Let’s Get Real with Jena Burris

The Silent Bully That’s Shaping Motherhood (Part 2)—with Jackie Ganey

Jena Burris Season 1 Episode 7

If you’ve ever wondered why motherhood feels so heavy—even when you love your kids deeply—this episode is for you.

In Part 2 of our conversation, Jackie and I go deeper into what’s really behind mom guilt. We unpack the cultural and generational messages that have shaped us, the anger that bubbles up when our needs go unmet, and the shame that keeps us silent.

This isn’t just about parenting tips. It’s about healing.

You’ll hear honest stories about coping mechanisms (like wine or overperformance), unmet emotional needs, and what it actually looks like to reconnect with the parts of ourselves we’ve buried. We talk about how to raise emotionally healthy kids without losing ourselves in the process—and how to move from guilt-driven living to freedom and wholeness.

What we cover in this episode:

  • Why guilt often masks deeper shame
     
  • The real reason moms feel hollow and resentful
     
  • How unmet needs show up in anger, burnout, and performance
     
  • The power of naming emotions and reclaiming your voice
     
  • How to start breaking generational cycles with compassion
     

Mentioned in this episode:

  • The Voice of the Heart by Chip Dodd
     
  • The Needs of the Heart by Chip Dodd

Connect with Jackie Gainey:

Website: TheHomeDesignCo.com

Facebook & Instagram: @jackie.gainey

Jackie is a mom, entrepreneur, and co-leader of a local moms group in Tennessee. She recently launched her home staging business while raising two (soon to be three!) kids and helping other moms find freedom from guilt and shame.

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The Overwhelmed Mom’s Guide: 10 Simple Ways to Feel Like Yourself Again

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This short guide will help you reconnect with your needs, build rhythms of rest, and find yourself again in the chaos of motherhood.

Connect with me:

Instagram:@jenaburris

Email: jena@jenaburris.com