Men Get Cheated On Too!
Men Get Cheated On Too, is the podcast for men betrayed and broken by their partner’s infidelity. Hosted by Adam B. Nisenson, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and the voice behind The Betrayal Shrink, you’ll get real talk, expert guidance, and the raw truth from someone who’s lived it and personally knows the pain of betrayal that men experience. No more silence. No more pretending you’re fine. Whether you're fresh in the pain or deep in the process, this show helps you face the truth, heal the wounds, and reclaim your strength. Subscribe now... your recovery and healing starts here.
Episodes
40 episodes
Ep. 39: What to Do When They Blame You
Nothing cuts deeper than being betrayed and then blamed for it. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, speaks directly to the man who’s being told that the betrayal was somehow his fault. You were distant. You worked too much. You...
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Episode 39
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12:21
Ep. 38: The Lie of Closure
Most men who’ve been betrayed find themselves chasing closure, thinking one last conversation or final answer will help them move on. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, breaks down why closure is one of the most seductive and ...
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Episode 38
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13:01
Ep. 37: Jealousy, Comparison, and the Other Person
When your partner cheats, it’s not just the betrayal that wrecks you. It’s the obsessive spiral about the other guy... who he is, what he had, and why she chose him. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, breaks down one ...
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Episode 37
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12:23
Ep. 36: The Emotional Rollercoaster: Rage, Numbness, and Back Again
When your partner cheats, it doesn’t show up as one emotion. It’s all of them, rage, grief, confusion, numbness, hitting you in waves, over and over again. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, speaks directly to the emotional ch...
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Episode 26
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13:27
Ep. 35: Why Some Men Leave After Betrayal, And Why That’s Okay Too
Leaving after partner betrayal is one of the hardest decisions a man can make, and most people don’t understand the weight of it. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink speaks directly to the men who walked away or are considering ...
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Episode 35
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11:17
Ep. 34: Why Some Men Stay After Betrayal, And Why That’s Okay
A lot of men stay with their partner after partner betrayal, but nobody talks about it without judgment. In this episode, Adam breaks down the truth behind staying, the shame men carry when they do, and why choosing to stay does not make you we...
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Episode 34
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12:22
Ep. 33: The Role of Counseling in Masculine Betrayal Trauma Recovery
Most men avoid therapy or betrayal coaching after partner betrayal because everything already feels exposed. You are trying to hold it together at work, with friends, with family, and the idea of sitting in a room talking about the pain feels i...
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Episode 33
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11:50
Ep. 32: How to Talk to Friends and Family About the Betrayal
When a man gets cheated on, people don’t know what to say, and sometimes their reactions do more harm than good. In this episode, Adam help’s you unpack how to handle the awkward, painful, and often isolating experience of telling others about ...
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Episode 32
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11:31
Ep. 31: When You Can’t Eat, Sleep, or Think Straight
Betrayal trauma doesn’t just mess with your heart, it hits your body like a freight train. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, breaks down what happens when you can’t eat, can’t sleep, and your mind won’t stop spinning. If you'...
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Episode 31
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13:02
Ep. 30: What to Do with All the Rage
After partner betrayal, rage isn’t just anger, it’s grief in disguise. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, talks directly to men about the intensity of post-betrayal rage and what it’s really trying to tell you. You’ll learn wh...
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Episode 30
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12:59
Ep. 29: The Pressure to Forgive Too Soon
There’s a lot of pressure out there for men to be the “bigger person,” to let it go, to forgive fast, even when the pain is fresh and the betrayal still bleeds. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, speaks directly to men who are...
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Episode 29
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13:53
Ep. 28: When You Feel Like They Got Away with It
When your partner cheats and walks away with no remorse, no consequences, and no real accountability, it can feel like they got away with a major crime. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, speaks directly to the men stuck in th...
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Episode 28
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11:46
Ep. 27: Why Betrayal Feels Like Emotional Theft
This episode goes straight to the gut. Adam names what so many betrayed men feel but struggle to say out loud: betrayal doesn’t just break your heart, it robs you. It steals your safety, your trust, your memories, your peace, and your sense of ...
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Episode 27
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11:23
Ep. 26: Reclaiming Your Daily Routine After Betrayal
After partner betrayal, everything that once felt normal can fall apart, your sleep, your eating habits, your energy, your sense of time. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, talks directly to men about what it means to reclaim ...
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Episode 26
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12:45
Ep. 25: When the Kids Are Caught in the Middle
Betrayal doesn’t just hit you, it hits your kids too. In this powerful episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, speaks directly to fathers trying to protect their children while navigating the chaos of partner betrayal. When you're still tr...
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Episode 25
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13:05
Ep. 24: Sleeping with the Enemy – When the Betrayer Still Lives With You
What do you do when the person who shattered your trust still shares your space, your kitchen, maybe even your bed? In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, takes you inside the emotional chaos of living with your partner after betr...
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Episode 24
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8:59
Ep. 23: The Masculine Shame Spiral
After partner betrayal, most men don’t explode, they implode. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, takes you inside the quiet, corrosive cycle of masculine shame that creeps in after infidelity. This is the voice in your head that tells you real men...
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Episode 23
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11:13
Ep. 22B: Thanksgiving: When Gratitude Feels Out of Reach After Betrayal
Thanksgiving. A time when everyone around you seems to be posting about gratitude, family, and full hearts. But if you've been cheated on, betrayed, or blindsided by the person you trusted most, all this talk about thankfulness can feel like a ...
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8:34
Ep. 22: The Trauma of Sexual Betrayal
When your partner has sex with someone else, it’s not just cheating, it’s a full-body trauma. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, dives deep into the devastation of sexual betrayal and why it hits men at the core of their ident...
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Episode 22
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11:00
Ep. 21: Triggers – When the Smallest Things Wreck You
You’re having a good day, until a song, a smell, a look, or a text sends you spiraling. That’s not weakness. That’s trauma. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, takes you deep into the experience of betrayal triggers, those sudd...
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Episode 21
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11:44
Ep. 20: When the Betrayer Plays the Victim
What happens when the person who cheated on you starts acting like they’re the one who’s been hurt? Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, takes on one of the most infuriating dynamics betrayed men face, when the betrayer flips the script...
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Episode 20
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13:29
Ep. 19: The Betrayal Wasn’t Your Fault, But Healing Is Your Job
In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, delivers one of the most vital messages for any man facing partner betrayal: you are not to blame for what happened, but your healing is your responsibility.Adam unpacks the lie many b...
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Episode 19
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13:10
Ep. 18: Boundaries Are Not Ultimatums
In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, tackles one of the most misunderstood topics in healing after betrayal, boundaries. If you’ve ever been accused of being controlling or harsh when trying to stand up for yourself, or i...
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Episode 18
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11:13
Ep. 17: What If They Don’t Want to Work on It?
You’re ready to fight for the relationship… but what if your partner isn’t? This episode speaks directly to the gut-wrenching experience of being willing to rebuild while your partner stays cold, distant, or indifferent. Adam unpacks the second...
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Episode 17
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7:52
Ep. 16: Why Gaslighting Hurts So Deeply
Gaslighting is more than lying, it’s emotional abuse that distorts your sense of reality. In this powerful episode, Adam breaks down what gaslighting looks like in betrayal situations and why it’s so damaging. If you’ve ever been made to feel l...
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Episode 16
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9:27