What do you do that triggers your partner? What do you that causes them to blow up like a landmine? For Randy, it's criticism. For Beverly, it's looking over her shoulder. But how do you handle those things as a couple? How do you avoid the lan...

In this episode, Randy and Beverly help couples explore why we put so much pressure on our partners and ourselves when it comes to happiness. When it is someone's responsibility to make you happy... they're going to let you down. Not because th...

In this episode, Randy and Beverly explore why relationships tend to experience less "fun" over time. Many couples talk about how things 'used to be' exciting and fun but now they're stuck in a world of sitting on the couch at the end of the da...

Let's fight about money. Doesn't everyone? Probably - at some level and some point. In this episode, Randy and Beverly explore the deeper issues that need to be part of your relationship's money arguments. When it's just about the money, then y...

In the first episode of Season 2, hosts Randy Hampton and Beverly Craddock explain how Hearts and Heads talk differently about what they want and what they need. Join them as they discuss a couple who struggled with the kids always sleeping in ...

Well, put a big bow on Season One of the Heart Versus Head podcast. In this episode, Randy and Beverly recap their favorite episodes from the 2025 season and look forward to Season 2 - with all new episodes diving even deeper into why Heart par...

Just 'cuz you're sitting together... doesn't mean you're connected. The Head partner often has the feeling that being in the same space is 'good enough' as a means of connection. Watching TV together is not bad but it's not real connection. You...

Have you heard about "gray divorce" or "silver splits"? These are the terms that social scientists, therapists and divorce attorneys are using to describe the growing trend of older couples getting divorced after 50. In this episode, Randy and ...

If you've ever felt like your partner put other things ahead of you... then you're going to want to listen to this episode of Heart Versus Head. Randy and Beverly talk about how to make your partner a priority, especially when human chaos break...

We're busting some ghosts on this episode. If you've been ghosted or are a "ghoster"... let's talk about a better way. It's time to be honest, even when it sucks. In just 20 minutes, you'll hear Randy and Beverly explain how Heads and Hearts sh...

Are you a princess waiting for a prince to rescue you? In this episode, Randy and Beverly talk about grand, romantic gestures and why too many Hollywood stereotypes about love have actually made relationships harder. Even if you achieve great r...

In this episode, we're diving into why Hearts are toughest on other Hearts and Heads are more critical of other Heads. If you've ever been judgmental of your children's dating choices or of a co-worker's screw up, then this one is for you. Even...

Have you ever had a disagreement because your partner was upset about something else and then they got mad at you for not listening, not understanding or not being supportive... when you thought you were trying to help? Or are you the partner t...

Is Halloween a relationship holiday? In this episode, Randy and Beverly explore the horrors of relationships, including the topic of attachment styles. If you've got ghosts of exes past, skeletons in the closet, or a mask you wear, this one is ...

In this episode, Randy and Beverly dive into Rule #13 from The Couples Rulebook - Fight by the Rules. Are you ready to learn how you can use disagreements to create stronger connection in your relationship? Do you know how to de-escalate by sta...

In this episode, the hosts explore how more and more people are turning to AI for relationship advice. But is that advice any good or can it do more harm than good? Can a chatbot be useful in solving relationship communication issues? Randy and...

Head-led partners focus a lot of energy on being factually correct but that can seem harsh and uncaring to their Heart partner. Listen as Randy and Beverly discuss an argument they had about something that should not have been an argument. How ...

Heart partners, does your Head partner roll their eyes or give you an exasperated look when your emotions start running strong? There is usually much more to "the look" than disdain, disgust, or disinterest. Maybe, they just don't understand yo...

Is everything their fault? Even if it is, if you focus on fixing your partner, you'll end up wasting a lot of your energy. In this episode, Beverly and Randy explore why focusing on yourself will generally yield better relationship results. #He...

Heart partners, have you ever gotten mad at your Head partner for something they did IN A DREAM? This is an example of "What you said... in my head."  This week we're talking about how easy it is to make up a story that leads to an argumen...

Have you ever felt like your Head partner was hard to love? Not because they didn't deserve it but because they couldn't seem to accept it... no matter how hard you try? In this episode, Beverly and Randy examine the critical inner voice that H...

In this episode, Randy and Beverly explore the dangerous waters of broken trust. From infidelity to addiction, there are a million ways to mess up the trust in your relationship. But how do you get it back? If you and your partner have encounte...

Are you the Heart partner or the Head partner in your relationship? This is the episode that will give you the communication clues to discover your role. Hearts lead with everyone's feelings and Heads lead with logic and facts. It doesn't means...

In this episode, Randy and Beverly discuss how to handle the touchy subject of interactions with ex-partners, especially when kids are involved. You can't just block 'em and walk away. Whether it's scheduling custody handoffs or providing detai...

In this episode, Randy and Beverly talk about men checking out other women -  from a glance at the cute girl at the mall to the bit too long look at the girls on the beach. Sexual attraction may be biological but it's a dangerous minefield...