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UR a CURE- Adult Children of Alcoholics
This podcast is for adult children of alcoholics (ACOA) and dysfunctional families who wants to help themselves.
My name’s Justyna and I am originally from Poland but living in Ireland for about 20 years. I went through ACOA therapy, but the REAL transformation started when I became more aware of my thoughts, emotions and reactions. Only when I turned to silence, I heard my inner child who needed a lot of love and support.
I am a life coach who helps adult children of alcoholics and dysfunctional families to find their purpose in life and their talents.
In this podcast I will cover topics around trauma healing, changing your programming. I will speak about the common ACOA emotions and struggles. I am sharing my personal experiences with how I managed to transform my life.
UR a CURE- Adult Children of Alcoholics
Episode 7- Inner Dialogue
This episode explores inner dialogue—how we talk to ourselves and how it shapes our emotions, behaviors, and healing process.
The discussion is divided into four sections:
- Section 1: Understanding how our inner dialogue sounds when we're stuck in old childhood roles shaped by family dysfunction.
- Section 2: Learning how to break free from negative self-talk and shift into healthier communication with ourselves.
- Section 3: Exploring introspection—asking ourselves deep questions and listening for answers to better understand our thoughts.
- Section 4: Connecting with our higher self, soul, guides, or spirituality, understanding that wisdom comes from within.
The episode also touches on the Drama Triangle—Victim, Rescuer, and Persecutor roles—and how they affect both external relationships and internal dialogue.
By becoming aware of these patterns and learning to communicate outside the Drama Triangle, we can reconnect with the parts of ourselves that we've suppressed—helping us heal, find wisdom, and embrace our true selves.
It covers four key areas:
- Recognizing Inner Dialogue Patterns – Observing how we speak to ourselves, especially when triggered, and identifying whether we fall into Victim, Persecutor, or Rescuer roles.
- Breaking Free from Negative Self-Talk – Learning to shift away from the Drama Triangle and approach ourselves with honesty, vulnerability, and compassion.
- Practicing Introspection – Asking deeper questions to understand why certain thoughts arise, when they are strongest, and how they are influenced by specific people or places.
- Connecting with Your Higher Self – Quieting the mind through meditation, reflection, and self-awareness to access inner wisdom and guidance beyond the ego.
The episode emphasizes self-acceptance, healing, and personal empowerment—encouraging listeners to embrace all parts of themselves and transform their inner dialogue into a source of strength and truth.
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justyna.lyzwa@uracure.com