Men Get Cheated On Too!
Men Get Cheated On Too, is the podcast for men betrayed and broken by their partner’s infidelity. Hosted by Adam B. Nisenson, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and the voice behind The Betrayal Shrink, you’ll get real talk, expert guidance, and the raw truth from someone who’s lived it and personally knows the pain of betrayal that men experience. No more silence. No more pretending you’re fine. Whether you're fresh in the pain or deep in the process, this show helps you face the truth, heal the wounds, and reclaim your strength. Subscribe now... your recovery and healing starts here.
Men Get Cheated On Too!
Ep. 56: You’re Not Responsible for Their Healing
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After betrayal, a lot of men fall into a pattern they don’t even realize they’re in. You start paying attention to how they’re doing, whether they’re changing, whether they finally understand the impact of what happened. You adjust yourself, your reactions, even your communication, hoping it will help things settle. And without realizing it, your focus shifts away from your own healing and onto theirs.
“Your partner is responsible for their choices and their healing. You are responsible for yourself.”
In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, breaks down why this happens and why it keeps so many men stuck. He explains how the rescuer role shows up, how your energy gets tied to their progress, and why trying to manage their healing actually pulls you further away from your own.
Inside this episode:
· Why trying to fix or guide them keeps you stuck
· How the rescuer role shows up in subtle ways
· The difference between empathy and enabling
· Why their remorse does not equal your recovery
· How codependency keeps your emotional state reactive
· What emotional separation looks like in real life
This episode helps you bring your focus back to where it belongs. You don’t need to manage their process to feel better. You need to reconnect with your own.
This isn’t about shutting down or not caring. It’s about recognizing what is yours and what is not, so you can actually move forward with clarity and stability.
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