I Adore the Hell Outta You
I Adore the Hell Outta You is a cheeky, unfiltered podcast for women in midlife—and anyone curious about what it really looks like to grow, stretch, and continuously expand. Hosted by two best friends with a tarot deck and a sharp sense of humor, we dive into the wild ride of aging, identity, relationships, body stuff, and big life pivots. Think late-night phone call energy meets real talk about becoming more yourself, one messy chapter at a time. Midlife is the main character, but all are welcome.
Episodes
35 episodes
Holding on lightly: the art of the volley
In a season of life when heaps of shit are being thrown at us from all directions- we're contemplating what it means to hold it all lightly. Balancing responsibility with self-preservation, the art of the volley is worth considering. <...
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Season 2
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Episode 33
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33:44
When you don't have the answers: smooth white icy patches
There are a lot of life analogies that can be found on the ski hill. We found another one- the smooth white icy patches that catch you off guard, send you sailing, have you white knuckling your way through life. This is a balm for those without...
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31:10
Powder Days and a Mogul Maze: Moms on skis
Credit to my son for that title! Ok, we're currently feeling fried about the state of the country sooooo we're throwing something fun and exhilarating to counteract the urge to retreat in fear. Get out there and throw your arms to t...
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41:44
How to plan your own party and toot your own horn
It's time to partaaaaaay. And we're throwing our own party. In today's episode we tease out the discomfort and the opportunity that can come from tooting your own horn. And in 2026 we're calling for more of this! Take your bold authority and pl...
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42:02
Back to life, back to reality
We're back at it but we're easing in and we hope you can too. How do we take breaks? Why are breaks important? We're breaking it down bit by juicy, drippy, bit. Actually, it's not juicy, I mean it's not sexy juicy. It's reality. But let's go ea...
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Season 2
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Episode 32
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53:29
Kissing 2025 Goodbye
MWAH, now get out of here you dirty little biscuit. We're kissing 2025 goodbye and sharing our approach to entering a new year. We like to claim a bold word for the year, something to hold on to as we move through the inevitable com...
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Season 1
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Episode 31
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32:50
Merry Christmas Ya Filthy Animal
All things beloved (and cursed) about the magical time of year we call Christmas. Laughter is a balm, and we're serving up a nice juicy one to get you relaxed and, in the mood,... In the mood for what is what we really want to know🤣...
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Season 1
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Episode 30
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40:45
Comedy, Creativity, and the Courage to be Seen
"Because when you make people laugh, you make people listen"We're thrilled to have Lynn Harris, CEO of Gold Comedy on the pod this week. Our conversation is a lesson in life-hacks because there is power in making people laugh, putting yo...
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Season 1
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Episode 29
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50:09
Winter Solstice and the Shadow
We're embracing the dark, not always willingly, but that's how it goes right?! In this season of darkness, we not editing out pauses on purpose. We're leaving them in because it's the season of slow(er) when it comes to shadow work....
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Season 1
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Episode 28
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35:19
I'm good and I like what I like
"I'm good". It rolls off the tongues of many teenagers so easily, so nonchalantly. We're learning from the kids how easy it can be to say no. Gosh they're smart and maybe they're on to something here😉. They usually are. I...
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Season 1
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Episode 26
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35:08
Feast on This
🦃🥧You can really sink your teeth into this episode. It's juicy, it's salacious, it will get your giggle going. Please, just let your hair down (all your hair) and ease into the feasting spirit. Whatever is on your plate will be more...
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Season 1
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Episode 25
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44:47
Confessions of The Fool
What would you do if no one was watching?This week, we’re wading into the wild waters of playful inhibition, and the art of not taking ourselves too seriously. What if?? What might happen?? We're dr...
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Season 1
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Episode 24
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36:47
Control Freak(out): the illusion of control and its wicked grip
This one really hit home! Is it control, is it fear, is it all an illusion anyway??!!! We're processing out loud and our inner werewolves are howling (again) as we wrestle with the illusion of control and what's at stake when we sur...
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39:17
Boundaries, Balance, and the Bullseye: Finding Your True North
✨ In this episode:We're digging into what it really means to live in alignment with your values. Are you walking your talk? Or drifting a little off course? Think of this episode as a cozy fall check-in for your inner bowling lane...
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Season 1
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Episode 22
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30:28
Alter Egos and Past Lives
Get ready to howl and curse.... This week, we dive headfirst into our alter egos, past lives, and the personas that help us explore who we really are. We try on a lot of different "outfits" in this episode, but ultimately, we ...
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Season 1
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Episode 21
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43:10
Bodybuilding show recap!!!!!!
This is so fun!! Listen in while we deconstruct the competition weekend and reflect on how letting people in on the journey made all the difference. But that can be easier said than done... We talk about all of it in this episode. W...
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Season 1
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Episode 20
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45:15
What's in and What's Out: Thoughts on where we put our energy💫
What’s working, what’s not, and how the hell do we decide??In this episode, Christa and Holly ride the seasonal shift into a conversation about energetic clutter, routine evaluation, and choosing change — with intention. This isn’t your ...
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Season 1
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Episode 19
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33:40
Tell Me Immediately: Reclaiming TMI
Heads up: brief discussion of restrictive eating from 16:00–21:00 This episode is just a darn good time. There's not much else to say about that... We're reclaiming TMI and implore you to tell us and each other immediately EVE...
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Season 1
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Episode 18
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41:57
Loosening the Grip: Reflections on the Fall Equinox
Heads up: brief discussion of restrictive eating from 8:00–10:00. In this episode of I Adore the Hell Outta You, we explore what it means to “white knuckle” through uncertainty — gripping tightly in the ...
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Season 1
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Episode 17
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26:06
There's a Good Reason for Your Resistance
This week, we’re talking about resistance—not the epic fight-the-fascists kind (though, always), but the subtle, sneaky kind that shows up in the mundane. You know, like avoiding a phone call, ignoring the to-do list, or sigh re...
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Season 1
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Episode 16
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40:31
Too Much for What??
In this bold and honest episode, Christa and Holly dig into a question so many women ask themselves—“Am I too much?” We explore the double binds of expression and shame, the tension between freedom and societal expectation, and the wei...
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47:12
Schools in session: We're talking about your DNA (Dirty, Nasty, Authenticity)
In this juicy episode, we welcome our very first guest—Tara from FMC Books in Missoula, Montana! Tara is the bold, brilliant owner of a romance bookstore that’s so much more than spicy stories (although t...
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Season 1
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Episode 14
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59:40
Catching up + Cracking Up
This week's episode is so dang fun. As we wind down Summer and step into our new routines and life adventures, we set this week aside for pure joy. Just a good ol fashioned catch up. Grab a cup of coffee or your diet coke and strap on your favo...
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Season 1
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Episode 13
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40:01