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I Adore the Hell Outta You is a cheeky, unfiltered podcast for women in midlife—and anyone curious about what it really looks like to grow, stretch, and continuously expand. Hosted by two best friends with a tarot deck and a sharp sense of humor, we dive into the wild ride of aging, identity, relationships, body stuff, and big life pivots. Think late-night phone call energy meets real talk about becoming more yourself, one messy chapter at a time. Midlife is the main character, but all are welcome.

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Gensexual Healing: Moaning in midlife

June 25, 2025 • Season 1 • Episode 3

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Welcome to our most salacious episode yet.

In this spicy, soulful, and totally real conversation, Christa and Holly dive headfirst into the buzz around Gen X women and midlife sex in the media and in bed. From tarot pulls to fairy porn, new dick to deep love, and spontaneous orgasms to frownies (yes, really), this episode explores what it means to embrace desire, identity, and embodiment in your 40s and beyond.

Inspired by recent articles from The New York Times and The Gloria, the hosts reflect on the Gen X sexual revolution—and ask whether it’s a real evolution or just a fantasy sold back to us with retinol.

Spoiler: it’s both.

Whether you’re having the best sex of your life, opting out altogether, or just wondering where your libido wandered off to, this episode holds space for all of it—with laughter, honesty, and a whole lot of curiosity.

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Articles Cited:

“Why Gen X Women Are Having the Best Sex of Their Lives” – NYT, Feb 2025

“Midlife Doesn’t Have to Be a Crisis” – Hello Gloria, April 2025

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