we don't do it beforehand? Because oh hold on.

SPEAKER_00 1:19

Because we try to have a conversation and then realize that we're supposed to be recording it. So we're like call up and get on the mic.

SPEAKER_03 1:25

I literally told her to shut up, we need to be recording this. And that's why it was also so like, hi, because hyped. I just pushed record.

SPEAKER_00 1:33

Right away. Right away. I'm like, I'm recording. No sound test.

SPEAKER_03 1:37

No.

SPEAKER_00 1:37

Way to start doing sound.

SPEAKER_03 1:39

I did make sure that it was turned on, and I was like, oh, it's working.

SPEAKER_00 1:42

Yes, okay. So our our goal for season four is to actually record every episode on Ender Street.

SPEAKER_03 1:52

And we're gonna do something. Should we fucking do it? We're gonna. I feel like we should just roll with I have an idea for some recording, and it's it's scary.

SPEAKER_00 2:02

Your face is scary right now. Because I don't know what you're talking about.

SPEAKER_03 2:06

I feel like we're gonna go Instagram live together, smashed up, onto our podcast page, and we're just gonna fucking record and see what happens. It's gonna be so fun. No one's gonna know about it, so it's fine.

SPEAKER_00 2:21

Um, we have the best intentions.

SPEAKER_03 2:24

Anyways, it'll happen or it won't. Stay tuned.

SPEAKER_00 2:27

Exactly. Stay tuned. There's a 50-50.

SPEAKER_03 2:30

Follow us on Instagram if you have not already. We are not the same pod. Is that what it is? Is that what it is?

SPEAKER_01 2:40

I believe so. Why do we not know that? Because we're assholes. We're not good at the socials part. We're not good at the socials.

SPEAKER_03 2:48

It's because a lot of oh yeah, we are not the same pod. See, I knew that.

SPEAKER_00 2:51

You did great. Well, you knew that. You run Insta and I do the Facebook. If you could not tell. I know it. They're different vibes.

SPEAKER_01 3:00

But they're the same.

SPEAKER_03 3:01

They're the same, but they're dimming.

SPEAKER_00 3:04

It's it's just really funny because I feel like people could probably guess that you ran the Instagram and I ran the Facebook without ever us having to.

SPEAKER_03 3:12

But they also thought that you were the one with the beer bottle incidents.

SPEAKER_00 3:16

Well, apparently I come off aggressive when people first meet me.

SPEAKER_03 3:20

I'm so happy that I don't.

SPEAKER_00 3:22

No, you have that golden retriever energy.

SPEAKER_03 3:25

I I am.

SPEAKER_00 3:26

Yeah, yes. Everyone heard it when you said, welcome to C. Oh, was that one? That was your golden retriever energy.

SPEAKER_03 3:33

That's what makes me a good trainer because I bring that energy all the time.

SPEAKER_00 3:36

Honestly, yes. I will like I've I hate working out. It's well established. We all know. But I've done multiple of classes with you, somewhere you were the trainer, somewhere you weren't the trainer. You are a very good trainer. Like it's it's almost robotic, but like you would be perfect for like videos. You know what I mean? Like too.

SPEAKER_03 3:56

That's why, yeah, and I do I do videos.

SPEAKER_00 3:58

You do?

SPEAKER_03 3:59

Yes. Oh, yeah, warrior videos, all those.

SPEAKER_00 4:02

When's the last time you did that?

SPEAKER_03 4:04

It's now all in studio. She has now brought her online. Yeah, it's different. Um, I haven't done it for last year.

SPEAKER_00 4:12

Last year I forgot about that. It's been so long.

SPEAKER_03 4:15

Last year I did when I was prepping.

unknown 4:17

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 4:18

Last year was rough. Oh, that prep was. Oh yeah, prepping again.

SPEAKER_00 4:22

Prep. Sound like a frog prep.

SPEAKER_03 4:26

Prepping again.

Season Four Plans And Socials

SPEAKER_00 4:27

Um but not so bad this time. No. Not so long this time.

SPEAKER_03 4:30

Nope. I did just sign up. Well, not not officially.

SPEAKER_00 4:33

I can't handle you hangry all the time. Well, we're not I'm not so bad this time. No, you're way fucking better this time. I think you get more carbs this time.

SPEAKER_03 4:42

Yeah, the diet and the cardio have been a lot easier.

SPEAKER_00 4:45

More balance. Yes. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 4:48

My body's responding well.

SPEAKER_00 4:49

Yeah, you look great. Thank you. I'm down 10 pounds. Congratulations. Thanks. Yes. All I do is go on that cruise.

SPEAKER_01 4:58

And then just because you didn't eat it.

SPEAKER_00 5:01

Because I didn't like the food. And so I didn't eat a whole bunch on there. So then my stomach shrank, and then I don't eat as much now. It works out great. I mean, that makes sense, yeah. And I take my dog for walks because it's been nicer.

SPEAKER_03 5:13

So finally.

SPEAKER_00 5:16

It has to be over 50 degrees, or I will not take my animal for a walk. And that's not for my animal's sake. That is for my own sake. I cannot order if it's that cold. You're broken. It's too much. It hurts my body.

SPEAKER_03 5:29

Broken.

SPEAKER_00 5:29

I know.

SPEAKER_03 5:30

Okay, so there is something new with you.

SPEAKER_00 5:34

Oh, with me. We're starting with me.

SPEAKER_03 5:36

Yes.

SPEAKER_00 5:37

I feel weird talking about it.

SPEAKER_03 5:40

Nope, because now we are both in relationships.

SPEAKER_00 5:43

Well, let's not get ahead of ourselves.

SPEAKER_03 5:45

He's a prospect.

SPEAKER_00 5:46

He's a prospect.

SPEAKER_03 5:47

For 90 days.

SPEAKER_00 5:48

No, so the 90 days, this is very important. First off, I fucked up because I told him about the 90 days. I've never done that.

SPEAKER_03 5:55

Has it already started?

SPEAKER_00 5:56

No, it does not start until you become official. You're only dating, right? It's only the first 90 days of a relationship. So we are not like an official anything. We've gone on three dates.

SPEAKER_03 6:06

But you're gonna continue. It's going the other direction.

SPEAKER_00 6:09

Tomorrow as well. Yes.

SPEAKER_03 6:11

So tell us about prospect. What'd you guys do?

SPEAKER_00 6:14

Uh so tell us about the dates. Uh first date was supposed to be just like meeting for coffee, and we met up at Starbucks and never went inside. We just sat at the table in front and just talked. So something about this is this is somebody that I knew years ago, like 10 plus years ago, and then didn't speak to for that entire time. And now circle back round.

SPEAKER_03 6:37

Wait, is this a recycling story?

SPEAKER_00 6:39

No, I've never, we'd never dating a girl that I knew at the time.

SPEAKER_03 6:44

So just like new uh acquaintance.

SPEAKER_00 6:46

We worked together.

SPEAKER_03 6:47

Oh, okay.

SPEAKER_00 6:48

Yeah. Okay. And like we, me, her, and him were like a little friend group. We all worked together, type of situation. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 6:56

Have I met this person before? No.

SPEAKER_00 6:57

No, because we're we weren't like that type of friends. We knew each other because we went to school together and we lived in like the same neighborhood for a while, and then we didn't hang out or talk or anything. And then we just happened to end up working at the same place. So we were like acquaintance type friends, you know what I mean? We only ever like hung out in a group setting, never like a one-on-one stitch. Um, but her and him dated for like four years. Um but she asked me to stop speaking to him, so I did because girl code, you know, like there wasn't any I didn't think that I was like flirty or he was flirty or anything, but like they had their own shit. So that's why we stopped talking, and then he ended up not working there anymore, and blah blah blah. But so we ended up just talking because, you know, memories. We were like reminiscing about like that time frame and all that stuff, and then we ended up getting pizza because we spent like three hours talking. So that was good. He drives a Honda. I don't know if you could hear that sigh, but like I heard the sigh. It's like almost a deal breaker for me.

SPEAKER_03 8:01

I saw the sigh too. My what kind of a Honda?

SPEAKER_00 8:04

A cord. It doesn't matter, they're all awful. Element is the worst. Janessa drives an element. I love Janessa so much, but I hate her damn car. I know it sounds weird, but I got my reasons. Listen, but it's upsetting.

SPEAKER_03 8:17

It's upsetting. Okay. Well, maybe his car will break and he'll get a new one.

Fitness Prep And Daily Routines

SPEAKER_00 8:21

Oh my god! So it did. Because of course it did, because it's a fucking Honda. It was so funny because I I have been giving him shit about the fact that he drives a Honda. Like the moment I saw it, I was like, mm-hmm, you're gonna have to fix that. And uh, which is funny because we talk about how like you would drop a dude over the type of shoes. I will drop a dude over on.

SPEAKER_03 8:44

I feel like before.

SPEAKER_01 8:46

I to this day will drop a dude over on.

SPEAKER_03 8:49

I mean Okay, draw okay, in vague terms, yes. Yeah, in vague terms, yes. If we're doing vague, yes.

SPEAKER_00 8:57

Yes, yes. Um, yeah, so one day he he sends me a photo of him on the side of the road with his hood up, and I was like, oh no, did the Honda break down?

unknown 9:07

Sad.

SPEAKER_00 9:08

And he goes, Yep. And I was all like, I'm sorry, but it is funny. And then he sent me a photo flipping me off, and that made me laugh really hard.

SPEAKER_03 9:16

So did he fix it or did they get a new car?

SPEAKER_00 9:20

Um, no, he fixed it. But I just told him I was like, listen, we'll just have to always drive separately because I will not ride in your vehicle. He also does have a truck that is not a Honda. He made sure to send me a photo of it.

SPEAKER_03 9:32

Like, don't ever drive a Honda ever again.

SPEAKER_00 9:35

I mean, I get it. It's better gas mileage, but you could literally buy any other fucking car than a Honda. Like, there's so many other options. Why would you ever pick a fucking Honda? Ugh, I hate them.

SPEAKER_03 9:46

You're gonna have to fill us all in on your distaste where I've never heard the fact you hate them this much.

SPEAKER_00 9:52

I know well, when I was a never come up because you don't have one.

SPEAKER_03 9:58

You're like, otherwise we would talk about it.

SPEAKER_00 10:00

Oh my god, we would have had the conversation.

SPEAKER_03 10:03

Trust.

SPEAKER_00 10:04

You've never put me in that position.

SPEAKER_03 10:06

I will never.

SPEAKER_00 10:07

Thank you. I appreciate you. When I was in high school, we were in a a crew called Honda Haters Inc. And like I literally still had a Honda Haters Inc. sticker on my television set until about two or three years ago when Deegan bought me a new TV for Christmas. Like how long. But also, like every Jen used to have a Honda, and every single time I got in that fucking vehicle, something bad happened. Every time, like her tire fucking full-on exploded, didn't go flat, exploded off of the rim while we were in a snowstorm in Montana. And like I go to get out of the car and it looks flat. Nope, it was a fucking bank full of snow. So I get out of the car and I just plummet straight down, torpedo style, into the snow. And you know how I feel about snow.

SPEAKER_03 10:58

It's your favorite thing in the world.

SPEAKER_00 11:00

Okay, it's pretty on a postcard in television, and that's where the fuck you should say. That is it.

SPEAKER_03 11:06

The older I get, the more I distest the cold, which means snow is not my friend.

SPEAKER_00 11:11

No, I don't participate in snow activities. There is no joy in snow.

SPEAKER_03 11:17

I definitely am like a summer for sure.

SPEAKER_00 11:19

Yes. I went to hike and be by water or on water, not in water. That's a whole thing. But yes, I need the sun and the sky and the all of it. The sun is the most important part. Yes, and then so yeah, every time I got my sister's car, it overheated, the radio wouldn't work. Like, and we started to joke that the Honda also hated me back, right?

SPEAKER_03 11:42

I mean right, exactly. You're putting the energy out there.

SPEAKER_00 11:46

The Honda's like, We got beef. And then, like the icing on the cake is my mother, whom we all know I'm such a fan of, drove a Honda element. And it's like guilty. I hate it, it's very triggering for me. Janessa's car makes me mad. That's how I knew she was home today. I was like, oh yeah, that she's got uh she's gotta do her. I get it. She knows how I feel about it. She's like, I'll park it in the back. Fairware. Because I had to get in it. I had a ride in it when lemon. Remember when lemon and the car was broken down in the parking lot, and Janessa had to give us a ride home. Like, yeah, I had to ride in it. Traumatizing.

SPEAKER_03 12:31

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 12:32

It's okay, guys. I'm in therapy still. It's all it's fine.

SPEAKER_03 12:35

It's fine. Just don't let her see a Honda element at all.

SPEAKER_00 12:40

Deegan points out every single one to me because he knows. Because I would do that too. I know you would. God, we're gonna go on this trip together now, and you're gonna be like, hey, guess what?

SPEAKER_03 12:53

Like, look at there.

SPEAKER_00 12:54

I'm looking there.

SPEAKER_03 12:55

Is it a slug bug? A big sss.

SPEAKER_00 12:58

I still play slug bug with my children.

SPEAKER_03 13:01

Lelament, you can't do that.

SPEAKER_00 13:02

16 and 18, and we still, if we're in the car together, we still play slug bug. I love that. I love it too. It's fun. I do not win, in case you're wondering.

SPEAKER_03 13:11

I don't. No. Okay, so yeah, where did we start? Next date.

SPEAKER_00 13:16

Next date.

SPEAKER_03 13:17

Um you eated pizza. You were going.

SPEAKER_00 13:19

We uh we went to the onion and we shared a Monte Cristo sandwich. And then we went to the comedy club and saw Chris Porter, who is fucking hilarious if you ever have this chance to do it. And you had cheesecake? And I had cheesecake. And he had cheesecake because you know what? He is also sober. Oh, we love that. He is two and a half years sober, so he gets it, and uh, and he's sober, so that's great.

SPEAKER_03 13:43

That is good. Yeah, okay.

SPEAKER_00 13:45

He has an adult job. He okay, so he was technically unemployed. And I was like, he was technically unemployed.

SPEAKER_03 13:52

After the other information that was bestowed upon me, I was like, okay, keep proceeding with I don't know.

SPEAKER_00 13:59

Yeah, he was unemployed because of something against his it wasn't his fault. The company.

SPEAKER_03 14:04

So this would explain the time to make the photo.

SPEAKER_00 14:07

To make the photo. Oh, the photo. I almost yes, correct. He has a lot of time on his hands. Photographer.

SPEAKER_03 14:15

He's a new photographer.

SPEAKER_00 14:16

It's a little a lot for me.

SPEAKER_03 14:17

He's like a new AI photographer.

SPEAKER_00 14:19

He sat on the phone for like two hours straight.

SPEAKER_03 14:23

I could never.

SPEAKER_00 14:24

I I don't enjoy it. Like, but being on the phone is so hard for me. But like I just can't, it was almost just like I just put it on speakerphone and live continue living my day. It's so weird. What the fuck? Like I was interacting with my kids like I normally would. And it was almost like he was there, but he wasn't there.

SPEAKER_03 14:45

Okay, I'd be like, at this point, you come over or bye.

SPEAKER_00 14:47

But I don't want him to come over yet. We got on three dates.

SPEAKER_03 14:50

Then goodbye. Then he's already in your home virtually. So therefore he's there. It's fucking weird. You need to like bring him over or hang up the phone. Because yes, it's weird.

SPEAKER_00 15:01

I don't know how to get off the phone.

SPEAKER_03 15:03

Like it It is really awkward when we get off the phone, too. It's like we say goodbye. We don't know how to get off the phone.

SPEAKER_00 15:09

Love you. Bye.

SPEAKER_03 15:10

Talk to you later.

SPEAKER_00 15:11

Every work meeting I'm on. I'm like, how why is this so difficult?

SPEAKER_03 15:16

Should we ask ChatGPT why it's like this?

SPEAKER_00 15:18

Why is it so difficult to get off of the phone with people?

SPEAKER_03 15:22

That I'm literally gonna ask.

SPEAKER_00 15:24

So Heather's new obsession is ChatGPT. We have discovered all the different ways that she can use it for her life. I love it. And it's it's probably the best thing for you, honestly. Like.

SPEAKER_03 15:35

Why is it so difficult to get off the phone or to say goodbye?

SPEAKER_00 15:43

Are you gonna make it read it or are you gonna read it?

SPEAKER_03 15:46

Oh, I'm gonna make it read it.

SPEAKER_00 15:49

She's like, I pay for premium, bitch. Is it making you type it?

SPEAKER_03 16:09

I wanted a more condensed answer.

SPEAKER_00 16:13

Make this short and sweet, please. I'm not gonna lie, I use uh I use copilot at work. Sometimes I'll write a nasty gram and then I'll put it in co-pilot. And I was like, please make this sound more professional. And then that's what I'll send instead, so I can still get my anger out, but still send something that's not gonna get me in trouble.

SPEAKER_03 16:39

I feel like that's not the anxiety-ridden answer that I was thinking it would be.

SPEAKER_02 16:43

You were hoping that they were like, this is totally justified. Hanging up means temporarily losing the comfort, excitement, and connection they give you. And you're trying to naturally lose it. That ain't it.

SPEAKER_03 16:56

So I'm thinking more along the lines of like Lacey's autistic, and it's really hard for her to hang up. Also, I'm just very awkward. So that's why.

SPEAKER_00 17:09

You're trying to teach Chat GPT about you're like, no, you're wrong. This is why. Learn it, love it, live it.

SPEAKER_03 17:17

Oh, here we go. This is so funny. I have not read this all the way through yet.

SPEAKER_00 17:22

You literally just manipulated it to say what you wanted it to say.

SPEAKER_02 17:28

Lacey thinks it's because she's autistic and transitions are hard for her. I think I'm just awkward and don't know how to end. No, see, it's just repeating what you said.

SPEAKER_01 17:38

You just talked about it.

SPEAKER_00 17:40

You're so funny.

SPEAKER_03 17:41

It's not doing what I want it to do.

SPEAKER_00 17:43

That's not how I was confused.

SPEAKER_03 17:45

You want to know why? Because I didn't start a new thread. I was doing it on the same thread of all of our topics.

SPEAKER_00 17:50

Oh, so it thought you were trying to create an episode. I don't know why. We never stay on topic. We try so hard. I wonder why. We try the ADHD of it all. All of it, all the time. You know what I did the other day? I was drinking milk because of course I was drinking milk.

SPEAKER_03 18:10

Um, I have videos of you drinking milk.

SPEAKER_00 18:12

I know, I know. But I was drinking milk and I lost the lid, which then in turn meant I lost my shit. Because where in the flying fuck would I have put the lid to the milk carton? Checked everywhere. I was getting so angry. Deegan walks in and he's like, What's wrong? And I was like, I cannot find the lid to the fucking milk carton. And he's all like, Did you look absolutely everywhere? I was like, anywhere that's logical. And he's like, That's not what I said. And then he starts looking and he finds it. And guess where I put the lid?

SPEAKER_03 18:49

Where?

SPEAKER_00 18:49

The drunk drawer.

SPEAKER_03 18:51

You're so weird, and I love it. Okay, I started a new chat thread where it was like a new topic.

SPEAKER_01 18:57

Did it give you the answer you want now?

The Honda Hate Origin Story

SPEAKER_03 18:59

There's actually common psychological reasons. No, that's not not now. There's no manipulation, it's not confused anymore. We are communicating appropriately. Um so there are psychological reasons why people struggle to end phone calls or conversations. It's long, so I'm paraphrasing. Um, fear of seeming of seeming rude or rejecting, that's huge for you. Yep. Yep. Um pleasing they associate it with ending a conversation with hurting someone's feelings, disappointing them, or making the other person feel unwanted. Um, social anxiety or awkwardness, that's mine, because I just like I feel like sometimes I'm like, just end it now. Do I end it now? Do I now? Just now? Okay. Bye, bye, done. Um, sometimes.

SPEAKER_00 19:44

For as much as me and you can't finish a conversation, you can just stop with other people.

SPEAKER_03 19:50

I do.

SPEAKER_00 19:51

You do. You'll literally just be like, and I'm out.

SPEAKER_03 19:54

It's weird. It's talent. It's really diabolical when it's in the middle of a conversation and you can see it on my face. I'm like, and I'm out.

SPEAKER_00 20:02

You're just not listening anymore.

SPEAKER_03 20:04

No. And there's nothing I can do to fix my face. I love it. Um, it literally says autistic communication patterns. Uh they struggle with conversational transitions and task switching.

SPEAKER_00 20:19

Yeah. I'm not good at the like That's you.

SPEAKER_03 20:22

Yeah. Uh people pleasing tendencies. That's why you have me. Because I'm real good at the transitions and endings.

SPEAKER_00 20:29

I suck at transitioning. Compliment each other so well. Okay, I'm not sure. Or someone will say something, and I like literally don't know how to respond. Like, because I'm very like on to the next. I feel like I I know I should like make up some cheesy like whatever, but like it's not in me to do that. So I'm just like, do I just ignore it?

SPEAKER_03 20:53

Yeah. That's where. Yeah. Yeah. Um, people pleasing, which we already talked about, attachment style dynamics, um, anxious attachment, sometimes unconsciously prolong conversations.

SPEAKER_00 21:05

Sometimes that's the weird thing. The whole thing is I want to get off the phone.

SPEAKER_03 21:08

Yeah, yours is definitely um fear of seeming rude and then the autistic and the executive functioning issues.

SPEAKER_00 21:16

I guess I don't understand why talking on the phone is such a big thing for dudes. And I don't know if it is for everybody or just the one I attract.

SPEAKER_03 21:23

No, can I tell you that my boyfriend, the boyfriend, we call him the boyfriend on the pub. The boyfriend. Uh no. Doesn't talk on the phone. No, and I wouldn't like it. Because I see him in person. Also, I want our time together to be what we talk about. Like, I also have a life outside of that. Like, if I'm not with him, then I'm busy doing other things. Yeah. I do call him if I need something.

SPEAKER_00 21:48

Right. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 21:49

Like, uh, please call me if you need something. Text me if it's just a check-in. Like we text throughout the day. It's just not like, but I would rather tell you all about something in person. Yeah. Sometimes I forget. And I'm like, damn it, I should have texted that. But also It's a game. It's like a healthy. I guess when I'm gone though. So like when I'm gone, I would FaceTime once, try to FaceTime once a day, but always like text, but sometimes got busy. But it wasn't a long time. It's literally like 15, 20 minutes, like catching up on the day and then done. And that's fulfilling for both of us, I feel like.

SPEAKER_00 22:20

And I think a lot of it is just there's just too much time on his hands.

SPEAKER_03 22:24

Yes. Does he have children?

SPEAKER_00 22:26

Uh a daughter, but grown, gone.

SPEAKER_03 22:28

Okay, so that's another thing. Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 22:30

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 22:30

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 22:31

He just has too much time on his hands.

unknown 22:33

Huh.

SPEAKER_03 22:36

There's kids yelling, and I don't know if one of them is mine, but it kind of sounds like it. But it's outside, so it's fine.

SPEAKER_00 22:42

It wasn't like a scary yellow. No, it sounds like she's having fun. It's a fun name.

SPEAKER_03 22:46

She has a little friend Malay up the road, so I just said the name. It's fine. No last names. I'm like, I don't know why I did that.

SPEAKER_01 22:54

You just docked a child.

SPEAKER_03 22:56

No, not really. No, I didn't. I didn't at all. There was no last names. Oh my god, that was like my brother's laugh sometimes. No, I didn't. Didn't I swear? Um speaking of, we speaking of doxing children. No, my amazing boyfriend. Oh yeah. Um we I finally met him! You did? I did. Yes. Yeah. And we need to do that again. We'll do like a double date. In like an actual setting, not like a not a non-food setting for a little while.

SPEAKER_00 23:35

Yeah. August.

SPEAKER_03 23:37

Yes. We he came to Florida and spent a few days with me when I was there. And it was so good. And we've got to hang out in Clearwater.

SPEAKER_00 23:48

I feel like that's like a big step. Like traveling.

SPEAKER_03 23:51

Yes. This was because we don't spend like days together. Yeah. Like stay the night at his house, obviously. We spend time together, but there's never like multiple days with like nothing else. Like so I was like, this will be like we'll either get on each other's nerves or it'll be like it'll be totally fine. And I'll tell you a lot. Yes. And I figure like I can I've never for me it's a really big thing. If I'm not sure.

SPEAKER_00 24:15

Yes, I'm very aware. You've had a lot of travel horror stories.

SPEAKER_03 24:18

Yes. I just don't. Well, not just that, just people. Like, I don't like people in my space. I get sick of people very easily. Not with you. I don't with you. I annoy you actually evolving. Not now that I'm sober, but when I was drunk Heather, drunk Heather. Okay, Drunk Heather and Sober Heather are two different people. Yeah. And Sober Heather just thinks that she had the best time when Drunk Heather came out. And then does it have to be? It was very long ago. There was some very long ago parts, and then there was just that little hiatus after Luke died. But there was long, like a long time ago was when our like the beer bottle days. That was like fucking 20 years ago. 10 years ago? 10 years over 10 years ago.

SPEAKER_00 25:18

Yes. Not 20 though.

SPEAKER_03 25:20

But over 10.

SPEAKER_00 25:21

Yeah, because we met. Deegan is 18. And we met when Deegan was five. So we've known each other for the five years.

SPEAKER_03 25:28

Okay, 13 years.

SPEAKER_00 25:30

Yeah, that's fucking crazy.

SPEAKER_03 25:32

That's approaching. I didn't mean 20.

SPEAKER_00 25:34

Our relationship as a teenager.

SPEAKER_03 25:37

Oh my gosh. We've been through so much. But yes, the hiatus after Luke, like we were, that was wild. I never realized everybody did cocaine.

SPEAKER_00 25:46

I'm like I'm like, what is this? Listen, there are two times in my life where cocaine made a hell of an appearance. And one I was 18 and one was after Luke died.

SPEAKER_03 25:59

I didn't realize that so many people, I'm like, what is this world of all these functioning people?

SPEAKER_00 26:06

We went down the rabbit hole of Spokane. It was a weird time in our lives.

SPEAKER_03 26:12

It was like not like not like the it was it was a rabbit hole of like pillows and soft things. It wasn't like it wasn't like a hard, like it we were very much so fair.

Why Phone Calls Feel Impossible

SPEAKER_00 26:25

Like we were on the tippity tip, right? Like we just like we were like the people who like opened the door and are like, hey, what are you guys doing?

SPEAKER_01 26:33

Yes. And they were like holy shit. Yes. Yes. And we're like, there's a lot of things going on.

SPEAKER_03 26:42

I just got flashbacks of like eyes wide shut, you know, and they're like going through what is happening. Not that far. But basically, um, that was wild.

SPEAKER_00 26:53

But also, look at us now. Yes. Like, we at some point we reached a path where you had we had to go left or right.

SPEAKER_03 27:02

And somehow we did it. We did it. I sad that we had to go apart to come together, but it's just because we were too good at like making each other.

SPEAKER_00 27:12

We were too supportive of the spiral. We were too supportive. And it was- We wouldn't tell each other no. Because it was like actually And now I have no fear of telling you no.

SPEAKER_03 27:23

But it's different because we were both in a trying to heal. We were both in a very dark place. Yes. It's different now.

SPEAKER_00 27:30

Yeah. We've done healing time and the sober thing. So it is different. It's better.

SPEAKER_03 27:37

Yes. Agreed.

SPEAKER_00 27:39

Because now it's like. You know what I mean?

SPEAKER_03 27:44

Yeah, no. It's fun. It's good. I don't know. It's like weird. I it's so far removed from that. I know. Also, our paths were so different. So our situations were so different, too. And I never actually realized that you were like struggling.

SPEAKER_00 27:58

Oh no. I thought you were.

SPEAKER_03 28:01

I thought you were just trying to numb like you were just hanging out with me because and doing the, you know, just because Luke died and you were just being a good friend.

SPEAKER_00 28:09

I mean, that was a big part of it.

SPEAKER_03 28:11

Yes.

SPEAKER_00 28:12

I didn't realize that you were drinking on your own. I know. I used it as a crutch to be like.

SPEAKER_03 28:17

Because see, I didn't necessarily do that. I wasn't like drinking, I would just seek people to do things and go out. I didn't realize you were struggling alone. It's okay. I don't tell people things. I'm not people.

SPEAKER_00 28:33

I know. I knew that was coming. As soon as I said that. I had to wait until I finished my drink. That was the wrong thing to say. But you know, you know it's like pulling teeth for some like the real shit.

SPEAKER_03 28:44

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 28:46

How many people know the real shit? Like, there's shit that will never be said on this fucking podcast. You know that it doesn't need to be said. Exactly.

SPEAKER_03 28:55

Um, on that note, Florida was amazing.

SPEAKER_00 28:59

Just a different path.

SPEAKER_03 29:01

Um, life is so great now. Uh Florida was amazing. I definitely belong there. I know. I imagine. The gym was great. The kids' um worlds was it was a rough go. Did not make it a day two. It was not the best performance, but on to season next season, which Braden is super senioring, so he will do one more year of All-Star because his birthday qualifies him. So him and Lily will be on the same worlds team, hopefully, if they both make the team. We'll see.

SPEAKER_00 29:30

Oh, yeah, because they have to re-audition everything.

SPEAKER_03 29:32

Yes, they're doing that right now. They're going through um tryouts right now.

SPEAKER_00 29:36

And then your kids are so hardcore. Like, it's so funny. Like, your kids are like, they live a very similar lifestyle to you, where it's regimented and they have routines and they work out and they eat good, and like you know what I mean? Like, because that's the last one.

SPEAKER_03 29:54

I mean, two out of the three.

SPEAKER_00 29:56

Well, one's her dad.

SPEAKER_03 29:57

One is like Luke reincarnated and like rogue, and like Diane was like, it's literally like having a Luke, and she's so much energy.

SPEAKER_00 30:04

It's like Yeah, they are very different.

SPEAKER_03 30:07

Very different.

SPEAKER_00 30:08

But then now also now think of my children, and like my kids just like do what needs to get done, and then like that's it. Like Deegan is going to graduate, but he stopped trying in his statistics class a long time ago.

SPEAKER_03 30:26

Well, that's because like I pushed them. I'm like, I don't know. I think it's the best thing for them. I think after Luke dying, like keeping them in cheer and nothing changing.

SPEAKER_00 30:37

No, I think it was super important.

SPEAKER_03 30:39

Because me finding bodybuilding, yes, and me finding my outlet in bodybuilding. Yes, I love teaching group classes, but that's also an energy-giving thing. When I can just lift, there's something about it's therapy to me, it's healing, and reading the book that you still have not read.

SPEAKER_00 30:58

Dude, I can't do the school help books. I have I've tried reading three.

SPEAKER_03 31:03

It's personal development and it will tell you a lot about your body. You know why you she's like, okay, hey, everybody. You know why she's not reading it? Because it's gonna call her the fuck out.

SPEAKER_00 31:15

No, that's fine. You call me out to my face. I think that you or put it on the audio book.

SPEAKER_03 31:22

Something about I I cannot finish self- Okay, how about I have Chat GPT give you all the highlights of the parts where it talks about your unmoved how movement and stuff like that.

SPEAKER_00 31:35

Yeah, I'll read an article, not a book.

SPEAKER_03 31:37

I will say about the parts that I think there's certain parts that because I've read it several times now, because it was healing to me because I never understood, because I'm smart enough and very fucking self-aware. Like, I can talk to myself all day. Why doesn't EMDR doesn't like work for me? Why doesn't X-Yo-s not work for me either? Moving my body works for me. And reading that book, it's normal. So it talks about it relates it to basically our brains down at the end are just animal. So uh a rabbit has like gets scared, you know how it like shakes its leg and stuff like that? It gets the cortisol out and the movement and the adrenaline out by doing that. If it did not do that, it would end up getting sick over time because the adrenaline, and it's a way to process all the chemicals that flood through its body. That makes sense. So, us think of all the triggers and all the flooding that's getting stuck all day, and you're just stuck, not able to move to do anything, and it's just in your body. Yeah, that's how I feel all the time. Right.

SPEAKER_00 32:32

So literally how I feel every fucking day. Yes.

SPEAKER_03 32:36

So having that movement and that outlet has really allowed me to move, I know. But you just need to find something. It could be just shaking your leg. Kidding, kidding.

SPEAKER_00 32:48

Have you seen like I cannot stay in one position for an extended period of time? I don't think that's like I have to constantly like we were watching that movie.

SPEAKER_03 32:57

I also think that like I had to apply to the code. I don't think you have to move. The in that article, it talks about a lot of like the autoimmune and a lot of the disorders and things like that are coming from stored trauma and stuff like that. And it talks about like how to release it and other ways besides exercise. I'm just saying my personal way that I have found, but it it talks about other ways too.

SPEAKER_00 33:16

No, but I'm saying I I believe it because like but you just have to find a way to get all that out.

Love Bombing Lessons And Boundaries

SPEAKER_03 33:22

So whether it's like well, it goes through a whole list of things that you can do to like process through, but you have to like you can't just ignore the chemical dumps and responses. Like, we're really good at masking things, but like your body can only take so much before it's gonna present in other ways.

SPEAKER_00 33:42

I know. That's why I have to do the massages regularly because it helps to push all of that shit out.

SPEAKER_03 33:47

It does, it does, and I see Janessa very regularly as well. Yeah, I just saw her on Thursday and it was so good.

SPEAKER_00 33:54

It's a hard Wednesday. I can't believe you saw her before you saw me.

SPEAKER_03 33:58

We haven't seen each other's for three weeks.

SPEAKER_00 34:01

We haven't seen each other since like the 18th of April.

SPEAKER_03 34:03

I know that's a very long time.

SPEAKER_00 34:05

It's literally three days away from a month. I know, and then now you have a boyfriend. Okay. Prospect.

SPEAKER_03 34:12

A prospect. A pre-boyfriend. Sorry, a prospect. I'm prospect. I like that prospect. Pre-boyfriend. He's in the application phase. Can I talk about the picture? Yeah. Okay. Yes. Um I am saying orange flag only because there was a photo made.

SPEAKER_00 34:29

It was cute, but like I didn't know. But it was cute, but it's normal. I hope it's not normal. It's not healthy. I just feel like it was really fast.

SPEAKER_03 34:38

Okay, you tell us. We're just gonna weigh it and then we'll pick back up on this later. Let us know. Hit that button, send us a message, or if you have our Instagram or Facebook, let us know. Do you think this is normal?

SPEAKER_00 34:49

How long had you We had gone on two dates?

SPEAKER_03 34:52

It wasn't only one date and he had sent it to you. I think it was one date. It was one date, and it was. It might have been. It might have been all that. One date, and he took a fit photo of him and he took a photo of her.

SPEAKER_00 35:05

So, first off, I sent I sent him the photo of the.

SPEAKER_03 35:09

You did not say put it through AI and make us a couple.

SPEAKER_00 35:13

No, I didn't.

SPEAKER_01 35:14

But it's such a cute photo, though.

SPEAKER_03 35:17

It is a cute photo, but you did not say, here is my photo. That is a weird thing.

SPEAKER_00 35:22

Okay, I didn't know if you wanted a photo of you.

SPEAKER_03 35:26

I said proceed with caution. This is fucking weird. He's gonna want to wear your skin.

SPEAKER_00 35:30

And I was like, I need someone to tell. I was like, is this cute or creepy?

SPEAKER_03 35:34

Because I both I said it could be both. It could be both. Listen, listen, listen here.

SPEAKER_00 35:40

Well, listen, Linda.

SPEAKER_03 35:42

I've been through some shit by a love bomber and I was fucked over. I was nervous because women well, and also Johnny Bravo came on real fucking strong. Do you not remember after our first date? He's like, So what are we, boyfriend, girlfriend? I'm like, what the fuck? Like, you want it, what?

SPEAKER_00 36:00

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 36:00

And then it was like leech on, latch on, and there's a reason.

SPEAKER_00 36:04

That was because he was That was the winker.

SPEAKER_03 36:08

We had we had come up with a different name.

SPEAKER_01 36:11

No, I love it.

SPEAKER_00 36:12

He is so bad.

SPEAKER_01 36:13

I love it. It's fit, it's fitting.

SPEAKER_03 36:16

It's fitting. It's fitting, especially for you.

SPEAKER_00 36:20

He asked me to be his girlfriend on the second date while we were wasted. And after he had just like got pulled over while intoxicated and got out of it because he called the cop out for break checking him. It was the craziest thing I'd ever seen. And then afterwards, it was like a fucking MacGyver movie. And he's like, Do you want to be my girlfriend? I was like, Yes, because I was wasted, and that was cool. And and then like two weeks later, he was like staying in my house every day. And then he tried to get me to boot a kid.

SPEAKER_01 36:52

Do you see a pattern here?

SPEAKER_00 36:54

This is why the 90-day role exists.

SPEAKER_03 36:57

I see a very solid pattern.

SPEAKER_00 37:00

Listen, this is why the 90 day role.

SPEAKER_03 37:01

Did he also like to talk on the phone a lot?

unknown 37:05

I don't remember.

SPEAKER_03 37:06

Because I remember that they all do. And I'm like, why? And you don't like that.

SPEAKER_00 37:11

I don't.

SPEAKER_03 37:12

So why don't you tell them?

SPEAKER_00 37:14

Oh, because well, I normally make jokes about the fact that I don't like talking on the phone because I turn everything into just jokes. It's how I cope. Um, and then I'm a the people pleaser in me. It's like, but that's what they want. So you it like I just do it.

SPEAKER_03 37:31

I think you should be like, hey, so the phone is really hard for me. Let's save our conversations for in person. Text me and I'll get back to it when I but just like it's a lot for me, and I'd rather save our conversations in person. They'll be so much better. Because what do you talk about when you see them? It's like I stared at you for the last 12 hours.

SPEAKER_00 37:48

So And I don't do well with eye contact.

SPEAKER_03 37:51

So I'm the worst.

SPEAKER_00 37:53

I don't know why anybody would want to see.

SPEAKER_03 37:55

I don't like FaceTime unless I'm like out. There's like a specific reason.

SPEAKER_00 37:59

Yeah, I just it's not my jam. The only people I talk to on the phone are you, Jen, and then whatever gentleman I am currently speaking to who likes to talk on the phone. I just I don't get it. I don't know.

SPEAKER_03 38:14

You should set that boundary.

Sobriety Grief And Friendship Growth

SPEAKER_00 38:16

I'm just once he starts working, he won't have time. He lives far away from me. He lives like an hour away drive, which I think is good because it makes it harder to say sounds awful. Like I can't do that every day. It's too much of a big thing.

SPEAKER_03 38:34

Like it drains my battery. Yes, and it's draining you being on the phone with him all the time. Just saying. It's the same thing. Yeah, it requires the same amount of energy, but I feel like for you it's more because you dislike it.

SPEAKER_00 38:46

Yeah. Well, and I'm just always so busy.

SPEAKER_03 38:48

Yeah, and you need some time to yourself. So on that note, I'm like, uh.

SPEAKER_00 38:57

Will I do it though? Probably not. I'm just gonna wait for it to be. Oh, okay.

SPEAKER_03 39:02

You never said what your third date was.

SPEAKER_00 39:04

Oh, uh, we went to Twigs in the Valley and they served him undercooked chicken. Oh yeah, it wasn't bad. It was pretty bad. We sent it back and they refunded it. Like it was, but yeah, it was pretty bad. Like he got two pieces and one was cooked, and one was like almost raw. It was in the middle. It was pretty bad.

SPEAKER_03 39:25

Gross.

SPEAKER_00 39:26

Yeah, and then we went and watched the uh Project Hail Mary movie. Loved it. Absolutely. It's such a nerdy fucking. But yes, because it w it was not a pre-planned event for us to see the movie. We made that decision because we were already at the mall and it was playing. So but it was a bad decision for my brother.

SPEAKER_03 39:48

The AMC.

SPEAKER_00 39:49

I know the AMC is the only place that I ever go to. So I should have known better. Especially because I just had a flare last weekend. It was relatively mild, but it still sucked. So I was just coming out of a flare, and then that movie is two and a half hours long. So once you had previews, we were sitting in those seats for three hours straight.

SPEAKER_03 40:09

And those seats are so uncomfortable.

SPEAKER_00 40:10

They're uncomfortable for a regular person, but like I can't do it. So I was so fucking fucked.

SPEAKER_03 40:16

I don't know how they have not remade that theater.

SPEAKER_00 40:20

No, because they charge more than the AMC, they are not as nice and they charge more. I don't understand. I would rather drive the 45 minutes to the AMC than the 20 minutes to any other fucking Regal.

unknown 40:32

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 40:33

Regal get on your seat game.

SPEAKER_00 40:35

Whatever. Yeah. But it was a good movie. And then like afterwards, we're walking out, and I felt so bad because I was constantly having to move. Like every five minutes, I have to change how I'm sitting because my body's broken. We're walking out, and my hip just pops so fucking loud. And I just look at him and I'm like, I'm not old.

SPEAKER_03 40:56

But you are. Okay, my hips have been popping too, but that's for other reasons. Well, wait, that sounded really bad. Actually, it did. It did pop, actually, during I was like, oh wow. But um like that felt better. It popped. Um it did. My hips have been like Janessa.

SPEAKER_00 41:22

I made Janessa like do some voodoo shit with my hip on Wednesday and she was able to get it to release finally, which is probably why it popped after being in the uncomfortable movie theater. But also, this gentleman is older than me.

SPEAKER_03 41:38

How much older?

SPEAKER_00 41:39

Like 12 years. Hey, welcome to the club. Welcome to the club. That's so funny.

SPEAKER_03 41:45

I love it here.

SPEAKER_00 41:48

I know they have real jobs here.

SPEAKER_03 41:51

And they're like real men. Can I tell you how much I really enjoy it?

SPEAKER_00 41:56

I got invited to go duck hunting or turkey hunting.

unknown 41:59

Okay.

SPEAKER_03 42:00

Not what we do. Not what we do.

SPEAKER_00 42:03

Yeah, but you know me how I feel about like manly men.

SPEAKER_03 42:06

Yes.

SPEAKER_00 42:07

Yeah, like he's a good one. I have a manly man. He just doesn't hunt.

SPEAKER_03 42:10

Okay, you like the woodsy. You like the lumberjack, yes.

SPEAKER_00 42:12

I do.

SPEAKER_03 42:13

I like a guy. I mean, like, I like that he's in the gym. We live together. He pushes me like extra hard. I love it. I don't know. See, we have other things. Right. You would not find us in the woods.

SPEAKER_00 42:21

But see, that's the funny thing, right? Like, I don't want to sleep in the woods.

SPEAKER_03 42:26

No.

SPEAKER_00 42:26

I don't drop a squat in the woods. No, we oh, we're gonna put the battery. But I like to go to the woods and then go to a comfortable bed with a backpack.

SPEAKER_03 42:33

Um when I go hiking, I get an Airbnb and I drive into the woods.

SPEAKER_00 42:36

Yes, yes. See?

SPEAKER_03 42:38

I get up super early, you drive to the trailhead, there's no reason to let you know.

SPEAKER_00 42:41

I will do that as long as it won't kill me.

SPEAKER_03 42:44

You will not make the hikes I go on, but I'll put a backpack on and carry you.

unknown 42:49

No.

SPEAKER_03 42:50

I would.

SPEAKER_00 42:51

Absolutely not. Um I like hiking. I just I can't do crazy I don't know. Crazy shit because my body eats.

SPEAKER_03 42:58

I'll send you the thing. It said it was hard. Felina was like, this is I was like, oh, it's fine, it's moderate. She looked it up and she's like, This is hard. I'm like, oh yeah, yeah, it does. Sorry. It's like 2,000 miles or 2,000 miles, 2,000 feet up, 2,000 feet down, four miles up, four miles down.

SPEAKER_00 43:18

Yeah, I know.

SPEAKER_03 43:20

That's the one I wanted to do. There's other ones.

SPEAKER_00 43:22

If you ever want to like go into Raster Mountain or Tubside, let me know.

SPEAKER_03 43:26

I'll do those too. Those are fun little quick ones. Yeah, that's my that's more my speed. I'm like really into the North Cascades and like get into the woods. And then there's times where I'm like, if I die, no one would know. Because there's no service out there. So like if something ate me.

SPEAKER_00 43:42

So I also have that thought, but mine is usually like when I'm driving my car.

Florida Cheer Worlds And Healing Movement

SPEAKER_03 43:48

I mean, you never know. No one would know. No, I said you'll you never know. And you said no one will know. Those are two different things. You're letting your intrusive thoughts win again. Don't do it.

SPEAKER_00 44:01

Sorry, it's been a while.

SPEAKER_03 44:02

You're not driving us to Oregon now.

SPEAKER_00 44:06

Listen, never with anyone else in the world. Listen. Never with anyone else. Oh my god. Okay. Oh, we are gonna attend the podcast road trip. We are we are going to try to podcast while being chauffeured. Um, that's gonna be fun.

SPEAKER_03 44:18

Braden's a great driver.

SPEAKER_00 44:20

Good. I'm not a great passenger, so it's a good one. He drives a speed limit, so it'll be like Oh, good. That's good.

SPEAKER_03 44:27

I don't know because sometimes it irritates me. I'm like, you do know you can't go and I'm like, Heather, don't say that. No, don't say that. But everything in means our bad habits. I know.

SPEAKER_00 44:35

My kids are they drive just as like me.

SPEAKER_03 44:38

Oh, no, mine Actually I drive better than that. But when we're in a hurry, I'm like, I'm gonna drive. Or when it's like through traffic, like when we were driving through Portland, I drive through the Portland part. Just because like I'm not too much stress him out or myself. Yeah. I'm really good driving. Yes.

SPEAKER_00 44:56

You want to hear something funny? Yes. Well, I thought always I think it's funny. Um, do you remember when I was waitressing and people kept asking me about my accent?

SPEAKER_03 45:05

That yes, that you yeah.

SPEAKER_00 45:07

So last night when we were at dinner, he brought up my fucking accent. And I was like, I don't have an accent. And he's like, mm-hmm, you do. It's lacy. And he's like, and it comes out more when you get like passionate about what you're saying. He's like, especially when you use that the fuck word. It's like, really? He's like, every time you say fuck, you get a little southern. It's like not even southern.

SPEAKER_03 45:31

It's like lacy. Like you have your own.

SPEAKER_00 45:33

I know, because everyone's like, I can't place it. They're like, I can tell you have one. It's just your own. But I don't know. It's just it's like a combo of every person I've ever been around because I'm so used to mimicking people.

SPEAKER_03 45:45

It's your autism.

SPEAKER_00 45:47

I know. All combined. Yes.

SPEAKER_03 45:50

It's like your brain.

SPEAKER_00 45:51

How do I make an imprint?

SPEAKER_03 45:52

You have an AI voice. You like your brain has taken everybody's voice and it like comes back out. Every time you meet someone new, it like filters it. Yeah. And it's slightly different.

SPEAKER_00 46:02

It adjusts slightly on certain words. Because I'll be like, oh, they pronounced it this way. So now I pronounce it that way. And I don't mean to, and I don't notice. It's okay though. But apparently everybody else does.

SPEAKER_03 46:19

It's the autism. It's the tism, but I love it.

SPEAKER_00 46:23

Rhism with autism.

SPEAKER_03 46:25

Now I just say that all the time because we can. We can blame it on that.

SPEAKER_00 46:31

Um we used to blame it on the alcohol. Blame it on the case.

SPEAKER_03 46:35

Now it's autism. Can you can you now say blame it on the autism?

SPEAKER_01 46:40

Blame it on the t-tis.

SPEAKER_03 46:42

There we go. I love that. Okay. Um and that I want to like record that. I'm gonna make that a soundbite. No. I'm gonna make that a soundbite.

SPEAKER_00 46:51

Damn it.

SPEAKER_03 46:52

That's so funny. I am. Um, but with that, we are gonna wrap up. Is there anything else you want to let them know that you've been up to?

SPEAKER_00 46:59

I don't remember.

SPEAKER_03 47:00

I mean, we were talking about Florida. Okay, so kids, Riot, Riot did not advance the day two. They're in cheat, you know, whatever. Stuff happens.

SPEAKER_00 47:06

Florida was we keep having our cars break down.

SPEAKER_03 47:09

You do oh, yeah. Lacey.

SPEAKER_00 47:11

Ash's car broke down, my car broke down. I still have to come up with another thousand dollars to fix something else. But they said I could drive it in the meantime, as long as I just keep adding coolant manually. Okay. It's fine. It's safe.

SPEAKER_03 47:24

It's fine. It's fine. All right. Well, on that note, we are um till next week. Thanks for catching up with us. This is a great um shit show chaos of a episode. We just we're talking about it.

SPEAKER_01 47:38

Welcome to Season, welcome to season four.

SPEAKER_03 47:41

Welcome. Welcome to the chaotic adventures. Okay, we promise the next episode will have a little flow to it.

SPEAKER_00 47:48

See you. We can't even end this. It's like getting off the phone. It's the same. We're like, how do you end it? How do you get off? Okay, bye. Stop it. Okay, just end it.

SPEAKER_03 47:57

See, bye guys. End of season not end the season four. End of episode one of season four.

SPEAKER_04 48:07

Shut it off!

How Do We End This

SPEAKER_03 48:09

Now I can't. Now you've made it too too difficult. You pointed it out, and now it won't end. Okay, it's ending.