Men Get Cheated On Too!
Men Get Cheated On Too, is the podcast for men betrayed and broken by their partner’s infidelity. Hosted by Adam B. Nisenson, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and the voice behind The Betrayal Shrink, you’ll get real talk, expert guidance, and the raw truth from someone who’s lived it and personally knows the pain of betrayal that men experience. No more silence. No more pretending you’re fine. Whether you're fresh in the pain or deep in the process, this show helps you face the truth, heal the wounds, and reclaim your strength. Subscribe now... your recovery and healing starts here.
Men Get Cheated On Too!
Ep. 47: When You’re Angry at Yourself for Missing the Signs
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One of the hardest parts of betrayal is not just what they did. It’s what you start saying to yourself after. You replay everything, looking for missed signs, and the question keeps coming back, how did I not see this? In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, addresses the self-directed anger that many men carry after betrayal.
“You’re judging your past self with information you didn’t have at the time.”
Adam breaks down how hindsight distorts reality and turns reflection into self-attack. He explains why this pattern is not about truth, but about trying to regain control after something that made no sense. This episode helps you separate what was actually visible from what only feels obvious now.
Inside this episode:
- Why hindsight creates unfair self-judgment
- How self-blame becomes a false sense of control
- The difference between awareness and self-attack
- How to rebuild trust in your own judgment
- What self-compassion actually looks like for men
This episode helps you stop turning the betrayal inward and start rebuilding your relationship with yourself.
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