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*18* Pathways to Personal Freedom: From Constraint to Liberation with MPCC-P, Sonia Dhillon

Sara Jaswal Episode 18

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Sara welcomes trauma-informed counsellor, coach, and writer Sonia Dhillon (MPCC-P), founder of Free Life Integrative Counseling, for a wide-ranging conversation. 

Sonia shares how feeling like she didn’t belong as a second-born girl in the Punjabi community, being compared to her sister, and being bullied shaped her early self-worth, coping through dissociation and people-pleasing, and later post-traumatic growth. 

They discuss mental health as whole-person wellness; mind, body, emotions, presence, and community and why people avoid turning inward. 

Sonia outlines her self-care practices (movement, whole foods, nature, prayer, meditation, art, and asking for needs) and reframes meditation as presence. 

She explores grief beyond death, including divorce-related losses, identity shifts, relationship and friendship grief, and healing through naming grief and being held in community. 

Sonia describes her nomadic travels, misconceptions and challenges, and how travel and a pivotal self-mapping exercise in Bali led her into counselling, where she practices integrative, body-based, attachment-informed work and emphasizes therapy as support even when nothing is “wrong.”

Connect With Sonia:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/freelifecounselling/

Psychology Today Profile:  https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/therapists/sonia-dhillon-surrey-bc/1682875

Booking Link: https://freelifeintegrativecounselling.janeapp.com/

Connect With Sara:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thestoryhourpodcast/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sara.s.jaswal/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheStoryHourPodcast

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thestoryhourpodcast/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thestoryhour.podcast

Website: https://www.sarajaswal.com/