Once A Cheater
Cheating is rarely just about sex—it’s about unmet needs, unspoken boundaries, and the parts of us we keep hidden. Once A Cheater is a raw, reflective, and sometimes ruthless deep-dive into infidelity, non-monogamy, and the messy space between freedom and betrayal.
As a queer, polyamorous woman navigating power exchange, trust, and kink—I’m not here to justify the past, I’m here to unpack it. From vanilla relationships to BDSM dynamics, from ghosting to group chats, I’m talking about the real reasons we break rules and blur lines.
Whether you’ve cheated, been cheated on, or just want to understand why people self-sabotage the things they crave most—this podcast is for the curious, the kink-aware, and the emotionally honest.
Real talk. Real confessions. Real consequences.
This ain’t therapy—but it might feel like it.
Once A Cheater
Latest Episodes
Cheat Codes - Honesty without punishment
This “Cheat Code” is about honesty without punishment. Not confessions, not walking on eggshells, just being able to say what you feel in real time without it turning into a problem. I talk about how a lot of us were raised to suppress our thou...
2025 didn’t break me but it definitely ran the fades.
Welcome to Season 2 babes! This episode is me talking through a year that tried me physically, emotionally, spiritually, and logistically. Health stuff, hard realizations, quiet losses, and the kind of growth you don’t get a round o...
Rumor Has It… Ion Got No Type Ep. 9
It’s been a month, and life has been life-ing hard! Health scares, dating curveballs, and a whole lot of self-reflection. In this episode, I get into the question I hear almost daily: “What’s your type?”The truth? I don’t have one. My “t...
Hot Wax & Wet Cats Ep. 8
This episode is pure afterglow. I break down my weekend at Hot Wax 25! From fire shows and kinky artistry to coochie waffles (yes, you read that right). I share how a sensual candle turned into one of the most intimate nights with my Virg...
I’m “Poly” Gonna Lose My Bitch Over This Ep.7
Polyamory sounds cute until you’re staring down the possibility of losing your primary partner. In this episode, I unpack the messy beauty of open love. The late-night talks, the boundary checks, and the emotional labor no one warns you about. ...