The Voice of You Podcast

16. In Defense of People Pleasers (and the Strength You Didn't Know You Had)

Molly Noerenberg

If you've ever found yourself saying yes when you meant no...
 If you've ever felt like it was your job to keep everyone else happy...
If you've ever wondered why it's so hard to put yourself first without guilt—

This episode is for you.

Today, we’re digging deep into the heart of people-pleasing — and why it’s not a weakness.

It’s not about being "too nice" or "too soft."
It’s about strength. Survival. And the incredible ways your body has learned to protect you.

Inside, we’ll explore:

  • What the "fawn" response really is (and why it makes so much sense)
  • Why people-pleasing isn’t about brokenness—it’s about brilliance that needs updating
  • How to honor the part of you that learned to take care of everyone else—and begin learning how to care for yourself too
  • The real questions to ask yourself if you're ready to change the pattern (without self-blame or shame)

Because healing isn’t about getting rid of your instincts.
It’s about meeting them with love—and building new ones that serve you too.

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💫 Are you wanting to build a stronger connection to your inner knowing so that you can build a life that reflects who you ACTUALLY are and who you want to be in the world?

I would love to help you.

I currently work with folks in one of two ways. Through my group embodiment experiences as a licensed Ishtara teacher and in a high touch, highly personalized journey in 1:1 coaching.

You can learn more about both options at:
ExpressedLife.com/workwithme.

I would also love to stay in touch on instagram @Expressed Life.


🎶 Podcast theme music written by the fabulous Rachel Dean!
https://www.racheldeanmusic.com/