we are NOT the SAME
We Are Not the Same: Join our comedic journey as Bodybuilder Barbie flexes her muscles against Daria’s dry wit! Dive into the hilarity of life’s twists and turns through the eyes of two contrasting besties who prove that different perspectives lead to the best stories. Tune in for laughs, randomness, and a sprinkle of chaos!
Episodes
47 episodes
Men Had No Idea Women Did These Things
Ever wondered what goes through a man's mind when he first discovers your collection of hair ties scattered throughout the house? Or the moment he realizes those cute jeans you're wearing don't have real pockets? In this laugh-out-...
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Season 3
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Episode 17
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54:41
We Have No Idea When Someone Is Flirting With Us
Ever found yourself completely clueless about whether someone is flirting with you? You're not alone! We're diving headfirst into the complicated world of flirtation, armed with hilarious dating app screenshots and our own awkward experiences.<...
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Season 3
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Episode 16
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1:01:21
Unveiling Pretty Privilege
The concept of pretty privilege might seem straightforward, but as our candid conversation reveals, it's anything but simple. We're diving deep into how physical appearance shapes our daily interactions, opportunities, and treatment from others...
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Season 3
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Episode 15
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57:10
The Recycling Game: Love, Dating and Colorado Hookups
Heather and Lacey reunite with newfound energy as they catch up on life's recent adventures. Heather triumphantly shares her MaxFit competition win that capped off her rookie pro season, while detailing her subsequent celebration in Florida com...
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Season 3
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Episode 14
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1:01:33
Two Friends, Six Dogs, and a Bowl of Happiness
When the world feels overwhelming and negativity threatens to take over, sometimes the most radical act is pausing to recognize what's good. In this heartfelt conversation, we dive deep into the transformative power of gratitude during life's h...
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Season 3
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Episode 13
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42:39
Behind the Bodybuilding Prep: Stress, Weight, and Friendship
Ever gained 4 pounds overnight despite doing everything "right"? You're not alone. This episode dives deep into the science of weight fluctuations and how stress impacts our bodies in surprising ways. We share a shocking real-life example of ga...
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Season 3
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Episode 12
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49:11
Salt Circles & Shuffled Decks: The Cards Never Lie
Ever wonder what the cards might reveal about your life's journey? In this captivating episode, we welcome energy worker and card reader Jenessa for an intimate session of live tarot and oracle readings that uncover surprising truths.Th...
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Season 3
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Episode 11
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51:34
When Mind and Memory Collide: The Trauma-ADHD Connection
"Is my brain actually broken, or is it just responding to something?" This question haunts millions of people trying to understand why they struggle with focus, emotional regulation, and executive function. In this raw and revealin...
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Season 3
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Episode 10
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48:50
Unpacking Our Past: From Massive Poufs to Parental Drama
Ever wondered what happens when two friends record their lives during a complete emotional spiral? That's exactly what we did in season one of this podcast, and now we're looking back at those wild times with a mixture of horror and amusement.<...
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Season 3
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Episode 9
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47:57
Trauma in the Tissues: How Massage Therapy Unlocks Physical and Emotional Healing
Have you ever wondered why that nagging pain in your shoulder won't go away despite massages, stretching, and even medication? The answer might surprise you—your body could be physically manifesting emotional trauma you haven't processed.
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Season 3
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Episode 8
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49:58
The Universe Keeps Testing Us: Dating Disasters and Dessert Therapy
Dessert has never tasted so sweet as when you're finally free from competition prep restrictions. In this celebratory episode, Heather and Lacey indulge in a variety of treats while catching up on life, love, and the pursuit of the perfect ...
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Season 3
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Episode 7
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49:16
Fiddlefaddle & Friend Requests: When Girl Code Gets Messy
What happens when your ex-friend's ex-husband sends you a friend request? Does Girl Code have an expiration date? We're untangling the complex web of unwritten rules that guide female friendships and setting the record straight on what Girl Cod...
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Season 3
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Episode 6
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28:43
The Co-Star Confessional: When Your Horoscope Calls You Out
Have you ever had an app read your soul so accurately you felt personally attacked? That's exactly what happened when we dove into astrology through the Co-Star app in this unplanned but revealing episode.What started as casual conversa...
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Season 3
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Episode 5
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50:54
Milk, Mustard, and Moving Forward
What keeps us locked in cycles of trauma, and how do we finally break free? This raw, vulnerable conversation takes you through our parallel journeys of healing from toxic relationships and traumatic experiences.The conversation opens w...
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Season 3
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Episode 4
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46:37
Trauma-Rama: When Life Gives You Lemons (Or Tiny Ankles)
The wounds we carry from childhood often define how we navigate adulthood, especially in our relationships. In this deeply personal episode, we pull back the curtain on our experiences growing up with alcoholic parents and how these early traum...
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Season 3
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Episode 3
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46:49
Healing Through Dissociation: Our Journey with Therapeutic Ketamine
Have you ever wanted to peek behind the curtain of an emerging mental health treatment that's changing lives? Step into our world as we share our raw, unfiltered experiences with ketamine therapy—recorded just hours after Heather's infusion ses...
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Season 3
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Episode 2
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44:16
What happens when two friends barely see each other for months?
We've returned for Season 3 after months apart, with both of us navigating wildly different paths from bodybuilding competitions to wedding preparations. Our separate journeys finally converge as we catch up on everything we've missed.•...
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Season 3
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Episode 1
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47:47
We Should Be Recording This
Two best friends hosts Heather and Lacey accidentally create podcast magic when they hit record during their pre-show garden chat. What unfolds is a genuine glimpse into female friendship at its most authentic—unfiltered, unpredictable, and utt...
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Season 2
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Episode 23
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34:57
So You're Dating A Walking Red Flag... Now What?
Ever been blindsided by learning what someone really thinks about you? This raw, unfiltered episode dives into a jaw-dropping Reddit "Am I the Asshole" story that left us both stunned—a woman who overheard her boyfriend of eight years telling h...
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Season 2
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Episode 22
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43:38
Confess-a-thon: The Game Where Nobody Wins But Everyone Laughs
After a heavy episode about ketamine therapy, Heather and Lacey lighten the mood with a nostalgic game of "Never Have I Ever" that quickly spirals into a hilarious confessional of their wild pasts. What begins as innocent reminiscing transforms...
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Season 2
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Episode 21
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47:52
What You Don't Know About Ketamine Could Change Your Life
Stepping into the world of ketamine therapy isn't just about finding another treatment—it's about discovering possibility when hope seems lost. In this illuminating conversation with Tina from the Ketamine Clinic of Spokane, we peel back the la...
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Season 2
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Episode 20
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44:47
The Camera Never Lies, But Some Dates Do
Sometimes the most meaningful realizations happen when you're not trying to have them. This episode begins with celebrating a small victory—finally setting up our video camera after years of saying we would—before diving into the fascinating re...
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Season 2
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Episode 19
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54:22
Ring Around the Crazy: Engagement Stories That Will Make You Cringe
From awkward teenage proposals to social media engagement stunts we never agreed to, our worst proposal stories reveal the messy reality behind those picture-perfect moments everyone expects.Nothing says romance like being proposed to a...
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Season 2
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Episode 18
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41:08
Swipe Right for Hilarity: Our Dating App Adventures!
In this hilarious and eye-opening episode of We Are NOT the SAME, hosts Lacey and Heather dive into the wild world of dating apps! Buckle up as they share their latest updates on the apps they've downloaded—it's a journey filled with unexpected...
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Season 2
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Episode 17
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43:34
Therapy Wanted or Not: When ‘Help’ is Forced Upon You
In this hilarious episode of We Are NOT the SAME, hosts Lacey and Heather tackle the wild world of therapy—whether you wanted it or not! 🤪 Ever wondered who had therapy forced upon them? Spoiler alert: one of our hosts was committed! <...
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Season 2
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Episode 16
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53:38