Saying the Unsaid
2 friends discussing the surprising invitations, terrors, replications, possibilities and intimacy of process groups.
Episodes
45 episodes
ON WORKING WITH DREAMS
Sarah + Vanessa talk about one of many approaches to working with dreams, and gratitude for the composting/metabolizing function of the unconscious.
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Season 1
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Episode 45
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19:48
THE HIGHEST FORM OF PSYCHOANALYTIC WORK IS PLAY
Sarah shares with Vanessa some of the impact of psychoanalyst Dr. David Ramirez on the psychoanalytic community; David was the first to teach her that the highest form of psychoanalysis is Play.
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Season 1
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Episode 44
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20:23
BEGINNING LIKE AN OTTER
Vanessa and Sarah discuss maxims for a New Year.
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Season 1
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Episode 43
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24:55
ENDINGS: POSSIBLE INVITATIONS, POSSIBLE REGRETS
At the close of the year, Vanessa + Sarah talk about group in relation to endings, and variations of ending well.
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Season 1
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Episode 42
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22:47
THE LONGEST NIGHT OF THE YEAR; GROUP AS SOLSTICE
Vanessa + Sarah reflect on the idea of the longest day of the year, the dark invitations of group, a Gerald May quote on savoring life-juice, and a poem titled, "Prayer at Winter Solstice" by acclaimed poet Dana Gioia.
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Season 1
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Episode 41
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19:55
PROCESS GROUP: NOT EVERYONE THINKS THIS SOUNDS FUN
Sarah + Vanessa share a conversation they recorded earlier this year but never published on: Process Group as Comparably Uncomfortable to Acting Game and/or Ecstatic Dance.
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Season 1
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Episode 42
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23:30
A WISH TO BUILD A DREAM ON: AKA, THE UTILITY OF WISH AND EVEN, POSSIBLY, JEALOUSY
Sarah + Vanessa talk about the value of exploring wishes and jealousy as a way to discover what we might be longing for.
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Season 1
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Episode 40
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21:23
A MODERN ANALYTIC TAKE ON GROUP
Vanessa + Sarah discuss Ronnie Levine's (2017) article, A Modern Psychoanalytic Perspective on Group Therapy.
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Season 1
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Episode 39
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20:40
EROTIC TRANSFERENCE, KEEPING IT IN THE LAB (PART III OF III)
Vanessa + Sarah share a few more thoughts about the invitations of exploring erotic transference in group and life. (PART III.)
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Season 1
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Episode 38
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20:32
THE NECESSARY GRIEF OF EROTIC TRANSFERENCE (PART II OF III)
Sarah + Vanessa talk about the grief-side of longing.
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Season 1
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Episode 37
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19:40
THE UTILITY OF EROTIC TRANSFERENCES, AKA CRUSHES (PART I of III)
Sarah + Vanessa begin to describe some of the invitations of exploring erotic transference in therapy and in group.
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Season 1
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Episode 36
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22:19
LEARNING TO SAY "NO"; aka RETIRING FROM SUCKING DICK (SORRY FOR THE LANGUAGE, MOM!)
Sarah + Vanessa talk about their particular (though not unique) need to learn to say No.
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Season 1
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Episode 35
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23:09
THE CHARISMATIC LEADER: ASSET OR LIABILITY?
Sarah + Vanessa discuss their association to the (1981) article by Rutan and Rice: The Charismatic Leader: Asset or Liability?
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Season 1
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Episode 34
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23:13
SAYING THE UNSAID WHEN THE OTHER DOESN'T LISTEN
Sarah + Vanessa try to answer the question: how do you Say the Unsaid when the Other won't listen?
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Season 1
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Episode 33
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19:49
HOW PROCESS GROUPS: SLUG HUGS AND FAKING IT TIL YOU MAKE IT
Vanessa + Sarah reflect on one year of leading process groups, tolerating the aggression and gift of Slug Hugs, the invitation of faking it until you make it, and the imperative to make mountains out of molehills.
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Season 1
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Episode 32
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22:37
HOW PROCESS GROUP: THE TENDER UNDERBELLY OF GROUP
Sarah + Vanessa talk about leading with vulnerability, the etymology of the word vulnerability, and a few resonant ideas from Livington's 1999 article on Vulnerability and Tenderness in Group Psychotherapy.
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Season 1
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Episode 31
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21:26
HOW PROCESS GROUP: NO STATUTE OF LIMITATIONS
Sarah + Vanessa talk about how in group you can talk about everything, even when it feels "too late," or "the moment has passed."
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Season 1
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Episode 30
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20:14
WHY PROCESS GROUP: LEARNING HOW TO TALK
Sarah + Vanessa discuss group as an opportunity to develop richer emotional connections with others by simultaneously owning what is going on within us while considering what is going on within the Other.
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Season 1
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Episode 29
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23:57
BONUS EPISODE: STAYING WITH THE OPERATING ROOM
Vanessa + Sarah revisit the Operating Room situation, and what went Right. They talk about how a sense of creative agency and having a voice mitigates against the potentially traumatic impact of scary situations.
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Season 1
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Episode 28
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22:36
HOW PROCESS GROUP: EXPLORING THE EDGE OF AWARENESS
Vanessa + Sarah talk about the use of consulting the "felt sense" as a way of listening to what is beneath the surface.
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Season 1
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Episode 27
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22:59
BONUS EPISODE: GROUP IN THE OPERATING ROOM
Vanessa + Sarah share some examples of how process group relating is leaking into their outside lives, including Vanessa's experience of her first follow-up surgery this week removing the screws from the metal plates in her jaw. &nb...
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Season 1
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Episode 26
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19:34
WHY PROCESS GROUP: BECOMING WHO WE ARE
Vanessa + Sarah discuss group work through the lens of Jungian concepts of the problem of opposites, the transcendent function, individuation, and fairytales.
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Season 1
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Episode 25
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20:04
HOW PROCESS GROUP: PLAYING OPPOSITE DAY
Sarah + Vanessa talk about the concept of Negation as a clue to the unconscious, and the practice of playing Opposite Day in process groups as a way to wonder how sometimes what we say or deny might hide a less-tolerable or intolerable opposite...
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Season 1
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Episode 24
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21:35