Men Get Cheated On Too!
Men Get Cheated On Too, is the podcast for men betrayed and broken by their partner’s infidelity. Hosted by Adam B. Nisenson, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and the voice behind The Betrayal Shrink, you’ll get real talk, expert guidance, and the raw truth from someone who’s lived it and personally knows the pain of betrayal that men experience. No more silence. No more pretending you’re fine. Whether you're fresh in the pain or deep in the process, this show helps you face the truth, heal the wounds, and reclaim your strength. Subscribe now... your recovery and healing starts here.
Episodes
68 episodes
Ep. 67: When You Feel Ashamed of How You've Reacted
Many betrayed men aren't only ashamed of what happened to them. They're ashamed of how they responded afterward. Whether you've become angry, obsessive, emotionally withdrawn, or someone you barely recognize, this episode reminds you that traum...
Ep. 66: How to Stop Retelling the Worst Story
If your mind keeps replaying the affair over and over, you're not losing your mind. You're experiencing one of the most common trauma responses after betrayal. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, explains why your brain keeps r...
Ep. 65: The Cost of Denial
Denial after betrayal rarely sounds like denial. It sounds like, "Maybe it's not that bad." "Maybe things will get better." "Maybe I just need to be more patient." But over time, avoiding the truth comes at a tremendous emotional cost. In this ...
Ep. 64: Your Story Isn’t Over
Betrayal has a way of convincing you that everything good in your life is behind you. It narrows your focus until all you can see is the pain, making it feel like this chapter has become your entire identity. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The...
Ep. 63: Grieving the Life You Thought You Had
After betrayal, you're not only grieving the relationship. You're grieving the future you believed in, the safety you thought you had, and the life you expected to live. It's a kind of grief many men don't recognize because nobody teaches us th...
Ep. 62: What If They Won’t Stop Contact With the Affair Partner?
One of the biggest obstacles to rebuilding trust after betrayal is ongoing contact with the affair partner. If your partner says they're committed to reconciliation but refuses to completely cut ties, you're left questioning everything. In this...
Ep. 61: The Trauma Bond, Why It’s So Hard to Let Go
You know the relationship has hurt you. You know trust has been broken. Yet somehow, you still feel connected. You still miss them. You still hope things will change. If you've ever questioned why it's so difficult to let go of someone who caus...
Ep. 60: How to Begin Trusting Yourself Again
After betrayal, it’s not only trust in your partner that gets damaged. It’s trust in yourself. You start questioning your judgment, your instincts, and the decisions you made. You replay the past, looking for what you missed, and it leaves you ...
Ep. 59: The Decision to Divorce or Rebuild
At some point after betrayal, the question becomes unavoidable. Do you stay and try to rebuild, or do you leave and start over? It’s one of the heaviest decisions you’ll face, and for most men, it comes with pressure to figure it out fast. But ...
Ep. 58: You Don’t Have to Have It All Figured Out
After betrayal, there’s a quiet pressure that starts building. You feel like you’re supposed to know what to do, where you’re going, and how this all ends. Stay or leave. Trust again or walk away. Fix it or move on. And when you don’t have thos...
Ep. 57: Anger After Betrayal, What’s Underneath the Rage?
After betrayal, anger shows up fast and strong. It can feel constant, unpredictable, and at times overwhelming. One moment you’re holding it together, the next something small sets you off and the intensity doesn’t match the situation. In this ...
Ep. 56: You’re Not Responsible for Their Healing
After betrayal, a lot of men fall into a pattern they don’t even realize they’re in. You start paying attention to how they’re doing, whether they’re changing, whether they finally understand the impact of what happened. You adjust yourself, yo...
Ep. 55: Self-Care for Betrayed Men
After betrayal, most men don’t think about self-care the right way. It either feels irrelevant, too soft, or like something you can deal with later. But the reality is, when your mind is racing, your emotions are unpredictable, and your sense o...
Ep. 54: Why You Feel Like You’re Going Crazy
After betrayal, there’s a moment many men don’t talk about. The moment where your thoughts won’t stop, your emotions feel all over the place, and you start questioning yourself. You wonder why you can’t shut it off, why you’re reacting the way ...
Ep. 53: When Your Partner Was Living a Double Life
Some betrayals don’t just break trust. They break your sense of reality. You’re not only dealing with cheating. You’re dealing with the realization that the relationship you thought you were in wasn’t fully real. In this episode, Adam Nisenson,...
Ep. 52: The Myth of Just Getting Over It
At some point after betrayal, you hear it. Maybe from others. Maybe from yourself. “Just get over it.” It sounds simple. It sounds like the answer. But it creates more pressure than progress and leaves a lot of men feeling like they’re failing ...
Ep. 51: What If You Still Love Them?
After betrayal, there’s something a lot of men don’t expect to still be there. The love. And that creates a kind of confusion that can feel impossible to sort out. You’re dealing with anger, hurt, and broken trust, but at the same time, you sti...
Ep. 50: This Isn’t Where It Ends
After betrayal, it can feel like everything is over. Not just the relationship, but the life you thought you were building. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, speaks directly to that moment where it feels like your story has b...
Ep. 49: The Cost of Betrayal to Your Self-Esteem
Betrayal does not just damage trust. It changes how you see yourself. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, breaks down how infidelity cuts into your sense of worth and why so many men quietly start questioning if they were ever ...
Ep. 48: When You’re Trying to Protect Your Kids From the Fallout
When kids are involved, betrayal becomes more than your own pain. Now you are trying to hold everything together while also protecting them. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, speaks to the pressure men feel to stay strong, st...
Ep. 47: When You’re Angry at Yourself for Missing the Signs
One of the hardest parts of betrayal is not just what they did. It’s what you start saying to yourself after. You replay everything, looking for missed signs, and the question keeps coming back, how did I not see this? In this episode, Adam Nis...
Ep. 46: How to Stop Living in the Past
After betrayal, your mind keeps pulling you back. The conversations, the signs, the moments that now feel different. It plays on repeat, and no matter how much you think it through, it doesn’t stop. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal ...
Ep. 45: The Impact of Betrayal on Your Career
Most men don’t realize how deeply betrayal can affect their professional lives. You try to stay focused, show up, and keep producing, but the emotional chaos doesn’t clock out just because you’ve walked into the office. In this episode, Adam Ni...
Ep. 44: When You Can’t Stop Playing Detective
After betrayal, your brain goes into overdrive trying to solve the puzzle. You dig through texts, check emails, replay timelines, and feel like if you can just find one more clue, it’ll all finally make sense. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, Th...
Ep. 43: Formal Disclosure vs. Rolling Disclosure
After partner betrayal, you want the truth, but how that truth is delivered can make or break your healing. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, explains the critical difference between a formal disclosure and a rolling disclosu...