Men Get Cheated On Too!
Men Get Cheated On Too, is the podcast for men betrayed and broken by their partner’s infidelity. Hosted by Adam B. Nisenson, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and the voice behind The Betrayal Shrink, you’ll get real talk, expert guidance, and the raw truth from someone who’s lived it and personally knows the pain of betrayal that men experience. No more silence. No more pretending you’re fine. Whether you're fresh in the pain or deep in the process, this show helps you face the truth, heal the wounds, and reclaim your strength. Subscribe now... your recovery and healing starts here.
Episodes
47 episodes
Ep. 46: How to Stop Living in the Past
After betrayal, your mind keeps pulling you back. The conversations, the signs, the moments that now feel different. It plays on repeat, and no matter how much you think it through, it doesn’t stop. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal ...
Ep. 45: The Impact of Betrayal on Your Career
Most men don’t realize how deeply betrayal can affect their professional lives. You try to stay focused, show up, and keep producing, but the emotional chaos doesn’t clock out just because you’ve walked into the office. In this episode, Adam Ni...
Ep. 44: When You Can’t Stop Playing Detective
After betrayal, your brain goes into overdrive trying to solve the puzzle. You dig through texts, check emails, replay timelines, and feel like if you can just find one more clue, it’ll all finally make sense. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, Th...
Ep. 43: Formal Disclosure vs. Rolling Disclosure
After partner betrayal, you want the truth, but how that truth is delivered can make or break your healing. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, explains the critical difference between a formal disclosure and a rolling disclosu...
Ep. 42: When You Feel Betrayed by More Than Just Your Partner
Partner betrayal can shatter you, but what breaks you even more is when the people you expected to show up, don't. Friends, family, your work. When they minimize what happened, dismiss your pain, or quietly pull away, it adds a second layer of ...
Ep. 41: When You’re Not Ready to Tell Anyone Yet
There’s a moment after betrayal when the pain is real, but the words won’t come. You’re still trying to process what just happened, and the idea of saying it out loud feels like too much. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, spe...
Ep. 40: You’re Not Alone
Betrayal doesn’t just break your heart, it isolates you. In this powerful episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, speaks directly to the man sitting in silence, pretending everything’s fine, while his world has quietly fallen apart. If you...
Ep. 39: What to Do When They Blame You
Nothing cuts deeper than being betrayed and then blamed for it. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, speaks directly to the man who’s being told that the betrayal was somehow his fault. You were distant. You worked too much. You...
Ep. 38: The Lie of Closure
Most men who’ve been betrayed find themselves chasing closure, thinking one last conversation or final answer will help them move on. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, breaks down why closure is one of the most seductive and ...
Ep. 37: Jealousy, Comparison, and the Other Person
When your partner cheats, it’s not just the betrayal that wrecks you. It’s the obsessive spiral about the other guy... who he is, what he had, and why she chose him. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, breaks down one ...
Ep. 36: The Emotional Rollercoaster: Rage, Numbness, and Back Again
When your partner cheats, it doesn’t show up as one emotion. It’s all of them, rage, grief, confusion, numbness, hitting you in waves, over and over again. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, speaks directly to the emotional ch...
Ep. 35: Why Some Men Leave After Betrayal, And Why That’s Okay Too
Leaving after partner betrayal is one of the hardest decisions a man can make, and most people don’t understand the weight of it. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink speaks directly to the men who walked away or are considering ...
Ep. 34: Why Some Men Stay After Betrayal, And Why That’s Okay
A lot of men stay with their partner after partner betrayal, but nobody talks about it without judgment. In this episode, Adam breaks down the truth behind staying, the shame men carry when they do, and why choosing to stay does not make you we...
Ep. 33: The Role of Counseling in Masculine Betrayal Trauma Recovery
Most men avoid therapy or betrayal coaching after partner betrayal because everything already feels exposed. You are trying to hold it together at work, with friends, with family, and the idea of sitting in a room talking about the pain feels i...
Ep. 32: How to Talk to Friends and Family About the Betrayal
When a man gets cheated on, people don’t know what to say, and sometimes their reactions do more harm than good. In this episode, Adam help’s you unpack how to handle the awkward, painful, and often isolating experience of telling others about ...
Ep. 31: When You Can’t Eat, Sleep, or Think Straight
Betrayal trauma doesn’t just mess with your heart, it hits your body like a freight train. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, breaks down what happens when you can’t eat, can’t sleep, and your mind won’t stop spinning. If you'...
Ep. 30: What to Do with All the Rage
After partner betrayal, rage isn’t just anger, it’s grief in disguise. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, talks directly to men about the intensity of post-betrayal rage and what it’s really trying to tell you. You’ll learn wh...
Ep. 29: The Pressure to Forgive Too Soon
There’s a lot of pressure out there for men to be the “bigger person,” to let it go, to forgive fast, even when the pain is fresh and the betrayal still bleeds. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, speaks directly to men who are...
Ep. 28: When You Feel Like They Got Away with It
When your partner cheats and walks away with no remorse, no consequences, and no real accountability, it can feel like they got away with a major crime. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, speaks directly to the men stuck in th...
Ep. 27: Why Betrayal Feels Like Emotional Theft
This episode goes straight to the gut. Adam names what so many betrayed men feel but struggle to say out loud: betrayal doesn’t just break your heart, it robs you. It steals your safety, your trust, your memories, your peace, and your sense of ...
Ep. 26: Reclaiming Your Daily Routine After Betrayal
After partner betrayal, everything that once felt normal can fall apart, your sleep, your eating habits, your energy, your sense of time. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, talks directly to men about what it means to reclaim ...
Ep. 25: When the Kids Are Caught in the Middle
Betrayal doesn’t just hit you, it hits your kids too. In this powerful episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, speaks directly to fathers trying to protect their children while navigating the chaos of partner betrayal. When you're still tr...
Ep. 24: Sleeping with the Enemy – When the Betrayer Still Lives With You
What do you do when the person who shattered your trust still shares your space, your kitchen, maybe even your bed? In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, takes you inside the emotional chaos of living with your partner after betr...
Ep. 23: The Masculine Shame Spiral
After partner betrayal, most men don’t explode, they implode. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, takes you inside the quiet, corrosive cycle of masculine shame that creeps in after infidelity. This is the voice in your head that tells you real men...
Ep. 22B: Thanksgiving: When Gratitude Feels Out of Reach After Betrayal
Thanksgiving. A time when everyone around you seems to be posting about gratitude, family, and full hearts. But if you've been cheated on, betrayed, or blindsided by the person you trusted most, all this talk about thankfulness can feel like a ...