Once A Cheater
Cheating is rarely just about sex—it’s about unmet needs, unspoken boundaries, and the parts of us we keep hidden. Once A Cheater is a raw, reflective, and sometimes ruthless deep-dive into infidelity, non-monogamy, and the messy space between freedom and betrayal.
As a queer, polyamorous woman navigating power exchange, trust, and kink—I’m not here to justify the past, I’m here to unpack it. From vanilla relationships to BDSM dynamics, from ghosting to group chats, I’m talking about the real reasons we break rules and blur lines.
Whether you’ve cheated, been cheated on, or just want to understand why people self-sabotage the things they crave most—this podcast is for the curious, the kink-aware, and the emotionally honest.
Real talk. Real confessions. Real consequences.
This ain’t therapy—but it might feel like it.
Episodes
11 episodes
Cheat Codes - Honesty without punishment
This “Cheat Code” is about honesty without punishment. Not confessions, not walking on eggshells, just being able to say what you feel in real time without it turning into a problem. I talk about how a lot of us were raised to suppress our thou...
2025 didn’t break me but it definitely ran the fades.
Welcome to Season 2 babes! This episode is me talking through a year that tried me physically, emotionally, spiritually, and logistically. Health stuff, hard realizations, quiet losses, and the kind of growth you don’t get a round o...
Rumor Has It… Ion Got No Type Ep. 9
It’s been a month, and life has been life-ing hard! Health scares, dating curveballs, and a whole lot of self-reflection. In this episode, I get into the question I hear almost daily: “What’s your type?”The truth? I don’t have one. My “t...
Hot Wax & Wet Cats Ep. 8
This episode is pure afterglow. I break down my weekend at Hot Wax 25! From fire shows and kinky artistry to coochie waffles (yes, you read that right). I share how a sensual candle turned into one of the most intimate nights with my Virg...
I’m “Poly” Gonna Lose My Bitch Over This Ep.7
Polyamory sounds cute until you’re staring down the possibility of losing your primary partner. In this episode, I unpack the messy beauty of open love. The late-night talks, the boundary checks, and the emotional labor no one warns you about. ...
Strategically Planning the Comeback of My Tits Ep.6
In this week’s episode, I talk about how pregnancy temporarily destroyed my body and mind, while also softening my heart and shaping my future. From postpartum depression to body image and the weight of early motherhood, this is an unfiltered l...
She’s Not Fast. She’s Wounded Ep. 5
Some wounds don’t scab over, they shape how we love, how we cope, and how we carry shame we never asked for. This episode peels back the layers of early trauma, misunderstood girls, and what it means to reclaim your body, your voice, and your s...
A Little Queer, A Lot of Chaos Ep.4
This episode is kinky and chaotic. Queer and quirky. I talk about my alliance with bisexual studs, my close encounter with a very intense Scorpio with a huge third leg, and that time I gave a straight man the gayest ride of his life.If y...
Not Code-Switching…Soul-Switching Ep.3
Ever had to outgrow the version of yourself that survival built? This one’s for the folks who’ve had to crawl inside themselves, question everything, and come out the other side. Tender, tired, but real.In this episode, I unpa...
Once a Cheater, Never a Liar Ep. 2
This episode is about choosing honesty over comfort, clarity over control. It’s about walking the path of ethical non-monogamy with an open heart and a steady mouth.I talk about my oath to be honest with women, my longing for a partner w...
Once a Cheater Always a Cheater Ep. 1
This episode is a confession, a breakdown, and a little bit of a sermon. I talk about how cheating became my comfort zone, how I got introduced to BDSM through a situationship that awakened something primal, and why getting my lick back felt be...
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