Once A Cheater
Cheating is rarely just about sex—it’s about unmet needs, unspoken boundaries, and the parts of us we keep hidden. Once A Cheater is a raw, reflective, and sometimes ruthless deep-dive into infidelity, non-monogamy, and the messy space between freedom and betrayal.
As a queer, polyamorous woman navigating power exchange, trust, and kink—I’m not here to justify the past, I’m here to unpack it. From vanilla relationships to BDSM dynamics, from ghosting to group chats, I’m talking about the real reasons we break rules and blur lines.
Whether you’ve cheated, been cheated on, or just want to understand why people self-sabotage the things they crave most—this podcast is for the curious, the kink-aware, and the emotionally honest.
Real talk. Real confessions. Real consequences.
This ain’t therapy—but it might feel like it.
Once A Cheater
Once a Cheater Always a Cheater Ep. 1
This episode is a confession, a breakdown, and a little bit of a sermon. I talk about how cheating became my comfort zone, how I got introduced to BDSM through a situationship that awakened something primal, and why getting my lick back felt better than closure ever did.
This isn’t about guilt—it’s about ownership.
So if you’ve ever lied, got lied to, or healed your heartbreak with somebody else’s body… welcome home.
I’m not here to make you comfortable. I’m here to be real. And if that triggers you, you probably need to hear it.
This ain’t therapy—but it might feel like it. Welcome to Once a Cheater Podcast. Let’s get into it.