Men Get Cheated On Too!
Men Get Cheated On Too, is the podcast for men betrayed and broken by their partner’s infidelity. Hosted by Adam B. Nisenson, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and the voice behind The Betrayal Shrink, you’ll get real talk, expert guidance, and the raw truth from someone who’s lived it and personally knows the pain of betrayal that men experience. No more silence. No more pretending you’re fine. Whether you're fresh in the pain or deep in the process, this show helps you face the truth, heal the wounds, and reclaim your strength. Subscribe now... your recovery and healing starts here.
Men Get Cheated On Too!
Ep. 51: What If You Still Love Them?
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After betrayal, there’s something a lot of men don’t expect to still be there. The love. And that creates a kind of confusion that can feel impossible to sort out. You’re dealing with anger, hurt, and broken trust, but at the same time, you still feel connected. You still care. And now you’re left asking what that means about you and what you’re supposed to do with it.
“You can love someone and still recognize that what happened changed everything.”
In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, breaks down one of the most misunderstood parts of betrayal recovery. He explains why love does not just disappear, why that does not make you weak, and why your feelings and your decisions are not the same thing. This is about separating emotion from action so you can start making clear, grounded choices instead of reactive ones.
Inside this episode:
- Why love doesn’t shut off after betrayal and what that actually means
- The difference between real love and trauma bonding
- Why love alone is not enough to rebuild a relationship
- How to hold your feelings without letting them control your decisions
- When love starts turning into self-betrayal
- Why choosing distance can be an act of strength, not failure
This episode helps you stop questioning yourself and start understanding what you are actually feeling. You can love someone and still choose yourself. You can care and still walk away. And you can hold that complexity without letting it pull you off track.
This isn’t about forcing yourself to stop loving them. It’s about deciding what that love means now, and whether it supports the life you are trying to rebuild.
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