Free From P*rn

#11 Stop Asking God to Take Your Desires Away

Richard Young

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In today’s episode of the Free From Porn podcast, Richard and Justin confront one of the most common—but unbiblical—prayers we hear from men in our coaching program:

"God, take away my sexual desires."

But what if that’s not the problem?

What if your sexual desire isn’t a curse to be removed—but a gift to be redeemed?

We talk about:

  • Why numbing your desires leads to spiritual and emotional dysfunction
  • How Jesus models what it means to feel deeply (without being ruled by feelings)
  • Why real freedom doesn’t mean shutting down your sex drive—but learning to steward it in righteousness
  • The trap of Christianized stoicism and the myth of “robotic holiness”
  • How to stop seeing your sexuality as dirty and start thanking God for it

If you’ve ever begged God to just make it all go away, this one’s for you.