S10 E2 Saying Goodbye – Helping Children Process Change and Loss

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Supporting children to manage goodbyes, express emotions, and hold onto meaningful memories.

In this episode of Mindful Moments with Miss Harrison, children explore one of the most powerful parts of change: saying goodbye. Whether it’s leaving a place, a person, a pet, or a familiar routine, goodbyes can bring big emotions that are sometimes difficult to understand.

Through Isla’s story, children learn that it is completely normal to feel sadness, worry, or even anger when something important comes to an end. By finding gentle ways to remember, reflect, and carry special memories forward, children can begin to process these emotions with care and confidence.

This episode helps children understand that although goodbyes can feel heavy, they are also filled with meaning, love, and the memories we take with us.

What children will learn in this episode:

• Why saying goodbye can feel difficult
• That strong emotions during goodbyes are normal and valid
• How to reflect on special memories in a positive way
• Ways to stay connected to people, places, or experiences after change

Emotional Skills from Miss Harrison:

• Remember and reflect: Talk, draw, or write about special memories
• Say a real goodbye: Take a moment to acknowledge the ending with a wave, hug, or quiet thought
• Carry something with you: Keep a photo, object, or memory that helps you stay connected
• Accept your feelings: It’s okay to feel sad and still smile at happy memories

These approaches help children process loss, build emotional resilience, and move forward with confidence.

Mindful Moment Challenge:

This week, if you need to say goodbye to something—big or small—try writing a short goodbye letter or drawing a memory. Think about what made it special and how you can carry it with you.

You might use this simple structure:

• Dear…
• Thank you for…
• I will always remember…
• Even though I feel…
• I can carry you with me by…

Perfect for:

• Primary school-aged children experiencing transitions or endings
• Classrooms exploring PSHE, SEL, or emotional wellbeing
• Families supporting children through moves, school changes, or loss
• Teachers and pastoral leads helping children process emotions

Quote of the Week:

“Goodbyes can feel heavy—but they are full of love, memories, and meaning.”

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Transcript

Hello everyone and welcome back to Mindful Moments with Miss Harrison. I'm Miss Harrison and I'm so glad you're here for another episode in our Coping with Change series. Last time we talked about why change feels hard and how it's completely normal to feel a mix of emotions when things shift. Did you try your Mindful Moment challenge and name your feelings during a change? I hope it helps you to feel a little more calm and in control. Today we're going to talk about something that can feel really big, saying goodbye. 

By the end of this episode, you'll have gentle ways to handle the feelings that come with farewells, endings, and letting go. Let's begin. Goodbyes come in all shapes and sizes. Sometimes we say goodbye to a person we love, a pet, a favourite place, a teacher or class, or even a special routine we were used to. Saying goodbye can bring up sadness, worry, or even anger. That's because when we say goodbye, it often means something important is changing or ending. 

and that can feel like a little piece of our heart is shifting too. Let's hear a story about someone who faced a very difficult goodbye. Isla's family was moving to a new town. She was excited about her new house, but one thing made her feel really sad, leaving her favourite park. She had played there since she was little. She knew every tree, every swing, and the exact spot where her dog liked to dig. 

On her last visit, Isla sat quietly on the grass and let her feelings come. A tear rolled down her cheek. Her mum handed her the small notebook and said, let's draw and write about your favourite memories here. So Isla drew the tallest slide, wrote about the time she learned to swing all by herself, and even pressed a flower from the park into the pages. When it was time to leave, she gave the park one last wave and whispered, thank you. Her heart still felt heavy, but now she carried a part of the park with her. 

What do you think helped Isla feel a little better? Just like Isla, we can find gentle ways to manage our feelings when we say goodbye. Here are three helpful ideas. Remember and reflect. Draw a picture, write a story, or talk about the memories you made. Say a real goodbye. 

Whether it's a wave, a hug, or a quiet thought, give yourself a moment to honour the goodbye. Finally, carry something with you. A photo, a small item, or a memory in your heart can help you feel connected, even after something changes. Goodbyes are hard, but they can also be full of love and meaning. Have you ever had to say goodbye to something or someone special? What helped you then? 

Let's write a little goodbye letter in our minds or on paper if you'd like. When I pause, finish my sentence. Dear, thank you for, I will always remember, even though I feel, I know I can carry you with me by, good job. You could write this to a place, a pet, a teacher or even a part of your day that's changing. It's okay to feel sad and it's okay to smile at the good memories too. You've done such brave and thoughtful work today, learning how to face goodbyes with care and courage. 

Always remember, goodbyes can feel heavy but they are part of life and growth. It's okay to feel lots of emotions all at once. Remembering, honouring and carrying your memories with you can help your heart feel lighter. Here's your mindful moment challenge for the week. If you need to say goodbye to something soon, big or small, try writing or drawing about it. Give yourself a moment to reflect and find a way to carry something meaningful with you. 

Next time on Mindful Moments with Miss Harrison, we'll talk about new beginnings and how to welcome change with curiosity and hope. I can't wait to explore that with you. Thank you for joining me today. Keep feeling, keep remembering, and as always, keep shining.