Free From P*rn
This isn’t another “try harder” purity podcast.
It’s not about white-knuckling your way to freedom or stacking up shame-fueled accountability check-ins.
This is about transformation.
Real, lasting, gospel-centered freedom from pornography—not someday, but today.
Hosted by former addicts turned freedom coaches, Richard Young and Justin Khoe, Free from Porn is a no-shame, no-fluff conversation rooted in one bold truth:
If Jesus has set you free from sin, then porn doesn’t get to define you.
Each episode exposes the lies keeping you stuck, renews your mind with truth from God’s Word, and helps you walk out the freedom you already have in Christ.
Expect raw honesty, biblical clarity, practical strategy, and stories from people who’ve actually broken free—not because they got stronger, but because they started believing what Jesus already said was true.
Free From P*rn
#49 Stop Calling It Failure: The Mindset That’s Keeping You Stuck in Porn
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What if the thing you call “failure” is actually the key to your freedom?
In this episode of the Free From Porn podcast, Richard Young and Justin Khoe dismantle one of the most dangerous beliefs Christian men carry: “If I mess up again, it’s over.”
That mindset doesn’t protect you… it traps you.
We unpack why all-or-nothing thinking keeps you stuck in the cycle—and how a simple shift can change everything. Drawing from concepts popularized by Carol Dweck and grounded in the gospel, we show why relapse isn’t a verdict—it’s data.
You’ll learn:
• Why porn isn’t the real problem (and what actually is)
• How shame and fear of failure keep the cycle alive
• The difference between a fixed mindset and a growth mindset
• Why compassion—not condemnation—is the path to real change
• What Simon Peter’s story reveals about how Jesus Christ responds to your worst moments
This episode will reframe how you see setbacks—and show you how to actually grow through them instead of being defined by them.
If you’ve been stuck in shame, afraid to fail again, or believing you have to get it perfect to be free… this conversation is for you.
Freedom isn’t found in never falling.
It’s found in learning how to rise—with truth.