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Once A Cheater
Cheating is rarely just about sex—it’s about unmet needs, unspoken boundaries, and the parts of us we keep hidden. Once A Cheater is a raw, reflective, and sometimes ruthless deep-dive into infidelity, non-monogamy, and the messy space between freedom and betrayal.
As a queer, polyamorous woman navigating power exchange, trust, and kink—I’m not here to justify the past, I’m here to unpack it. From vanilla relationships to BDSM dynamics, from ghosting to group chats, I’m talking about the real reasons we break rules and blur lines.
Whether you’ve cheated, been cheated on, or just want to understand why people self-sabotage the things they crave most—this podcast is for the curious, the kink-aware, and the emotionally honest.
Real talk. Real confessions. Real consequences.
This ain’t therapy—but it might feel like it.
Once A Cheater
Not Code-Switching…Soul-Switching Ep.3
Ever had to outgrow the version of yourself that survival built? This one’s for the folks who’ve had to crawl inside themselves, question everything, and come out the other side. Tender, tired, but real.
In this episode, I unpack the kind of transformation that requires a full mindset reboot — not just code-switching, but deep soul-shifting. I talk about the discomfort of being misunderstood while evolving, the power of being heard, and why reciprocity is now my love language.
Also… ADHD makes a guest appearance. And yes, I shade myself (just a little).