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Regarding making decisions: I was unhappy in my marriage for at least 10 years. I went for therapy regularly and repeatedly talked about my unhappiness. My therapist would often say" are you ready to do something about it NOW?" And my answer would be "no". From there she would say "then let's figure out how you can be the most content in this situation". One day she asked the question again and when I said no, she said "why don't we revisit this question in October when you turn 53. I looked at her and I realized that this has been going on for so long and before I know it she's going to be asking me to revisit it when I'm 63 and 73 and life was passing me by and that was one of the turning points of me, making the decision to move forward with divorce.
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