Life Coaches Unfiltered

Spotting the Narcissist: Covert, Overt, and Everything In Between

Life Coaches Season 2 Episode 10

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 This episode tackles the narcissist field guide using Dr. Ramani's book "It's Not You."   (affiliate link)

Spoiler: there are seven flavors of nightmare, and you've probably dated at least three. 

The Narcissist Menu: 

  1. Grandiose: Main character energy, zero self-awareness
  2. Vulnerable/Covert: Professional victim, guilt-trip world champion 
  3. Communal: Martyrs who never let you forget their "sacrifices" 
  4. Somatic: Mirror-obsessed, gym is their personality 
  5. Neglectful: Emotionally MIA, couldn't care if they tried 
  6. Self-Righteous: Judge Judy without the paycheck 
  7. Malignant: Actual danger. DELETE THEIR NUMBER. 

You Might Be Dealing With One If: 

  •  Every conversation feels like emotional CrossFit 
  • "It's always your fault" is the household motto 
  • Your gut instinct filed for divorce 

Survival Mode: 

  • Trust yourself, set boundaries, document everything 
  • Therapy isn't optional—it's survival 
  • Stop rescuing grown adults 

Golden Nugget: "Empaths and narcissists both run on unmet needs." – Dr. Ramani 

Next Episode: How to stay sane when the world's gone full circus. How to stay sane in an insane world. 

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