Marriage Unmasked

Best of Marriage Unmasked: How to Rebuild Attraction in a Marriage that Hurts

Adam and Cara Nitz

This episode continues to be our most listened-to conversation, so we're bringing it back for those who missed it, and those who need a refresh. 

What do you do when you're not attracted to your spouse anymore? 

If the attraction isn't there, does it mean it's over? 

In this episode, we’re unmasking what’s really underneath the loss of attraction in marriage and why it’s not just about physical appearance or effort. We explore how rebuilding attraction is less about trying harder and more about healing what's underneath and we give some practical ways to start getting that attraction back again. 

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