Heart Versus Head
A podcast that helps couples fight better and connect again. We're a relationship podcast that keeps it short and gives you and your partner something to talk about... something to argue about... in a meaningful way that turns your differences into strengths. This is Heart Versus Head.
Heart Versus Head
How To Judge Your Partner
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Judging. You know you're doing it. It's natural. It's the comparison nature of having a human brain. You compare yourself to others and that very human action comes with judgement. In this episode, Randy and Beverly explore a better way to judge a partner. Whether you're dating someone and wondering if they're a fit or you're married and trying to understand your partner, you'll see the benefit of judging based on your partner's values, instead of your own. That sounds complex (even for me, as I was typing it in the episode description) but we explain it better in the episode. Jump in as we explore exes, ex-pets, and the eternal relationship question: why didn't you text me back? #HeartVersusHead #YoureJudgingWrong
Heart Versus Head is a podcast about relationship styles and how those relationship styles influence communication in the most important relationships. The hosts - Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock - are a married couple who are sought-after relationship coaches, award-winning authors and regular people who (like everyone in relationships) are just trying to stay connected through all the noise of life in the modern world. You can learn more about the couple and their work at HeartAndHeadCoaching.com, where you'll learn to fight better and connect again. Or check out their relationship books: Heart Versus Head: How to Communicate and Connect When Nothing Else Works (2026) and The Couples Rulebook (2019).