Life Coaches Unfiltered

How to Choose a Life Coach: Red Flags, Green Flags, and What to Ask Before You Hire

Life Coaches Season 4 Episode 1

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Life coaching is everywhere right now, but how do you know if a life coach will be a fit for you? 

In this episode of Life Coaches Unfiltered, Desiree, Michelle, and Doree break down how to choose a life coach you can trust, what life coaching actually is, and how it differs from therapy, mentoring, and advice from friends.

They talk candidly about red flags, green flags, credentials, confidentiality, contracts, values alignment, and why the right coach should feel like a fit, not a sales pitch. 

You’ll also hear real examples of what to look for, what to avoid, and how to ask smart questions before investing your time, money, and heart.

If you’ve ever wondered

🤔 “How do I find a good life coach?”

❓“What questions should I ask before hiring one?”

This episode gives you a grounded, practical starting point.

In this episode:

  • Why life coaching has become so popular and why it can be hard to tell who is credible.
  • What life coaching is at a high level, and how it differs from therapy and mentoring.
  • Why coaching should be objective, collaborative, and centered on the client’s goals.
  • Red flags to watch for, including hard sells, ego-driven coaching, lack of listening, and shame-based sales tactics.
  • Green flags to look for, including certifications, training, integrity, clear pricing, confidentiality, and a strong fit.
  • Why connection, values alignment, and coachability matter.
  • Questions to ask before hiring a coach, including contract terms, refunds, session limits, cancellation policies, and confidentiality.
  • How EAP benefits and payment plans may make coaching more accessible.

Key takeaway: a great coach should help you feel heard, supported, and more clear - not pressured or worse than when you started.


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