Soul Echoes with Trish Riggle

In this deeply moving and powerfully candid episode, host Rachel Fitzpatrick welcomes the extraordinary Trish Riggle—also known as “Trish the Dish”—a gifted medium, devoted mother, and founder of Soul Echoes with Trish. Together, they dive into Trish’s remarkable journey: from growing up with spiritual gifts passed down through five generations, to navigating profound personal loss, trauma, and healing.

Trish shares how her connection to spirit has shaped her life, including unforgettable moments of channeling messages from the other side, helping grieving families find peace, and embracing her calling despite skepticism and fear. With humor, heart, and raw honesty, Trish opens up about motherhood, mental health, and the courage it takes to live authentically.

Whether you're curious about mediumship, seeking comfort in grief, or just love a story of resilience and purpose, this episode will speak to your soul.

✨ “You’re paying for my gift, not my beauty.” – Trish the Dish

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Transcript

 Fitzpatrick, Rachel   0:03
 Right, welcome back to the FitZen Project. As promised, I'm here with a special guest, Trish Riggle, and I'm Rachel Fitzpatrick. But let me tell you a little bit about Trish and what I know a little bit.
 I love her first and foremost, and I've spent some quality, quality time with her. And one of the coolest things about Trish is she's got this gift.
 And it is such a gift for the entire world, everybody she comes into contact with, and it speaks directly to your soul. And I'm not going to steal the Thunder of the gift, but I just wanted to let you know that I've been a receiver of her gift twice.
 And I've got this little little rose rock from the very first time. I don't even know if you remember that you gave me a free reading at a party.
Trish The Dish   1:07
 I do remember the party.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   1:07
 For like 10 minutes. And you're like, you need this. This is for your heart. And it was to mend my heart. And I've carried this around ever since then. So I'm Trish. Welcome to my podcast.
Trish The Dish   1:18
 Oh, that's beautiful.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   1:24
 The fits in project. How the hell are you?
Trish The Dish   1:28
 I am amazing. I'm so glad to be here with you. I'm so proud of you watching all the great work that you're doing. And I adore you, but you know, I'm a little biased because I, you know, think you're amazing with everything that you've gone through. We both have our our children are like maybe four weeks apart.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   1:30
 Mhm.
 Mhm.
Trish The Dish   1:48
 So we have been in the trenches of certain stages together, so to speak, you know, messaging back and forth like, hey, you know, have you, have you caught barf in your hands yet? Have you like, does yours do XYZ? And it's like.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   1:49
 Mhm.
 Yeah.
Trish The Dish   2:04
 Boys are so gross. Being a parent is very humbling. So I I like, right? I like to tell people that by day I am a stay at home mom, but in the evenings I get the chance to work with spirit.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   2:06
 Yeah.
 Say that louder for the people in the back.
Trish The Dish   2:21
 And that is definitely my soul's passion. I I have certain unique gifts. It's something that I like to tell people that my mom's side of the family is very spicy. Everyone has their own separate set of gifts since.
 My earliest memories are being able to see spirits, to feel things that other people didn't feel, and it was something that was encouraged on my mom's side of the family. And my mom would say, OK, you know, what are you seeing? What does this lady look like? And I would describe her.
 And earliest memories are describing my grandmother to my mom. My grandmother passed when my mom was 19 of breast cancer and saying that her name was Toot Toot, and I didn't know that her nickname was Tootsie.
 I'm kind of describing that to my mom, but so that was something, it was a gift that was really encouraged growing up. We visited a lot of haunted locations, and I have to say that I was an only child growing up, so my mom had these abilities as well.
 my dad had probably the psychic ability of a cucumber, which just kind of dragged to these locations. And so it was something that, you know, over the years I started doing professionally and
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   3:41
 Mhm.
 Mm.
Trish The Dish   3:51
 Enjoying it. There have been quite a few instances that really kind of solidified that this was what I needed to be doing with my life. So by day I am a stay-at-home Mama of a wild child and in the evenings I work with spirit and work with clients.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   4:06
 Mhm.
 I love that. I I love that. And how many generations is is this special gift?
Trish The Dish   4:16
 It's it's five. I yes, but I that I know of because I can't dig any deeper. I can't go back and ask. My grandmother in the 1920s would do seances in Old Louisville, so kind of off of Frankfurt Ave.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   4:19
 Five. It's deep.
Trish The Dish   4:33
 have a lot of connections to Louisville. I didn't grow up in the Louisville area. I grew up in Northern Kentucky, in Florence, right next to Cincinnati. I think the one thing that kind of shaped my experience and my gifts as a kid
 um Both of my parents went through cancer. My dad had cancer of the esophagus and was constantly having surgery. My mom had breast cancer. So we were always at the hospital.
 And this was a hospital in Northern Kentucky that I was born in.
 And we were always around those types of spirits. And I don't know, it just kind of molded me, and it made me understand grief so much more and realize, hey, you know, this is something that should be sacred and taken very seriously.
 Um.
 one of the biggest things
 So I I didn't tell a lot of people about my gifts growing up. Um, you kind of had to be in a very close circle to know about those things, because you know
 I have certain side that my dad's side of the family is very religious and I believe in God, I believe in Jesus, but they I didn't fit into that little box of what they considered to be a Christian and and that was so it's so painful to not be able to worship and believe in God as.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   5:59
 Right, right.
 Mhm.
Trish The Dish   6:07
 As you believe with your whole heart. But so when I went to college, my my mom started going downhill pretty bad. She had had cancer for about 8 years. It was had metastasized to her bones. My junior year it had gone to her spine and it had gone to her.
 her brain. And after it had gone to her brain, it was was awful. We were, I mean, I can remember being at a super young age, driving her, I didn't have a driver's license at the time, driving her to the hospital after chemo, um cleaning up vomit, just being so used to the sickness all the
 And the type of cancer that my dad had, he would get choked on food. So his esophagus would kind of would close up and they had to do a second major, major surgery to keep it open with skin grafts and stuff, so.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   6:56
 Yeah.
Trish The Dish   7:04
 There was a lot of wild times just being in the hospital and being in that environment. Sorry, don't mean to completely trauma dump on everybody, but one of the biggest things was that junior, my junior year.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   7:13
 No.
Trish The Dish   7:20
 My higher self would start talking to me and you know, it's that little voice inside your head that says like, don't go that way or don't trust this person or like the morning of September 11th, I had a panic attack and.
 a stomach ache and I stayed home from school and I remember thinking I'm gonna remember this day for the rest of my life and not having any idea why and having the TV on before the planes even hit the tower. It's one of those things is like that voice. So anyway, junior year, my mom
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   7:54
 Yeah.
Trish The Dish   8:00
 On.
 Was very sick. The cancer had gone to her brain and she was just openly talking to spirits. So they were prescribing her health. I remember picking it up and looking at the the pharmacist like, what is this? And he's like, how do they give that to people who have?
 And I'm like, oh ****, like, this is really bad. This is bad. I'm like, but but you know, you're in a room like, OK, yes, I see them too. But she told me on a Sunday.
 She was kind of in and out of consciousness and just deathly ill. She sat up, I'm typing on my computer, typing up a paper, and she looked at me and she goes, there's 30,000 in the savings that'll cover everything. And I'm like, that's ****, what are you talking about, Mom? Like, what are you talking about? And.
 She goes.
 She was like, I put everything in the safe. She goes, you'll move to Louisville and live with Granny and John. Now John was the name of my grandfather, but she never called him that, and he
 Wasn't an abuser in my life. Um.
 And I didn't want to have anything to do with that man. I hated him from the every ounce of my being. I hated that man for what he put me through as a kid and as a teen. So I remember just kind of brushing off and being like, mom, you're crazy, you know, either company full of morphine and this and that. And she ended up passing three days later.
 And I remember that the day that she told me that she was going to pass. I emailed all of my professors and I said, I think my mom's going to pass away soon. Could you save all of my work? And they're all looking at me like, what are you talking about? How do you know this? I'm like.
 It's going to happen. She was the third generation to predict her passing. So my mother, my grandmother, and my great grandmother all predicted their own passing. Umm
 That was one of the the wildest, most insane experiences, because watching them do CPR on her and then coming back and saying, you know, do we need to do another round of CPR? But I can feel her standing beside me.
 And leaning over and talking to me and saying, do it one more time for your dad. I need everybody to come here and to see my body before I leave officially and just being like, OK.
 And watching mom shock her and over and over again and just.
 The people that are working on her talking about American Idol. And I will remember that till the day I die. But it's just because that's how they had to, you know, kind of disassociate, you know, I mean, like, this is someone's mother. This is a person who was a teacher, a friend, you know, a wife.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   10:49
 Yeah, that's how they have to write.
Trish The Dish   10:59
 And going through grief like that really, it made me look at what I do very differently and from my own personal experience.
 So that's kind of what made me realize, you know, I have to do this more. So I had a after she passed, I got really into alcohol. Everybody kept giving me compliments on how great I looked and how thin I was.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   11:11
 That is beautiful.
Trish The Dish   11:28
 And I remember thinking, you know, ohh thank you, Auntie so-and-so. I have only had tequila for like three days. I'm so thin and beautiful. Nobody knew how hard, like nobody knew how hard I was taking it. My My dad had really been with my mom for these eight, nine years of just constant
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   11:38
 Mhm.
Trish The Dish   11:48
 Sickness. I mean, we would, she would be, she would barf at the movie theater, at the at the grocery store. I mean, and sick all the time. Hair never for those eight years. Just, just a cue ball all the time. Yes. And she would wear those these cute little like turbans.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   11:59
 Yeah, it's a way of life.
Trish The Dish   12:07
 And just, I mean, we had, we had a lot of wigs too. We had a lot of like Dolly Parton, Rita McIntyre wigs that we would kind of try on, you know, and she would wear them for 20 minutes and get hot and be like, OK, I'm gonna go throw up now because she got so hot.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   12:16
 Mm-hmm.
 Mhm.
Trish The Dish   12:24
 umm But being around the hospital, being around death, we would see people at the oncologist, and then we would just stop seeing them. We would get used to seeing them every Friday. She had chemo every Friday.
 I'd be like, oh, where's so-and-so? Like, oh, honey, he's gone. And feeling him and thinking, wow. And there were a couple people that we had become friends with that were that had kids that were my age.
 And I remember one night being at the hospital and seeing them leaving and walking up and saying, hey, so-and-so, is your dad okay? And he's like, no, he just, he left. And I'm like, what do you mean? I'm like, oh, ****.
 And just sitting outside the hospital with him, smoking a cigarette, talking about life, he said. What do I do now? And that's really where I found myself after my mom died. I was trying to replace those feelings with anything possible.
 And I was working for jobs that I absolutely hated. I got laid off from a job that was soul sucking and said, you know what? I got a call that day. My grandmother had been in an accident and she broke her back in three places.
 She needed someone to stay with her and care with her in Louisville. So I moved to Louisville in my car. I gave away all of my things except my clothes. I had all of my clothes in trash bags and I had my cat like strapped up front and like, we're going, we're going to move to Louisville and live with Granny, like my mom had said.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   14:03
 Oh.
Trish The Dish   14:04
 umm And I started a job there at a local university.
 And at the time, I wasn't really open to doing readings. I would do them for people that knew what I did, and they would say, Hey, you know, so and so said you do this. I need your help. It was my first day at this new job.
 And I sit down and the person that's training me, there's a young man behind me and he is in spirit and he is like antsy. Like, you know how like a little kid like kind of dances and they have to pee type thing. He's like, I need you to talk to my Mama.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   14:40
 Mhm.
Trish The Dish   14:44
 I need you to talk to my Mama. I need you to talk to my Mama.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   14:46
 Oh my God.
Trish The Dish   14:48
 And it was like 8 in the morning. And you know, I don't do mornings very well. And I'm like, it's too ******* early for this. Like, I can't deal with this right now. And the campus of where the college is, is on. It's close to Farmington, which was, have you ever been to Farmington in Louisville?
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   15:00
 Mhm.
 No.
Trish The Dish   15:07
 OK, it's a plantation home and it was a hemp plantation that had slaves and where the university is, it's it's solid is on their land. So there's slave spirits, like spirits that Abraham Lincoln stayed there for two weeks when he had the flu.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   15:24
 Wait, is this the place that has like the animals now? They have animals like a little pet and zoo type thing, but it's like you take pictures there.
Trish The Dish   15:29
 I don't. Maybe. Yeah, a lot of people take their wedding pictures there. It's beautiful.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   15:36
 I'm pretty sure I had my Christmas pictures taken there. So yes, I have. I'm pretty positive that's where we went. It it was it. It is beautiful. It's yeah.
Trish The Dish   15:42
 Yeah, it's beautiful. It's gorgeous.
 It's like in the back of a random subdivision and you're like, how the hell is there a plantation home here?
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   15:52
 M.
 Just, yeah, Yep, Yep, Yep.
Trish The Dish   15:57
 Yeah. So you know, it's my first day there. I don't want to ruffle feathers, and he is. He has his mouth close to my ear, and he says I was murdered, and then he starts sending me images of
 What she had to go through and of her falling to the floor, hearing the news of his of his murder. She's vomiting, shaking. She can't get up. I'm feeling the pain that she felt.
 That is the hardest part about being a medium is that they will show me on my body how they passed, but being able to feel those emotions that she had and she kept thinking about every every night that she rocked him to sleep.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   16:31
 Wow.
Trish The Dish   16:43
 all the nights she sat up with him when he was sick, and
 About lunchtime, I had it with him. He told me his name and I was like, listen, so and so. I will talk to her at lunch if you will stop joining me this thing so I can focus on learning what I need to do at this new job. I sat her down.
 at lunch and I said, Look, I'm going to tell you something that's going to be really hard. And she was like, Okay. And I said, I talk to dead people. I know that's weird. I said, I don't know if you believe in this or not. I said, But your son's here.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   17:13
 Um.
Trish The Dish   17:19
 And I have to talk. He has to talk to you. And she was, she just kind of had her mouth open and she said OK And he said, tell her about me, describe what I look like. And I said OK was describing a scar on his forehead, his rosary tattoo on his upper arm.
 A scar that he got on his lip from falling off of like a it was something that he jumped. I think he jumped off of one of those like green things in the out in the yard that are like hubs for electricity. He fell off that as a kid and busted his lip and I said he shows being shot.
 Execution style and he was showing everything from above and I said he belly crawled to this looks like a gazebo and.
 She lost it. I kept thinking, yeah, rightfully so. I'm crying. She's crying. I'm thinking I'm going to need a new job because I can't make people cry on my first day. And she's holding my hand. I'm holding her hand and shaking. And he's saying that he knows who did it. And she said I'm going to tell.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   18:10
 Rightfully so.
Trish The Dish   18:26
 Tell you a name. I'm gonna pull up my phone and show you a picture and I want you to tell me if this is who he's showing. And I said OK, I will.
 And I said, yes, this is the person that did this to him. It was two people that he, like he kind of ran, he didn't run with a bad crowd. He wasn't a bad person. He'd made bad decisions in his life. And she said, would you talk to the detective? I was like, well, I don't think like officially I could ever
 testify, but I would gladly talk to anybody to help bring him some peace and the amount of joy that he had for her. And I said, he's showing me these different things that he would do with you growing up and like special snacks when he got home from school, like snuggling up on the couch, how much
 loved his siblings. And then he was just devastated that he wasn't going to be there for his little brother, his little sister. And he's like, I love Mama. I love Mama so much. He's like, she's beautiful. She takes care of everybody but herself.
 It taught me a lot about grief, but it taught me a lot about being a mom too. And I spoke to her before the podcast and I said, Can I tell your story? Because she said it was one of the most impactful days of her life, but it really lit a fire in me that realized, hey,
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   19:43
 Well.
Trish The Dish   19:50
 I have to do this, but it's not for me. It's for other people, for closure, for comfort, and
 I tell all of my clients, Hey, I I say, I pray before my my sessions and the Tate. And I pray for my clients, but it's mostly because I know what grief is. And to to feel the joy of so many people I have read for that they're just so excited to see their loved one.
 And the more I read and I take on their mannerisms and say things that only that person would say and get phenomenal reviews. It's it's it's life changing. That interaction with her was so life changing.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   20:31
 It.
Trish The Dish   20:36
 Details.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   20:36
 That is amazing.
Trish The Dish   20:38
 like. So the definition of a medium is almost being like like a channel. So those things that he was showing they don't mean anything to me. I don't know what those mean. Um, I had somebody the other day showing a certain type of food, and i'm like, I don't know why they're show it was
 peanuts in a Coke bottle, like a glass Coke bottle. I'm like, I have never heard of this. I don't know what this means. And she said that my client had said that was her father's favorite snack. And I said, this sounds really weird.
 And he was like, you know, in my office, right, right where we are now, like standing behind me with his hands on his hips, like, well, no, don't knock it until you try it, since he was kind of Southern. And so I tried it and I was like, it was pretty good. It was different. Yeah, I know. It's like.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   21:20
 But.
 Thanks, Bob. That's great.
Trish The Dish   21:28
 And having that I have the pleasure of meeting amazing people that have been through so much and to see the light and the love on the other side. Oh my God, it's a blessing. And even like describing it to other people of the joy that they have.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   21:29
 Mm.
Trish The Dish   21:47
 People have asked me, you know, how do I, how do I make my loved ones on the other side know or that I'm that I love them and do things that bring you joy. They love to see us have fun. They love to see you sing in the car or take, you know, have your, your.
 Bath with your you know, like I will take a bath and bring snacks and bring my iPad and watch a movie. And I can always feel my mom's presence, which I know that sounds kind of creepy, but it's just because I'm relaxed and it's so much joy and comfort and they love to hear.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   22:19
 Yeah.
Trish The Dish   22:20
 Like side story, like I feel the most presence of our loved ones, especially at night. You know how it is with Co sleeping. We're still trying to get my 4 year old into his own bed, but he says I go big bed, big bed with mommy and daddy and like.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   22:31
 Yeah.
Trish The Dish   22:40
 Belly laughing because he's like blowing raspberries on my husband and like pinching, pinching here and then like like those moments where I can feel the just spirits around us just light up and it's family members and friends that we've lost along the way and they just love.
 when we have fun and we exude that joy. I will give you
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   23:01
 So was the John your John your is that that's your John?
Trish The Dish   23:04
 Yes, yes. So, yeah. So sorry, listeners. My mom had said that I would live with my with granny, which I did. And my grandfather had passed away. Thank God he was abusive and not a not a good person. I would have never lived with him in the same household. So my grandmother.
 really did need my help. And so I met my husband on eHarmony. I had all of these beautiful headshots of me looking stunning. And the one that caught his eye is something that Rachel and I have in common, is that is our love for hot dogs.
 I was laughing my *** off wearing a hot dog costume, wearing a hot dog costume, slightly inebriated at Target, where my cousin and with my cousin in the background and her husband was like, you know, hauling the drunk ******* around, taking them to Target. And I'm it's like halfway between Christmas.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   23:46
 The hot dog costume.
Trish The Dish   24:01
 Halloween and I'm wearing this hot dog costume going ah like making that. So that was one of my pictures in my eHarmony profile and he was he's like that made me fall in love with you. It was like just your sense of humor. So.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   24:05
 In your face.
 You had me at the first Oscar.
Trish The Dish   24:18
 Right? I know. And like, he picked me up my first date or for a first date. And like, so Granny is in the blinds, like pulling them down and I'm like, get out, get out of the blinds, Granny, go on. She's like 85 years old. So I'm like, go back over there. And he, so for the
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   24:29
 Um.
Trish The Dish   24:38
 I'll paint a picture. My husband is a Viking. He's six foot seven with this big red beard. He's six, seven. He gets out with his cowboy boots that add an extra inch and she goes, oh my. And I'm like, oh my. And I'm like, I'm done. That's it. Yep. Mm-hmm.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   24:41
 Literally like.
Trish The Dish   24:56
 And I knew right then and there. I was like, thanks mom, thank you. Like the order served. And I I didn't know that I needed a blue collar warrior man that would fight for me to the death. If I, you know, I was going after these guys that we would meet like where we used to work, like in corporate settings.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   25:05
 Oh.
Trish The Dish   25:15
 things. And it just sounded cutting it, you know, like dating a guy who worked in finance. I'm like, no, you're boring. I needed, no. And then I meet a redneck with a foul mouth that shows me a good time and he takes me to get tacos and cake and
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   25:16
 Mhm.
 Mhm.
 Yeah, they ain't got what I They ain't even got what I want.
Trish The Dish   25:33
 Thinks I'm beautiful just as I am, yes. And like, sees me wake up and looking like a troll crazy, can handle my hormones. Our first, like, few years when Rachel and I worked together.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   25:35
 Every day. Oh yeah.
 Oh.
 Mhm.
Trish The Dish   25:49
 I was seeing, I had seen a new doctor for PTSD and she had me on five different types of medications. And in order to get healthy, to have a baby, she took me off all of them at the same time.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   26:05
 Oh God, John's a St. and a Viking. A Viking St.
Trish The Dish   26:06
 So I yeah. Oh my God, he's a he's a St. He's a provider. I like he took care of my crazy ***. So like when Rachel and I were working in the same job, I was having to take days off because.
 I would be getting these crazy symptoms and then I would get over it and they would take another medication off. But I'm like, OK, so I went off of a sleeping pill, a calm down pill, a mood stabilizer, this and that because the the doctor that I was seeing was just like, oh, try this, try this, try this.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   26:23
 Oop.
Trish The Dish   26:39
 I was so over medicated. I know I was. I was basically a science experiment. So there was a about a year or two where, you know, John really, I mean, he still takes care of me. I am a, you know, I'm a stay at home mom, but he was kind of saddled with this woman that was going through hell, but.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   26:39
 What a science experiment.
Trish The Dish   26:58
 The way that he describes it, and we talk about it, and I never felt safe with someone to unpack my luggage and unpack the trauma. So I had started therapy, started going through EMDR therapy for reprocessing.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   27:13
 Mm-hmm.
Trish The Dish   27:13
 I don't know if you've heard of it, but they kind of have you follow like a light bar and your eyes move like they do in REM. You're reprocessing that trauma because I had a lot of holes in my memory from my childhood. And the fun part was remembering those and going, Oh my God.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   27:21
 Mhm.
 Mhm.
Trish The Dish   27:33
 So working on myself, solid like that, getting healthy. So and then, you know, we bought our home. COVID happened and I had such a bad I had hypermesis gravidarum.
 When I was pregnant. So I would pee, not pee. Oh my God, I'm sorry. Hey, I'm sorry everybody. I would throw up and **** my pants. Not just **** my pants, you know, throw up and **** my pants about 20 times a day. And I would burst blood vessels in my face. I constantly had like those like burst.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   28:00
 God.
 Oh, that is sad.
Trish The Dish   28:08
 blood vessels in my eyes. And here I had was like, just raw dog and PTSD and anxiety and, and COVID at home, you know, with my dog, like John would go to work and pay the bills. And I'm just like, I'm going to be here. I'm going to throw up and pee my pants and
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   28:11
 Oh.
 M.
 In COVID.
 I.
Trish The Dish   28:28
 And then I'll see you. And we ended up having to buy all new bathroom rugs after our after our beautiful baby boy was born. There's only so many times you can wash wash those. You know, people were, you know, during our pregnancy, they're like, you know, we haven't seen you. And I'm like, I I throw up all the time. I'm like.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   28:33
 M.
 Girl. Yeah, right, right.
 You're like, I'm just sick.
Trish The Dish   28:48
 Carrying those hyper hypermesis bags everywhere and just and you know, like, and that's when I started doing, I realized, you know, as a new mom, I need something more for me. And I thought, you know, let's just create a Facebook page.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   28:56
 Yeah.
 Hmm.
Trish The Dish   29:05
 I actually used AI to help come up with the name of my business. I wanted to incorporate my favorite spooky movie, which is with starring sexy Kevin Bacon, Stir of Echoes.
 If you haven't watched it, you got to watch it this weekend. Um He kind of gets some psychic abilities after being hypnotized and there's a body in his basement. So that type of like mental horror. I love that movie, Stir of Echoes. And then I knew that this was my soul's purpose. So the name of my group is.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   29:35
 Mm.
Trish The Dish   29:40
 Soul echoes with Trish, and then the logo is a It's a ghost, like a happy ghost, like a white sheet ghost holding a phone in a hot pink background. That's pink's my favorite color, and so I started that about two years ago, and then I haven't looked back since I have.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   29:59
 Good for you. I remember when you were contemplating and we talked about that a little bit and you're like, I don't know, should I go? Should I do this? Should I not? I don't know if I'm comfortable like letting everybody know about me and and I remember being like.
Trish The Dish   30:06
 Yeah.
 Yeah.
 Yes.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   30:19
 Like, I remember, like, that was my MO, like pushing you to do it. So that would give me permission to do whatever then I wanted to do at the time. But I was like, yeah, because I had just left Louisville and we had our little babies.
Trish The Dish   30:19
 Yes.
 Yes.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   30:35
 And we got to talk and and I'm like, this really sucks cause now I live even further away and we can't get the boys together, but they would have so much fun. But yeah, I was just like, if you can, you can do this, this is.
Trish The Dish   30:41
 I know.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   30:51
 Everything everybody needs and we need it. Like describe that like how you got through that like yes, no, yes, no battle.
Trish The Dish   30:53
 Yes.
 It was.
 Wow.
 I sat with it for a long time because I had, I was bullied about it. I told a couple of close friends in high school and some of them made fun of me and you know, said I'm going to tell everybody and I had gone through complete relationships.
 Worse, the person didn't know at all. And I would like be watching like my ghosty shows all the time and have all these insane facts because, you know, growing up we went to these places and he would be like, that's just ********. And I'm going, OK, I can never really be my real self.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   31:21
 So.
 Mhm.
Trish The Dish   31:38
 It wasn't until I found my person and was put in this environment where I'm like, you know what?
 I really don't give a **** anymore. People don't like me from me. I'm just going to put it out there. I lost a a friend that we were kind of on again, off again because she didn't believe what I did had to do with God. She said that it was from the devil.
 And I remember almost laughing about it and feeling like.
 I have to follow my heart and realize the people that I'm dealing with. I don't. I can't tell you future predictions. I wish I could. I'll sometimes get dreams about things that might happen, but you know, I'm not walking around going, Hey, these are the lottery numbers. That's That's not how this works.
 It's people will bring in a photo of a loved one and I'm able to connect with them. They show me on their body how they passed and I kind of describe it to them. And I start off with that in a session because it's always the hardest part. I always get people looking at me like I'm a crazy person and it's all over Zoom and thank God
 for COVID because I don't want to get out of the house now. I'm like, Okay, I'd rather speak to you over Zoom. And you don't know if I have plenty pants on, but you know what? We're both comfortable. We're both completely comfortable. I'm able to, you know, interact with people. You don't know that I'm sweating my **** off right now. You know, you have
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   32:58
 Oh.
 Mhm.
 Your thing is, what did you say the other day? You're like, you're paying me for the mediumship, not the pretty or something like that. What would? What's your?
Trish The Dish   33:04
 Cool.
 Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. I say, I always tell my clients, hey, I might be in my pajamas. You're paying for my gift, not for my beauty. That's a separate service. And I don't, I don't offer that service.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   33:18
 Mhm.
 That's a separate service.
Trish The Dish   33:29
 Uh, and it's like usually I have like a ponytail on or like a funny graphic T-shirt and shorts or not even shorts and in my office and comfortable and it's.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   33:32
 Mm.
 Oh well.
Trish The Dish   33:41
 It's just, I'm like, people are like, oh, I want to meet in person. And I'm like, well, if you want to meet in person, you know, I'm going to bring my Viking husband and he's terrifying. And you know, I just like, I can do it over Zoom. Why not? You know, and you're comfortable. I have, I've had clients, you know,
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   33:47
 Mhm.
 Yeah.
Trish The Dish   34:00
 a glass of wine. We'll eat dinner together. And it's just, it's more open that way. So essentially I kind of came out of the closet. Um That's the nicest way to describe it, of saying, Hey, I've been like this my entire life.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   34:15
 Yeah.
Trish The Dish   34:19
 Everybody at mom saw their families like this. And a lot of people were like, duh, we've known this for a long time. But then I did notice, like, you know, some of my friends kind of dropped off a face of the earth. And I'm like, thank you. You took care of a problem for me. You think I'm crazy? OK. Like, you know, join the club. You know, sometimes I.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   34:32
 There you go. Mm-hmm.
 Mhm.
Trish The Dish   34:38
 Will join your club and think, wow, yeah, I'm a little.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   34:38
 Hmm.
 Got a whole scroll. People's names.
Trish The Dish   34:42
 A little, yeah. I'm like, I've, you know, got a whole list of people that think I'm that, but for the very for the few people I'm able to, it really impacts their emotions in the grieving process.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   34:57
 Yeah.
Trish The Dish   34:57
 umm and I find myself sitting and crying with people three or four times a week doing sessions, and almost I will tell you, almost everybody cries me and woman. It doesn't matter the things that we
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   35:08
 You're so open and you're so available for people, and I think that is the most remarkable of it all, is that you show this unconditional compassion.
 For people, like you said, that guy, he wasn't a bad guy. He made a couple bad decisions and boom, his life got taken unbeknownst to anything he could have seen coming, right? But you were so available.
 To even say, yes, I don't think a detective will get a story because I'm a medium. But you know what? I'm gonna be here for you because you need me.
Trish The Dish   35:56
 Mhm.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   35:58
 And that is the most selfless, unique, just gorgeous thing I think I've ever heard. Because like, you do this for people that you don't even know, like you have no contracts with these people.
Trish The Dish   36:07
 Oh, thank you.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   36:15
 And nothing. You were here for me and I will. I love the story. I love the memory it gave me. And my last reading with you was just like so much fun because my crazy *** uncle had died and he had the.
Trish The Dish   36:27
 Yeah, we have fun.
 He didn't get a ****.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   36:34
 He's cancer. He gave. He gives no ***** now. Like he gave no ***** then. I mean, just alive. He's just like the most liveliest person ever, dead or alive. It don't matter, right? And I'll never forget how much fun that conversation was cause he's like, no, I'm here.
Trish The Dish   36:37
 Yeah, that's it.
 Yeah, yeah.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   36:54
 And I didn't summons his ***. I wanted to talk to my grandmas. And he's like, yeah, but I got a chance. Yeah, well, who are you?
Trish The Dish   36:55
 No, he was like, move it over. I remember him because he made fun of my toenail Polish and I remember being like, the ****? Like, yeah, I'm like, y'all. I'm thinking you probably have crusty dusties under there and.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   37:09
 You are crusty, dusty, dude. Yeah.
Trish The Dish   37:14
 Yeah, because I sit with my legs crossed and I like, had my leg kind of up a little bit. We were talking and he was like, like, like making this disgusted, like with his head turns. And I'm like, can I help you, Sir? And he says, what's he got painted under your toes? I think they were like turquoise or something. And apparently that's.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   37:18
 Yeah.
 I love you.
Trish The Dish   37:34
 Like, was just a disgusting color to your uncle. He was like, oh, yeah.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   37:36
 He he would tell you about it too. He it's just like he just loves to let everyone know his opinion on life or love to still does. But but he what was so cool was I just started dating Josh.
Trish The Dish   37:46
 Yeah. Yeah, it was really fun to read.
 Mhm.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   37:54
 Like we met on Bumble or something like that. I think it was Bumble and I was about to be done with it. And anyway, it might have been two weeks of talking to this guy and my I remember my uncle being like, I couldn't spoon feed you anymore, you know, like.
Trish The Dish   38:13
 I know. He's like, like here you go. And he was describing it to a T.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   38:14
 Date this guy like, yeah.
 He did too. Yeah. And I'm like, all right, cause it was like, do I talk to him or this ********* that I also met on a dating app that wouldn't stop texting me cause made the cardinal sin of giving my real number.
Trish The Dish   38:22
 I was like.
 Oh.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   38:37
 You know, like weeks before. And I'm like, well, he's like real consistent and persistent and pushy, you know? But yeah, thank goodness Uncle Mike came in and he's like, well, how much more clues do you need to make the right decision? I'm the dude that you're supposed to be with for forever.
Trish The Dish   38:47
 OK.
 I know. Yeah, I know.
 Yeah, and he was so fight. He was like, he's going to be a good dad. He's like and his even now he comes through super easy and he's like, I told you, I told you, you might fight and think he's going to leave, but he's not going anywhere.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   38:58
 Mhm.
 Mhm.
Trish The Dish   39:10
 And I'm listening to it. He's like, he's not going anywhere. I'm like, I'll tell her that. Like, hi.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   39:11
 Thanks.
 Yeah, yeah, he that was so funny. And yeah, I just remember that being like my solidifier. I'm like, all right, well, Uncle Mike said so. And yeah, he's never really steered me wrong.
 So I mean, he's, yeah, he's ******* nuts. But I'll love him. I'll love him for sure.
Trish The Dish   39:32
 He's a good good person to have in your corner.
 Yeah, yeah, he might, he might be nuts, but he's fighting for you on the other side with his little list of of items that he comes forward that's like written on like a scrap sheet of paper with like dirt and like coffee stains on it. He's like, tell her this and I'm like.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   39:50
 I.
 Mhm.
 That's right.
Trish The Dish   39:55
 Spirits come forward with the funniest things, and I'm like, Why do you have a list on like a crappy piece of paper that you're sorry?
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   39:58
 Sounds right.
 Mhm.
 So what was really cool, like you drew a Land Rover like cause you draw during your mediumships experiences. You drew this Land Rover and that was one of the funniest things that we did when I was a child.
Trish The Dish   40:11
 Yeah.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   40:20
 I mean, like I could, if I got it really into the story, I would be crying, laughing by the end of it because it was one of the just such a funny memory. Well, yesterday morning I was supposed to meet with you and I had to reschedule the the day I had to reschedule with you.
 But that morning I was looking on Facebook marketplace, not even in the search for a car. I was actually just looking just to browse because I'm just bored and the exact Land Rover came on in the exact model. I mean, it could have been his for all I know. I have no.
Trish The Dish   40:51
 Oh.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   40:57
 Idea. But I was like, look at you. You're just trying to hang out with me today. It is a little sprinkle. Like, all right, what are we going to get into? It's some ****.
Trish The Dish   40:58
 Yeah.
 This is a little sprinkle there.
 Right. Yeah, your grand, your grandmother was beautiful and I think you were remodeling your kitchen and she was really excited about the paint colors and that window that where you can sit and look out and she loves to look at like all the birds and all the things in the neighborhood and.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   41:12
 Mhm.
 Yep.
 I was. I was doing that.
Trish The Dish   41:25
 And yeah, and she keeps, she mentions Theo's like little. Sorry, I don't mean to say his name. You can cut that out, OK? His nose, like the shape of his nose and his lips. And she's like, those are from me. Look at that. She's like, look at his little lips. And I'm like, oh, he's got little, little, little lips.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   41:33
 No, that's OK. Yeah, yeah.
Trish The Dish   41:44
 That's precious. I love how they take ownership over such sweet things.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   41:45
 Oh, mm-hmm.
 Uh, all the things. All the things. It was so funny. Yeah, it it is. You are such a gift. Everything you do is like just helping the world one person at a time, like every day.
Trish The Dish   41:53
 Yeah, with the doll.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   42:03
 That's amazing. And I'm just so happy you listened to yourself and you were like, I'm gonna be a yes for me and I'm not listening to these people that are my naysayers. I don't need them on my list.
Trish The Dish   42:04
 Thank you.
 Yes.
 Mhm.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   42:19
 You know.
Trish The Dish   42:19
 Yeah, and just it only took me 30 some odd years to say, you know what? **** everybody else. I'm like, take your opinions if you don't like it and shove it and walk away. And I say, you know, this is what I do if if it doesn't serve you, if it doesn't fit what you need, then just move on.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   42:23
 Me too.
 Yeah, me too.
 See you never.
Trish The Dish   42:40
 But our generation have a hard, has a hard time. Like everybody wants to comment and say, oh, I don't believe in that or I don't do this. And it's like, OK, cool. Yeah. I'm like, yeah.
Fitzpatrick, Rachel   42:48
 And we're supposed to accommodate it. I'm like, I'm not, I'm not in the business of hearing about it or or accommodating it. We just don't drive. So we're just not going to drive. It's OK. There's like 500 million bazillion people out there if I'm one.

Trish The Dish   42:56
 Yeah.
 I'd be like, cool, right? Right Like, go find a different yoga practitioner, go find somebody else that, you know, will do this or that. It's It's like the the way that I, my belief in God doesn't have to fit into your little box.

Fitzpatrick, Rachel   43:11
 Yeah.

Trish The Dish   43:17
 I don't have to fit into a box. You know, I am perfectly made as I am. And when I started realizing that my gifts were XYZ and it was reading specific spirits, it wasn't tarot or, you know, any of the other stuff that can go along with those types of gifts. And I just leaned into what I was good at.

Fitzpatrick, Rachel   43:18
 Mhm.
 Mhm.

Trish The Dish   43:37
 and meditated on it, thought about it, prayed about it. And then it was like, oh wow, this is really taking off. But it was never about the money for me. As a stay-at-home mom, it was about the time. I needed that time of socializing and having something that was my own.

Fitzpatrick, Rachel   43:50
 Mhm.
 Yeah.

Trish The Dish   43:55
 Because as you know, having a COVID baby and being with them, you know, all the time as a stay-at-home mom, I I needed that time to meet other people, to engage, to use my gifts and just to it made me feel like a whole new person.

Fitzpatrick, Rachel   44:07
 Mm-hmm.

Trish The Dish   44:13
 Made me feel like it increased my my value in my mind and made me feel like I was honoring my my ancestors and my mom's side and.
 I'm thankful for all of the the lives I've touched. There are many, many stories and many consciences and from readings, but the majority of them that stick out is just the joy that our loved ones feel when we're thinking about them.
 Um um.
 Some of the crazier things that I I mean that I've come across like I especially in the global area, I will never do any sort of drug. There's so many people that have died of a fentanyl overdose without knowing that it was even in the medication that they were using or they were, you know, given.

Fitzpatrick, Rachel   44:58
 Yeah.

Trish The Dish   45:03
 from someone else. Umm
 I will never ride a motorcycle. I will always get screened for anything and everything and not and listen to my body.
 Because it's I'm talking to these people and and they're saying, I never thought it could happen to me. I never thought, you know, that that I could pass away. And it makes you realize, wow, life is short and we need to take care of ourselves, tell people we love them every day.

Fitzpatrick, Rachel   45:17
 Yeah.

Trish The Dish   45:37
 I think I tell my husband and my son probably five, six times a day, mother probably, you know, to the point where like I tell friends, family members, like I told my therapist the other day, I'm like, I love you, bye. And she's like, oh, okay. But right, like, professionally, I can't tell you that.

Fitzpatrick, Rachel   45:51
 I know, right?

Trish The Dish   45:56
 But on a friend level, I do love you, right? But it's it's definitely changed your outlook on life.

Fitzpatrick, Rachel   46:00
 Yeah, yeah.
 That's absolutely beautiful. What's one?
 One of your biggest takeaways. I love that you just listed a a few and I love that. But what is your biggest take away for someone who doesn't know and maybe got to the whole entire end of this like?
 They've never experienced anything like you before. What's your maybe your biggest advice to ease if this is something that they're curious about the ease?

Trish The Dish   46:38
 I would say to listen to yourself. We all have that. We all have our ego and we have our inner higher self. That's the part of us that says, you know, we're in danger at the supermarket or
 I used to get that feeling all the time growing up when I when I worked at a large mall, and I would, you know, go to that when I would take the trash out at night, and I would always carry like a little box cutter in my pocket. I was always nervous and kind of hypervigilant, and
 a friend was attacked a day later by a gentleman that seemed completely normal. Umm It's little things where your own intuition says, hey, this isn't right. Something doesn't feel right.
 I mean, listen to that and you notice things. Your outcome changes, you feel different. You're acknowledging that higher part of yourself and saying, OK, I'm listening to what you have to say, that I'm unsafe. Let's try to kind of take that apart and and listen to it.
 umm But I think if someone is experiencing, thinks that they have gifts and in that sense, just do some research. Start taking a yoga class with Rachel, learning about meditation. Meditation was huge for me.

Fitzpatrick, Rachel   48:03
 Mhm.

Trish The Dish   48:06
 Mostly because I can't relax. I have ADD. My brain is constantly moving. When I'm doing a reading, I am taking notes, but if you were to see them, it just looks like a chicken scratch. I'm just trying to occupy that part of my brain. Umm I started doing mental health walks.
 anything to kind of tap into that higher self and find a way to relax to shut off all of the the excess noise, which it makes you think it's like, is this really my noise? Or is this like societal noise of like

Fitzpatrick, Rachel   48:35
 Mhm.

Trish The Dish   48:40
 As a mom, I should be doing XYZ right now. Get up off the couch, open this away or go do this. You need to did it, you know, do this or that. But if you stop, stop for a second and listen to your higher self and it's look at your child like let's get down on the floor, like let's play dinosaurs for 10 minutes and have that connection.

Fitzpatrick, Rachel   48:46
 Right.

Trish The Dish   49:00
 And you think you know where?
 the spots in your life where you've listened to your heart and followed, like moving to Louisville, I gave away all my furniture. I had no money, I had no job. I had somewhere to live, yes. But I was like, I can't be in the town anymore. And I was almost laughing when I I quit my job.
 I get rid of all of my my material possessions other than clothes. And yeah, and I I drew my oh my God, I was driving a Nissan Cube. Like, yeah, I'm a little fishbowl. I don't have any more, thank God, because my

Fitzpatrick, Rachel   49:28
 And a cat.

Trish The Dish   49:44
 was too big for it and he hated it. Yeah, he he had to drive it a couple times like like after I think I had like a procedure or something and he had to drive and he was like, this car's ridiculous. But listening to my inner voice that says, you know what, I need to go. I need to get out of here.

Fitzpatrick, Rachel   49:45
 He'd be like a little cloud in a cloud. Oh.
 Mhm.

Trish The Dish   50:03
 here. This doesn't feel right. The The night that my mom passed, I remember studying. We had left the hospital and she was sitting up. My dad was like, wow, she's doing much better. And she was in an intensive, she was in the intensive care unit. And I remember thinking, I need to go to bed early. And I remember thinking,

Fitzpatrick, Rachel   50:04
 Right.

Trish The Dish   50:23
 should probably go ahead and take a shower now. And then we got the phone rang and my dad said, Don't worry about it, I'll go up there. And that was about 11 o'clock. And I remember just that that feeling in the pit of my stomach and going, Okay, I gotta go up there.
 Um. And going up there and seeing her on that like rebreather mask and um.
 I hadn't been there 10 minutes before I to describe the past, the difference, so.
 when she started to pass away, the room got really crowded with living people and deceased people, and it was family members that I physically recognized only from photo albums that were there, and it's almost like a party for them. It's the same thing with the birth.

Fitzpatrick, Rachel   51:03
 Yeah.
 Mhm.
 It is.

Trish The Dish   51:15
 everybody on this side of the is so excited to welcome this new baby. But for them they're going home. They're going to heaven. They're going to the other side, and that feeling

Fitzpatrick, Rachel   51:17
 It is.
 Mhm.

Trish The Dish   51:27
 It was insane. And I told you that I had a terrible, terrible pregnancy, but I was in the hospital for about 3 weeks before my son was born. I had crazy high blood pressure. I'm talking. I checked it at home and it was 220 / 180 and I'm texting my neighbor who's a nurse like, is that high? Is that bad?

Fitzpatrick, Rachel   51:45
 But.

Trish The Dish   51:47
 And she's like, oh, ****, we need, we need to go. And I was on multiple blood pressure medicines and they gave me something that I was allergic to. And the room got crowded like it did when my mom passed away.

Fitzpatrick, Rachel   51:48
 Yeah, I'm surprised you're alive, honey, you know?
 Oh.

Trish The Dish   52:03
 And I started to not care how much I was breathing. And I remember hallucinating and thinking that my cat was in the in the hospital room and my stats and everything were dropping. And I remember starting to see a lot of people that I loved in the room.

Fitzpatrick, Rachel   52:04
 Hmm.

Trish The Dish   52:20
 being really excited to see them. But my uncle, my mom, um grandparents being up on my face, going, you need to breathe, and you need to breathe, and the nurse coming in and rubbing, doing a a rub, and them having to kind of get me to perk back up, and
 I told John, my husband, I was like, it's really crowded in here. And it was just myself and these other nurses, and they're looking at me like I'm crazy. And he told them when I did. And then I was the weird patient that was in the hospital for three weeks. You know, they're like, that's that lady that talks to dead people. I don't want to talk to her.

Fitzpatrick, Rachel   52:55
 Don't go in there. It's weird.

Trish The Dish   52:57
 Cause like, yeah, I would go in there. I know I was so out of it from the medicine that they gave me and the nurse walked up and I said there's a man who was burned in the biscuit factory here and she was like, OK, OK. And my father-in-law, who's kind of like a local, he just knows anything about.

Fitzpatrick, Rachel   53:03
 Mm.

Trish The Dish   53:17
 Everything. And he said, oh, there's a Pillsbury factory really close to the hospital that shut down because the conditions were so bad. And I'm like, well, I met a very nice gentleman who was burned there and passed away at that.

Fitzpatrick, Rachel   53:23
 Hmm.

Trish The Dish   53:28
 So, total tangent. I'm sorry. Everybody listen to that higher self and listen to your inner voice that tells you these things. Umm It's just something that's

Fitzpatrick, Rachel   53:40
 Who?

Trish The Dish   53:44
 really defined my life and the more that I lean into it, the better it gets. And I love helping people so much. I love meeting new clients and seeing their faces. It still blows my mind every time I get a great review. I'm like, oh my gosh, so-and-so liked me. Um

Fitzpatrick, Rachel   53:44
 Mhm.

Trish The Dish   54:02
 You know, I've it's listed on Google. I have a Facebook page. I'm on a Facebook group. I'm still on the fence about having a website because I'm not as technologically advanced as you are with yours and.

Fitzpatrick, Rachel   54:12
 Yeah, no, I'm not that technology advanced. I've just got someone who is, and I know her and she's gonna come to my retreat. So I'm really excited. Yeah. Would love to have you at my retreat. I really, really, really, really, really, really, really good. But yeah, yeah.

Trish The Dish   54:20
 Oh, I need to meet up with her.
 Can I just bring bring my child 'cause we've only been, you know, we've only been apart one night, you know?
 OK.
 OK.
 Yeah.
 Yeah.

Fitzpatrick, Rachel   54:51
 So it's Soul Echoes with Trish on Facebook. And yeah, you're Trish, Trish Riggle. And we will. I'll put your Google review on there too, so that's the way you're able to be contacted.

Trish The Dish   54:53
 Yes. And I'm Trish.
 OK, sure.
 Yes, I would love to talk to anybody. And I have to say just for a second that I am very proud of you. I love. I've listened to all of the podcasts. I think what you're doing is amazing and I'm proud to see you grow and blossom and I told you so.

Fitzpatrick, Rachel   55:07
 So.
 Mhm.

Trish The Dish   55:23
 Give me an invite to your wedding because your grandmother and your uncle were like, you need to get her to this person and you need to get her down the aisle and get her married. And I'm like, oh, OK, like, yeah, like right now.

Fitzpatrick, Rachel   55:24
 Thank you.
 Oh, and I've got my grandmother's wedding ring. Like, that's my grandma's wedding ring. Thank you. I was just like, Oh my God, I don't know if I can wear this. This was hers. My mom keeps reassuring me. Like, it's OK. It's OK. She wants you to have it. And I'm like.

Trish The Dish   55:39
 Oh, that's beautiful. Look at that.
 Like, yeah.
 Yeah.

Fitzpatrick, Rachel   55:52
 No, I did. Yeah, like right away. She used to have fingers the size of mine, but when she passed, she was a bit bloated from all of her medications, you know? And then, um, her rings were a bit big, but yeah, I got it.

Trish The Dish   55:54
 Did you have to get it resized? She had little fingers, didn't she? She was.
 Oh, yeah.

Fitzpatrick, Rachel   56:12
 Sized back down and.

Trish The Dish   56:14
 No.

Fitzpatrick, Rachel   56:15
 I love her so much. So it's a good one. It's a good one. Well, thank you so very, very, very much for your time and this story. I will probably listen to it over and over again. I could.

Trish The Dish   56:15
 That's a great way to honor her.
 Yeah, it's a great way to honor that.
 You're welcome.

Fitzpatrick, Rachel   56:30
 That's super duper touching your friend. I tell her thank you for allowing you to share her story. Cause that is just like, yeah, day one of your first job and you didn't even freak out. You're like, you know what? I'm.

Trish The Dish   56:35
 I will.
 M.

Fitzpatrick, Rachel   56:46
 Would do you a disservice if I didn't say anything to you, you know, so.

Trish The Dish   56:49
 Yeah. And was a great example of motherhood too. That was before becoming a mom and seeing the things that she went through and realizing that's what it is to be a parent, is the sacrifice. It was beautiful.

Fitzpatrick, Rachel   56:55
 Absolutely.

Trish The Dish   57:04
 Like, I'm gonna cry. I'm gonna cry again. I'm here for it. You know, you know, I'm a talker. I'm a talker.
 I love you too. You're welcome.