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Lesson learnt! Dating is not for me! (Confession journal 2)

โ€ข Simmy Goraya โ€ข Season 1 โ€ข Episode 63

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Most of us have a picture in our mind of how life is supposed to look.

We create checklists. We believe that if everything goes according to plan, we'll finally feel happy and secure.

But what happens when life takes a different path?

In this episode, I talk about why I stopped holding on to my checklist, what this journey has taught me about surrender, and how learning to trust the process has changed the way I look at life.

In this episode, I talk about:
- Why I decided to let go of the checklist I had created for my future partner.
- How someone can tick every box and still not be the right person.
- The subtle ways our body warns us when something isn't aligned.
- Why we keep trying to "make it work" even when we know something feels off.
- The difference between control and surrender.
- The biggest lesson this experience taught me about trusting God's plan.

Ask yourself honestly:
- Have you been trying to control an outcome that's simply not meant for you?

- Is there a checklist or expectation  you're holding onto because it makes you feel safe?

- What would change if you chose trust over control?

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