Men Get Cheated On Too!
Men Get Cheated On Too, is the podcast for men betrayed and broken by their partner’s infidelity. Hosted by Adam B. Nisenson, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and the voice behind The Betrayal Shrink, you’ll get real talk, expert guidance, and the raw truth from someone who’s lived it and personally knows the pain of betrayal that men experience. No more silence. No more pretending you’re fine. Whether you're fresh in the pain or deep in the process, this show helps you face the truth, heal the wounds, and reclaim your strength. Subscribe now... your recovery and healing starts here.
Episodes
22 episodes
Ep. 22: The Trauma of Sexual Betrayal
When your partner has sex with someone else, it’s not just cheating, it’s a full-body trauma. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, dives deep into the devastation of sexual betrayal and why it hits men at the core of their ident...
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Episode 22
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11:00
Ep. 21: Triggers – When the Smallest Things Wreck You
You’re having a good day, until a song, a smell, a look, or a text sends you spiraling. That’s not weakness. That’s trauma. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, takes you deep into the experience of betrayal triggers, those sudd...
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Episode 21
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11:44
Ep. 20: When the Betrayer Plays the Victim
What happens when the person who cheated on you starts acting like they’re the one who’s been hurt? Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, takes on one of the most infuriating dynamics betrayed men face, when the betrayer flips the script...
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Episode 20
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13:29
Ep. 19: The Betrayal Wasn’t Your Fault, But Healing Is Your Job
In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, delivers one of the most vital messages for any man facing partner betrayal: you are not to blame for what happened, but your healing is your responsibility.Adam unpacks the lie many b...
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Episode 19
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13:10
Ep. 18: Boundaries Are Not Ultimatums
In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, tackles one of the most misunderstood topics in healing after betrayal, boundaries. If you’ve ever been accused of being controlling or harsh when trying to stand up for yourself, or i...
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Episode 18
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11:13
Ep. 17: What If They Don’t Want to Work on It?
You’re ready to fight for the relationship… but what if your partner isn’t? This episode speaks directly to the gut-wrenching experience of being willing to rebuild while your partner stays cold, distant, or indifferent. Adam unpacks the second...
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Episode 17
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7:52
Ep. 16: Why Gaslighting Hurts So Deeply
Gaslighting is more than lying, it’s emotional abuse that distorts your sense of reality. In this powerful episode, Adam breaks down what gaslighting looks like in betrayal situations and why it’s so damaging. If you’ve ever been made to feel l...
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Episode 16
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9:27
Ep. 15: When You’re Still Sleeping in the Same Bed
What happens when the person who betrayed you still shares your bed? In this raw and honest episode, Adam tackles the emotional toll of sleeping next to the partner who shattered your trust. From feeling unsafe in your own body to navigating th...
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Episode 15
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9:06
Ep. 14: The Power of Brotherhood in Healing
Men heal better in the presence of other men. In this episode, Adam shares why brotherhood, true, vulnerable connection with other men, is one of the most powerful antidotes to betrayal trauma. This is not about locker-room talk or sup...
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8:58
Ep. 13: How to Stop Obsessing Over the Other Person
What do you do when your mind won’t stop spinning about them, the person your partner cheated with? In this episode, Adam dives into the torment of obsessive thoughts about “the other person.” Whether you’re comparing yourself, fantasi...
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Episode 13
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9:17
Ep. 12: You’re Not Weak for Wanting Your Partner Back
What if you still want your partner back after they betrayed you? Does that make you weak, or just human? In this episode, Adam takes on one of the hardest and most shame-filled truths men carry after infidelity: the desire to stay.
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Episode 12
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9:40
Ep. 11: How Betrayal Impacts Your Self-Worth
When your partner cheats, it doesn’t just break your heart, it breaks the mirror you see yourself through. In this raw and powerful episode, Adam dives deep into the identity collapse and loss of self-worth that men experience after betrayal. Y...
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Episode 11
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9:26
Ep. 10: What Betrayal Feels Like in a Man’s Body
This episode gets personal and physical, literally. Partner betrayal doesn’t just mess with your mind, it lodges in your nervous system. Adam breaks down how trauma shows up in your body: sleeplessness, chest tightness, gut issues, rage, numbne...
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Episode 10
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9:38
Ep. 9: What is Masculine Betrayal Trauma?
Most men don’t even know what they’re experiencing has a name. In this episode, Adam introduces the concept of Masculine Betrayal Trauma (MBT), a unique form of trauma that affects men deeply when they are betrayed by their partner. Lear...
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Episode 9
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10:13
Ep. 8: The First 90 Days After Partner Betrayal
The first three months after discovering infidelity can feel like hell. This episode is your survival guide for the chaos, confusion, and emotional freefall that follow betrayal. Adam outlines what to expect, panic, flashbacks, intrusive though...
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Episode 8
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8:09
Ep. 7: Masculinity, Betrayal, and the Male Identity Crisis
When your partner cheats, it doesn’t just feel like rejection, it feels like a failure of manhood. This episode takes you deep into the identity collapse many men experience after partner betrayal. Adam unpacks how traditional definitions of ma...
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Episode 7
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8:48
Ep. 6: Why Men Don’t Talk About Being Cheated On
Men get cheated on too, but most don’t talk about it. In this episode, Adam explores the deep-rooted cultural silence around male emotional pain and how that silence leads to shame, isolation, and unresolved trauma. From childhood conditioning ...
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Episode 6
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7:51
Ep. 5: Stop Pretending You're Fine
You say you’re fine. But you’re barely sleeping. Barely eating. Barely holding it together. This episode is for the man performing strength on the outside while falling apart inside. Adam Nisenson, LMFT and The Betrayal Shrink, calls out...
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Episode 5
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6:16
Ep.4: The Male Ego and Betrayal
When partner betrayal hits, it doesn’t just break your heart, it crushes your ego. This episode explores how infidelity shatters a man’s self-image, confidence, and sense of identity. Adam challenges outdated beliefs around strength, masculinit...
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Episode 4
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7:49
Ep.3: You’re Not Crazy, You’re Traumatized
Think you’re losing your mind after betrayal? You’re not. You’re dealing with trauma. In this episode, Adam breaks down how betrayal trauma hijacks your nervous system, distorts your thoughts, and overwhelms your emotions. From PTSD symptoms to...
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Episode 3
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8:43
Ep.2: The Moment You Found Out
You never forget the moment you discover your partner’s betrayal. It’s called D-Day for a reason, because it feels like everything explodes. In this powerful episode, Adam walks you through what happens in the first few hours and days after par...
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Episode 2
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8:37
Ep.1: Why We Need to Talk About Male Betrayal Trauma
Welcome to our first episode, where Adam Nisenson, LMFT, CSAT, The Betrayal Shrink, opens the door to an often-ignored conversation, what it’s like to be a man who’s been cheated on. With raw honesty and clinical insight, Adam shares his person...
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Episode 1
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8:39