Diapers For Two
What happens when you become a dad again in your 50s, but this time with three grown kids already out in the world?
Diapers for Two tells true stories about family, aging, identity, and the emotional math of fatherhood. Hosted by Dan Shimmerman, a dad raising a toddler while navigating life with three adult children, the show blends humor, heart, and quiet reflection. It’s about second chances, small rituals, and finding meaning in moments most people overlook.
At its core, it’s about what it means to keep showing up for the people you love, across decades, mistakes, and second chances.
Episodes
26 episodes
E26: The Art of the Tiny Deal
In this episode, Dan explores the unexpected negotiation lessons that come from raising a toddler. After days spent reviewing executive contracts and equity terms, he finds himself bargaining over snacks, bedtime routines and the importance of ...
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Episode 26
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11:45
E25: Rejected!
When his two-year-old daughter tells him to go back to work, Dan unpacks the emotional sting of parental rejection, both in the toddler years and beyond. From silent walks with his teenage daughter to a career decision that quietly distanced hi...
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Episode 25
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12:44
E24: The Calm Inside The Chaos - A Fireside Chat With Kirk Martin
Dan sites down with parenting expert, Kirk Martin for a wide-ranging fireside chat about the parenting journey. They explore self-reflection, information overload and how to support both strong-willed and quieter kinds without losing connection...
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Episode 24
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1:11:09
E23: Schooling Dad
In this episode, Dan reflects on what it's like to parent four kids who are all in wildly different relationships with school. From a toddler just learning what a triangle is to a daughter presenting academic research and teaching undergrads, i...
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Episode 23
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11:48
E22: Toddlerland
What would happen if adults started acting like toddlers? In this episode, Dan explores three classic toddler behaviors - shouting everything, changing your mind every ten seconds, and crying over nothing and everything - and imagines what it w...
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Episode 22
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10:19
E21: Still Learning
In this episode, Dan shares three life lessons he's learned while parenting in his fifties. These aren't grand revelations or polished insights, just honest reflections on what he missed the first time and what he's trying to do differently now...
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Episode 21
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14:27
E20: Judging The Judgers
In this episode, Dan takes a funny and honest look at the quiet world of parental judgment, from snack opinions to sleep sack debates. It's a sharp, self-aware ride through the chaos of trying to do your best while everyone's watching.
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Episode 20
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14:28
E19: Some Messier Truths
In this episode, Dan reflects on three quietly complicated parts of his life right now. From navigating fatherhood in his fifties, to wondering if he's showing up enough for his older kids, to the shifting shape of his relationship, it's a look...
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Episode 19
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15:26
E18: Wooden Blocks And Robot Dogs
In this episode, Dan reflects on the toys that shaped his life as a dad across four kids and five decades. From Fisher-Price barns and Bakugan battles to robot dogs and wooden blocks, it's a funny and heartfelt look at how play has changed, wha...
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Episode 18
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15:58
E17: What Should I Name This Episode?
In this episode, Dan dives into the surprisingly high-stakes world of baby naming, from family traditions and personal stories to the rise of unusual trends. With humor and heart, he reflects on how a name can be an act of heritage, creativity ...
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Episode 17
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12:29
E16: The DEFCON Guide to Toddler Tantrums
In this episode, Dan shares his go-to strategies for navigating toddler meltdowns using humor, calm presence, and a surprising DEFCON-inspired scale. From imaginary bees to quiet tea parties with stuffed animals, he explores how redirection, pe...
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Episode 16
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17:01
E15: The Soundtrack of Us
In this heartfelt episode, Dan reflects on how music has shaped his life as a father, from cassette loops in his childhood home to bedtime playlists with his toddler, Ruby. A chance encounter with a Stephen Sanchez song sparks memories across g...
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Episode 15
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14:10
E14: The Leopard And The Lorax
In this lighthearted episode, Dan trades deep reflection for pure fashion comedy. From his three-outfit wardrobe to Lori's wild Lorax vest and Ruby's toddler runway looks, he explores how his family's style choices couldn't be more different.
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Episode 14
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12:44
E13: According To Plan
When Dan's son Jacob was born, there were no doctors, just a shoelace and adrenaline. Twenty years later, his daughter Ruby arrived in calm, quiet order. Against the backdrop of these two births, this episode explores the plans we make, the one...
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Episode 13
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13:30
E12: Beautiful Lives Here
What makes a home beautiful? In this episode, Dan opens the door to every house that has held his family. From the noisy magic of young children to the quiet rhythms of growing independence, he reflects on how time, change and love can reshape ...
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Episode 12
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13:07
E11: My Emotional Support Monkey
Everyone has something they hold onto. Sometimes it's a teddy bear. Sometimes it's a blanket. Sometimes it's a stuffed monkey named Junior.In this episode, Dan explores the comfort objects that stick with us longer than most friendships....
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Episode 11
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12:19
E10: Is She Talking Yet?
At the playground, another dad asks, “Is she talking yet?” It’s a simple question, but for parents, it’s never just about talking. In this episode, Dan reflects on milestone anxiety, raising four kids across 25 years, and why he no longer keeps...
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Episode 10
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12:41
E9: Snackcidentally In Love
Snacks aren’t just snacks. They’re bribes, comfort, and emotional life preservers. In this episode of Diapers for Two, Dan dives into the toddler snack economy, the generational snack gap, and the secret world of late-night adult snacking. Beca...
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Episode 9
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15:00
E8: Carry-On Luggage and Emotional Baggage
Dan reflects on decades of family travel, from chaotic solo trips with three young kids to navigating airports with a toddler and a suitcase full of white noise machines. It’s messy, hilarious, and unexpectedly tender. Because the best trips ar...
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Episode 8
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15:26
E7: Daddy's Little Girl, Meet Daddy's Little Girl
What happens when “Daddy’s little girl” meets… Daddy’s other little girl? In this heartfelt episode, Dan reflects on becoming a girl dad again, more than two decades after his first daughter, Abby, changed his life. With Ruby now in the mix, he...
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Episode 7
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14:04
E6: Motorboat Legs and Other Victories
Dan returns to the toddler swim class.. this time as a much older, slightly soggier dad. From laminated emotion cards to “mindful kicks,” the world of early childhood sports has changed. But somewhere between the foam balls and bubble songs, he...
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Episode 6
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12:29
E5: Four Kids, Four Menus
Mealtime can feel like navigation for very different worlds - from a hostage-style broccoli negotiation to a kale-eating celebration. Dan explores what each of his children's eating habits reveal about their personalities - and what family dinn...
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Episode 5
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16:01
E4: Accidental Rituals
The smallest rituals often become the most meaningful - especially when you're not parenting full-time. Dan reflects on bedtime stories, quirky traditions, and the absurd "Life Lessons" he told his kids at night, which somehow still echo years ...
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Episode 4
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17:57