Men Get Cheated On Too!
Men Get Cheated On Too, is the podcast for men betrayed and broken by their partner’s infidelity. Hosted by Adam B. Nisenson, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and the voice behind The Betrayal Shrink, you’ll get real talk, expert guidance, and the raw truth from someone who’s lived it and personally knows the pain of betrayal that men experience. No more silence. No more pretending you’re fine. Whether you're fresh in the pain or deep in the process, this show helps you face the truth, heal the wounds, and reclaim your strength. Subscribe now... your recovery and healing starts here.
Men Get Cheated On Too!
Ep. 52: The Myth of Just Getting Over It
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At some point after betrayal, you hear it. Maybe from others. Maybe from yourself. “Just get over it.” It sounds simple. It sounds like the answer. But it creates more pressure than progress and leaves a lot of men feeling like they’re failing at something they don’t even understand.
“You don’t get over betrayal. You work through it.”
In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, breaks down why this message is so damaging and how it pushes men to suppress what they actually need to process. He explains why betrayal does not follow a clean timeline, why healing is not linear, and why trying to rush it often makes things worse instead of better.
Inside this episode:
· Why “getting over it” is not how healing works
· How pressure and timelines distort your recovery
· The difference between processing and emotional bypassing
· Why suppressed pain always comes back
· What real healing actually looks like in day-to-day life
· How to measure progress without expecting perfection
This episode helps you step out of the pressure to be done and into a process that actually works. You’re not behind. You’re not weak. You’re working through something that changed you.
This isn’t about rushing past what happened. It’s about giving yourself the space to move through it in a way that lasts.
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