we are NOT the SAME
We Are Not the Same: Join our comedic journey as Bodybuilder Barbie flexes her muscles against Daria’s dry wit! Dive into the hilarity of life’s twists and turns through the eyes of two contrasting besties who prove that different perspectives lead to the best stories. Tune in for laughs, randomness, and a sprinkle of chaos!
Episodes
59 episodes
ENCORE: Shelf Titties, Googly Eyes, And Other Cautionary Tales
ENCORE EPISODE RECORDED 1/12/21Start with a laugh, stay for the honesty. We take a candid tour through the world of boobs—how asymmetry is normal, why fitness often shrinks volume, and what actually happens when you choose implants. From...
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1:03:41
Crunch, Play, Repeat
Ever wonder what your year in music says about your actual life? We dive into our stats and instantly hit a fork in the road: one of us is a pop punk lifer (Alkaline Trio, Sum 41, Paramore), the other a card-carrying rave kid with a soft spot f...
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Season 3
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Episode 28
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45:33
Society Peaked In the 90s
The brighter the colors, the bigger the smile—remember when fast food had mascots, Taco Bell had a talking chihuahua, and McDonald’s seats looked like fries? We dive into why the 90s felt alive and playful, and why today’s beige minimalism leav...
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Season 3
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Episode 27
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40:56
I Tried To Sleep In Silence And My Brain Said NOPE
Silence isn’t silent for everyone. We open with the weird whoosh of tinnitus and how a quiet bedroom can feel louder than a city street, then work our way through sleep debt, anxiety, and the hopeful promise of habits that actually stick. One o...
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Season 3
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Episode 26
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46:28
If Trauma Had A Delete Button, My Ex Would Be First In Line
What would you trade for peace of mind—a full year of your memory, a single person who did damage, or nothing at all? We crack open a messy, honest thought experiment and chase it through the real costs: identity, relationships, and the lessons...
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Season 3
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Episode 25
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59:47
My GPS Said “Two Minutes Away” Then “Fourteen” And Honestly Same
Ever been “two minutes away,” then suddenly fourteen, then two again? We start with the comedy of autopilot driving and glitchy GPS, then follow the tangents to where life actually happens: cheer season’s hidden workload, why counting beats mat...
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Season 3
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Episode 24
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44:53
Mega Aries, Minor Chaos, Major Healing
What happens when the scary card isn’t scary at all? We pull “death,” talk through what real endings look like, and watch it open a door to rebirth, revival, and a softer self that finally gets to breathe. Along the way we get honest about the ...
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42:27
Luck, Letting Go, And The Ego Trap
Luck is knocking, but only after you put down the picture in your head. We kick off with a collective reading that hits on three themes—release, pride, and timing—then step right into a raw, unguarded session where life’s chaos collides with re...
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Season 3
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Episode 21
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54:07
My Brain Needs A Manager, Not Another Pill
What if the story you’ve been told about depression and anxiety is too small for what you’re actually living? We dive straight into the messy middle—where SSRIs’ origin stories meet the placebo effect, where side effects complicate recovery, an...
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Season 3
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Episode 21
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57:26
Two best friends try to record a structured show, accidentally make it therapy, and end up solving nothing—but laughing at everything
Ever notice how a “quick catch-up” turns into the real show? We slide under a mountain of blankets, confess the latest ADHD detours, and admit that structure doesn’t stand a chance when life is shifting—work, weather, relationships, and energy....
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Season 3
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Episode 20
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50:04
Love Languages, Without the Fluff
Ever wonder why some gestures land and others miss by a mile? We went beyond the memes and took a full love language quiz—yes, we even paid for the results—then held the mirror up to our past relationships, boundaries, and blind spots. The numb...
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Season 3
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Episode 19
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45:49
Eeyore & Tigger Energy
The mic caught us on a hard day—and we kept it rolling. Lacey names a depressive episode with no clear trigger, and we talk through what sadness feels like when it’s lodged in the body, why masking becomes second nature, and how a simple ritual...
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Season 3
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Episode 18
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56:53
Men Had No Idea Women Did These Things
Ever wondered what goes through a man's mind when he first discovers your collection of hair ties scattered throughout the house? Or the moment he realizes those cute jeans you're wearing don't have real pockets? In this laugh-out-...
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Season 3
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Episode 17
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54:41
We Have No Idea When Someone Is Flirting With Us
Ever found yourself completely clueless about whether someone is flirting with you? You're not alone! We're diving headfirst into the complicated world of flirtation, armed with hilarious dating app screenshots and our own awkward experiences.<...
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Season 3
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Episode 16
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1:01:21
Unveiling Pretty Privilege
The concept of pretty privilege might seem straightforward, but as our candid conversation reveals, it's anything but simple. We're diving deep into how physical appearance shapes our daily interactions, opportunities, and treatment from others...
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Season 3
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Episode 15
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57:10
The Recycling Game: Love, Dating and Colorado Hookups
Heather and Lacey reunite with newfound energy as they catch up on life's recent adventures. Heather triumphantly shares her MaxFit competition win that capped off her rookie pro season, while detailing her subsequent celebration in Florida com...
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Season 3
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Episode 14
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1:01:33
Two Friends, Six Dogs, and a Bowl of Happiness
When the world feels overwhelming and negativity threatens to take over, sometimes the most radical act is pausing to recognize what's good. In this heartfelt conversation, we dive deep into the transformative power of gratitude during life's h...
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Season 3
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Episode 13
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42:39
Behind the Bodybuilding Prep: Stress, Weight, and Friendship
Ever gained 4 pounds overnight despite doing everything "right"? You're not alone. This episode dives deep into the science of weight fluctuations and how stress impacts our bodies in surprising ways. We share a shocking real-life example of ga...
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Season 3
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Episode 12
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49:11
Salt Circles & Shuffled Decks: The Cards Never Lie
Ever wonder what the cards might reveal about your life's journey? In this captivating episode, we welcome energy worker and card reader Jenessa for an intimate session of live tarot and oracle readings that uncover surprising truths.Th...
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Season 3
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Episode 11
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51:34
When Mind and Memory Collide: The Trauma-ADHD Connection
"Is my brain actually broken, or is it just responding to something?" This question haunts millions of people trying to understand why they struggle with focus, emotional regulation, and executive function. In this raw and revealin...
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Season 3
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Episode 10
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48:50
Unpacking Our Past: From Massive Poufs to Parental Drama
Ever wondered what happens when two friends record their lives during a complete emotional spiral? That's exactly what we did in season one of this podcast, and now we're looking back at those wild times with a mixture of horror and amusement.<...
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Season 3
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Episode 9
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47:57
Trauma in the Tissues: How Massage Therapy Unlocks Physical and Emotional Healing
Have you ever wondered why that nagging pain in your shoulder won't go away despite massages, stretching, and even medication? The answer might surprise you—your body could be physically manifesting emotional trauma you haven't processed.
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Season 3
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Episode 8
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49:58
The Universe Keeps Testing Us: Dating Disasters and Dessert Therapy
Dessert has never tasted so sweet as when you're finally free from competition prep restrictions. In this celebratory episode, Heather and Lacey indulge in a variety of treats while catching up on life, love, and the pursuit of the perfect ...
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Season 3
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Episode 7
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49:16
Fiddlefaddle & Friend Requests: When Girl Code Gets Messy
What happens when your ex-friend's ex-husband sends you a friend request? Does Girl Code have an expiration date? We're untangling the complex web of unwritten rules that guide female friendships and setting the record straight on what Girl Cod...
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Season 3
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Episode 6
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28:43
The Co-Star Confessional: When Your Horoscope Calls You Out
Have you ever had an app read your soul so accurately you felt personally attacked? That's exactly what happened when we dove into astrology through the Co-Star app in this unplanned but revealing episode.What started as casual conversa...
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Season 3
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Episode 5
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50:54