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Sidelined, Selected, Seen: Whitney Souness on Injuries, Non‑Selection & Fighting for Your Place in Women’s Sport

Kylie Lynch Episode 21

In this episode, we sit down with Silver Ferns midcourter Whitney Souness , our first professional netballer and first Kiwi guest. Whitney talks through her rise in elite sport, the expectations placed on her and the tough realities that come with high-performance environments. She talks about major setbacks, including a ruptured ACL and the emotional weight of non-selection, most recently missing out on the Silver Ferns squad. 

Key Takeaways

  • Your journey isn’t linear: injuries, setbacks, and non-selection don’t define you — they often redirect you.
  • Support systems matter: family, coaches, and mentors have played a massive role in Whitney’s resilience.
  • Non-selection is not a reflection of your worth: sometimes it’s timing, fit, or one coach’s preference.
  • Women’s sport needs investment: pay, resources, and visibility gaps still impact performance and longevity.
  • Balance is essential: journaling, faith, and creative outlets like DJing help keep her grounded.

Timestamps
 00:00:00 – Introduction
 00:00:48 – Growing up around netball and first club.
 00:03:39 – Netball became serious.
 00:05:32 – Early belief from coaches; support network.
 00:06:37 – Family backing through highs/lows.
 00:08:46 – Recent non-selection from the Silver Ferns.
 00:11:42 – Family reassurance and mindset shift.
 00:12:26 – Selection is subjective; timing + fit.
 00:14:04 – When doors close, opportunities open.
 00:17:47 – ACL rupture early in career.
 00:19:19 – Returning in eight months.
 00:20:17 – Mental toll of rehab + identity.
 00:22:09 – Reality of being a woman in pro sport.
 00:27:36 – Needed change in women’s sport.
 00:29:30 – Importance of funding support staff.
 00:31:58 – Resilience tools: journaling + routine + wellbeing
 00:35:10 – DJing as a creative outlet.
 00:41:47 – Message to young Whitney.
 00:43:28 – Planning life after sport.
 00:45:35 – Final reflections. 

Connect with Whitney -  Insta @whitneysouness 

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Fuel your game the right way - 4TG listeners get 10% off Younify Active supplements designed for athletes. 👉 Grab yours here

Recover Smarter with P3 Recovery Port Melbourne - P3 Recovery are helping our 4TG community feel and perform their best 💪 Use code 4TG20 for 20% off casual visits. Because recovery isn’t a bonus — it’s a non-negotiable.

If this episode inspired you, please subscribe, leave a five-star review, and share it with a female athlete, parent or coach who needs to hear it.

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