Once A Cheater
Cheating is rarely just about sex—it’s about unmet needs, unspoken boundaries, and the parts of us we keep hidden. Once A Cheater is a raw, reflective, and sometimes ruthless deep-dive into infidelity, non-monogamy, and the messy space between freedom and betrayal.
As a queer, polyamorous woman navigating power exchange, trust, and kink—I’m not here to justify the past, I’m here to unpack it. From vanilla relationships to BDSM dynamics, from ghosting to group chats, I’m talking about the real reasons we break rules and blur lines.
Whether you’ve cheated, been cheated on, or just want to understand why people self-sabotage the things they crave most—this podcast is for the curious, the kink-aware, and the emotionally honest.
Real talk. Real confessions. Real consequences.
This ain’t therapy—but it might feel like it.
Once A Cheater
Rumor Has It… Ion Got No Type Ep. 9
It’s been a month, and life has been life-ing hard! Health scares, dating curveballs, and a whole lot of self-reflection. In this episode, I get into the question I hear almost daily: “What’s your type?”
The truth? I don’t have one. My “type” is safety, reciprocity, and the kind of love that doesn’t turn me into a shell of myself. I unpack how my old patterns had me mistaking chaos for passion, why I’m no longer settling for half-love, and how calm, consistent partnership is my new standard.
If you’ve ever outgrown the kind of love you used to chase, or you’re questioning what you really need from a partner, you’ll love this episode.