Life Coaches Unfiltered

The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly of New Year’s Resolutions

Life Coaches Season 3 Episode 1

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New year, new goals… same burnout? In this episode of Life Coaches Unfiltered, the coaches get real about goal setting, New Year’s resolutions, and why big, lofty goals often backfire - especially for women already exhausted and in survival mode.​

​New Year’s goal-setting sounds great on paper. Next thing you know,  you’re two weeks in, already “behind,” and ready to say “forget it” to every resolution you made. In this honest conversation, Desiree, Michelle, and Doree unpack the good, the bad, and the ugly of goal setting, from vision boards and flip charts to bonfire resolutions that go up in smoke (literally).

​Michelle shares why she loves goals as bite-sized direction (not giant life contracts), how realistic goals create clarity and momentum, and why most people overwhelm themselves with huge, vague resolutions. 

Doree talks about her mixed feelings as a hypnotherapist during “resolution season,” including her story of throwing a pack of cigarettes into a New Year’s bonfire… then trying to bum a smoke an hour later. 

Desiree names the pressure and shame that come with goals when you’re in midlife, grieving, caregiving, or just plain tired, and asks the question no one likes to admit: How do you set a goal for a life you haven’t even imagined yet?

​You’ll hear the difference between resolutions and actual plans, why “all-or-nothing” goals are so damaging, and how to create goals that fit the season you’re in instead of punishing you for not being farther along. The coaches also explore process goals vs. outcome goals, and how tiny, consistent actions beat grand declarations every time.

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In this episode, we talk about:

  • Why New Year’s resolutions so often fail. SPOILER: It’s not because you’re lazy or “bad at follow-through”
  • How to set realistic, bite-sized goals that don’t trigger shame, perfectionism, or all-or-nothing thinking
  • How midlife, grief, caregiving, and burnout change the way your brain and body relate to goals



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