Men Get Cheated On Too!
Men Get Cheated On Too, is the podcast for men betrayed and broken by their partner’s infidelity. Hosted by Adam B. Nisenson, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and the voice behind The Betrayal Shrink, you’ll get real talk, expert guidance, and the raw truth from someone who’s lived it and personally knows the pain of betrayal that men experience. No more silence. No more pretending you’re fine. Whether you're fresh in the pain or deep in the process, this show helps you face the truth, heal the wounds, and reclaim your strength. Subscribe now... your recovery and healing starts here.
Men Get Cheated On Too!
Ep. 39: What to Do When They Blame You
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Nothing cuts deeper than being betrayed and then blamed for it. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, speaks directly to the man who’s being told that the betrayal was somehow his fault. You were distant. You worked too much. You weren’t emotionally available. Now you're not only holding the pain of infidelity, but you’re also carrying guilt that was never yours to begin with.
“Their betrayal revealed who they were in that moment, not who you are.”
Adam breaks down how blame-shifting works, why it’s a defense mechanism, and how it twists your sense of reality. This episode gives betrayed men a clear framework to recognize gaslighting, reclaim their truth, and stop internalizing the shame that was never theirs to carry.
Inside this episode:
· What it means when your partner blames you for their betrayal
· Why blame is often a cover for their shame and denial
· How to respond without becoming defensive or reactive
· What it looks like to hold your ground and protect your truth
· When to disengage and stop trying to get them to see what they refuse to own
This episode is a reset for any man stuck in a cycle of blame, doubt, and emotional confusion. You don’t need their confession to validate your pain. You need your truth, your clarity, and a commitment to stop carrying what isn’t yours.
“You can’t rewrite their script, but you can reclaim your own voice.”
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