Dating Frenchmen 101

In episode 13, Mimi and Suzy explore what it’s really like to date French men, from first dates and slow-to-arrive kisses to relationships that seem to form without discussion. They unpack the cultural differences around exclusivity, commitment, and the lack of a “define the relationship” talk, while also diving into the phenomenon of love bombing and how to recognize red and green flags early on. With Mimi’s perspective as someone married to a Frenchman and Suzy’s experience dating in France today, they compare etiquette around splitting the bill, expectations of romance, and why French men may be stylish and expressive but less inclined toward machismo. The discussion also looks at dating apps, presentation and grooming, and the subtle cultural cues that shape relationships across borders. 

Keywords

Dating in France, French men, French dating culture, love bombing, monogramy, commitment, first-date etiquette, splitting the bill, intercultural relationships, French kissing, dating apps in France (Hinge, Fruitz, Bumble, OkCupid, AdopteUnMec, Tinder), cultural differences, red flags, green flags, communication styles, expat life in France, French masculinity, French fashion, relationship dynamics, dating abroad. 

Chapters

00:01 — La Rentrée Stress
 01:08 — Dating French Men
 07:12 — Exclusivity and Commitment
 09:06 — Love Bombing and Red Flags
 19:41 — Machismo, Romance, and Style
 28:24 — Dating Apps in France
 35:00 — First-Date Etiquette
 40:36 — Final Thoughts