EP17 自閉症爸爸專訪：用愛終止創傷複製，拒絕讓自閉症兒子經歷自己的童年陰影

「兒子有問題，你也有問題，你要不要也去檢查一下？」因為太太的一句話，心靈藝術畫室創辦人梵高爸爸 Franco 在兒子兩歲確診自閉症後，意外發現自己原來也身處自閉症譜系之中。

看著兒子把玩具排得整整齊齊、用雙手捧著別人的臉來交流，梵高爸爸彷彿看見了童年的自己。在本集節目中，梵高爸爸以「過來人」加「SEN 家長」的雙重身分，帶我們走進自閉症人士真實的內心世界。

大眾常以為自閉症兒童活在自己的世界、沒有同理心，但梵高爸爸告訴我們這個說法好像不太準確？他更毫不保留地分享了自己童年的「社交災難」— 因為過於誠實而弄哭女同學、氣壞班主任，甚至在三年級考高分時才覺醒，發現自己原來是同學眼中的「白痴仔」。

從充滿社交困難的小男孩，到後來踏入「廣告界客戶服務」行業，梵高爸爸是如何迎來人生的成長思維（Growth Mindset）？面對同樣在自閉症譜系上的兒子，他又如何打破宿命，用快樂和包容避免複製童年創傷？

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