Life Coaches Unfiltered
Life Coaches Unfiltered is a bi-weekly podcast for the midlife woman who feels stressed, burned out, and stuck.
Hosted by three life coaches with very different specialties: Desiree, Michelle, and Doree. Each episode blends coaching tools, real stories, and unfiltered conversation so you feel seen, not judged.
If you’re a woman in midlife dealing with chronic stress, emotional exhaustion, people-pleasing, “numbing out,” anxiety spirals, toxic positivity, gaslighting, or narcissism in relationships, this show helps you understand what’s really going on and what to do next: one small, doable step at a time.
You’ll hear episodes on:
- Burnout, boundaries, people-pleasing, and over-apologizing (“The Apology Epidemic”).
- Anxiety spirals, hypervigilance, and finding calm in chaos.
- Numbing out with food, scrolling, and busyness. And healthier ways to cope.
- Narcissism, gaslighting, and reclaiming your reality in confusing relationships.
- Growth mindset vs. staying in survival mode, midlife career shifts, and redefining success.
Whether you’re juggling work, caregiving, and everyone else’s needs or quietly wondering “Is this really it?,” Life Coaches Unfiltered gives you practical coaching strategies, uncomfortable-but-important questions, and compassionate truth-telling to help you move from overwhelmed and burned out to clearer, calmer, and more in charge of your own lif
Life Coaches Unfiltered
Why Your Brain Won’t Shut Off: Breaking the Overthinking Loop
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If overthinking burned calories, half of us would already be in our goal jeans. Instead, it’s burning us out. It’s impacting our sleep, time, and sanity. In this episode of Life Coaches Unfiltered, Desiree, Michelle, and Doree get honest about what happens when your brain won’t shut off, you’re "catastrophizing" every scenario, and you’re replaying past conversations on a loop.
They unpack what overthinking actually is, how it shows up as rumination about the past and worry about the future, and why your nervous system believes worst-case scenarios are keeping you safe.
Along the way, they share real-life stories - from ice-storm prep with contingency plans all the way to Z, to lying awake worrying about insurance claims, to imagining you’ve ruined a relationship just because someone hasn’t texted back.
You’ll also hear how perfectionism, people-pleasing, grief, and busyness all feed overthinking, and where the line is between healthy reflection and mental torture. Most importantly, the coaches offer simple, practical tools you can use right away: how to notice when you’re looping, how to get thoughts out of your head and onto paper, and how to gently question your own stories with “Is this true?” and “Where is the evidence?”.
In this episode, we cover:
- What overthinking is and how it differs from problem-solving
- Rumination about the past vs. anxiety about the future
- Real-life examples of catastrophizing (storms, insurance, step-parenting, texts)
- How grief and constant busyness can delay emotions until you finally slow down
- The perfectionism trap and analysis paralysis at work and at home
- When overthinking becomes a problem (sleep, looping, stalled decisions, relationships)
- List-making, brain dumps, and time-limited “thinking windows”
- Becoming your own inner coach with evidence checks and kinder self-talk
- How to approach conversations when you’re afraid you hurt someone
You’ll walk away with:
- Language to spot when you’ve crossed from planning into overthinking
- Practical tools to interrupt 3 AM spirals and fall asleep more easily
- A way to question your stories without gaslighting yourself
Permission to take one small imperfect action instead of waiting for things to feel perfect
Desiree, compassionate Grief Mentor & Coach. Helping midlife humans learn and grow from grief & loss.
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