Saying the Unsaid

2 friends discussing the surprising invitations, terrors, replications, possibilities and intimacy of process groups.

Podcasting since 2025 • 62 episodes

Saying the Unsaid

Latest Episodes

GROUP AS MOTHER + RECONSTRUCTIVE LIP SURGERY

Vanessa + Sarah discuss an article by Dr. Nancy McWilliams about the maternal and paternal aspects of analytic work, and Vanessa shares about her reconstructive lip surgery the day before the recording.

May 11, 2026 • Season 1 • Episode 63 • 21:57

AMPLIFYING THE ABSURDITY; OUR TAKE ON PROVOCATIVE THERAPY

Sarah + Vanessa talk about some of the ideas of Provocative Therapy, as coined by Frank Farrelly, and the invitations of the unexpected.

May 04, 2026 • Season 1 • Episode 62 • 21:59

HOLDING ONTO YOUR HOT POTATO

Vanessa and Sarah talk about the utility of paying attention to negative or disavowed thoughts/feelings as a way to hold onto one's hot potatoes.

April 27, 2026 • Season 1 • Episode 61 • 19:19

WHY GROUP: EXPAND YOUR RANGE, BE A TEENAGER

Vanessa shares three recent experiences of jealousy and the two of them share the invitation of expanding ones range of thoughts, feelings and relational impulses.

April 20, 2026 • Season 1 • Episode 60 • 21:55

SECOND ARROWS, NAMING AMBIVALENCE, AND BEING A THREE YEAR OLD

Sarah + Vanessa catch up about recent experiences of getting tattooed, telling the truth, and witnessing children on airplanes.

April 13, 2026 • Season 1 • Episode 59 • 19:49

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