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Let’s Play a Game… Are You a Boundary Pusher or the Eraser?

Teresa Schlup, The Original Caffeine Creative Episode 78

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Boundaries sound simple… until you actually start paying attention to how they show up in your day-to-day life.

In this episode, we’re playing a little game: Are you the boundary pusher… or the boundary eraser? Through real-life scenarios you’ll probably recognize immediately

We will be taking a closer look at the small, everyday moments where boundaries get tested, ignored, or quietly disappear. Some of these might feel uncomfortably familiar. You might see yourself showing up as the one overcommitting, over giving, or saying “it’s fine” when it really isn’t.

Or you might catch yourself pushing limits without even realizing it.

Either way, this isn’t about blame. It’s about awareness.

Because once you can see the pattern, you can start to change it, and create healthier, more respectful relationships in every area of your life.

What I hope you take away from today's episode...

  • Not every boundary issue is someone else’s fault
  • Sometimes we’re participating in the pattern without realizing it
  • You can be both a boundary pusher and a boundary eraser depending on the situation
  • Avoiding uncomfortable conversations doesn’t keep the peace
  • You don’t have to be rude to be honest. Clear communication can still be kind
  • Letting people struggle a little is sometimes the most respectful thing you can do
  • Boundaries start with YOU (and me too!) 

Links to connect with me...
Book a Consult HERE! (https://caffeinecreative.io/consult/)
Email me HERE! theperfectblendcaffeinecreative.io


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