The Wilde Way: Fertility Unfiltered
Sick of bandaid fixes, confusing fertility advice, and a body that feels overdue for a software update?
The Wilde Way is the no-BS guide for women who are done guessing and ready to heal their fertility, balance their hormones, and finally understand what their body needs — without burnout or overwhelm.
Hosted by Abi Wilde — Integrative Fertility & Hormone Coach and mama to two miracle babies — this podcast is all about radically transforming fertility, whole-body healing, and getting to the root of what’s really holding you back.
Whether you’re deep in TTC burnout, navigating endo or PCOS, or quietly freaking out that your eggs are expiring faster than your oat milk… this show is for you.
Each week, Abi shares science-backed strategies, nervous system support, and holistic tools — so you can stop spiralling and start healing from a place of trust.
Don’t want to do this alone? Come connect with Abi on the ’Gram @abi.wilde for hugs, support and freebies.
The Wilde Way: Fertility Unfiltered
13: Healing Your Fertility with EFT Tapping: Calm Your Nervous System + Release Stress
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Healing Your Fertility with EFT Tapping: Calm Your Nervous System + Release Stress
Hey beauty đź’›
Today we’re diving into one of my ride-or-die tools for calm, clarity, and fertility flow: EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) — a.k.a. emotional acupuncture. It looks a little woo, feels a little weird at first… and it works. This is the tool that helped me through anxious seasons, postpartum chaos, and those fun moments when Jack’s melting down and I'm just in crazy overwhelm. If your nervous system has been living in Stress City, this one’s for you.
And here’s why this convo matters for you. If your body doesn’t feel safe, it won’t prioritise conception. Nervous system regulation is the foundation that makes your nutrition, supplements, cycle tracking, and even IVF actually land. EFT is one of the fastest ways I know to send your body the “you’re safe now” signal.
Inside this ep, we cover:
- What EFT actually is and why I call it “emotional acupuncture”
- The tapping points and a simple step-by-step so you can start today
- How to use EFT for fertility anxiety, IVF stress, fear of miscarriage, cravings, pain and sleep
- The before-and-after check-in that shows your progress in real time
- Client stories, my first experience with tapping, and why I still work with an EFT practitioner for deeper layers
✨ Why this matters for fertility
When your nervous system is stuck in fight or flight, cortisol steals from your sex hormones and your body hits pause on reproduction. EFT calms the amygdala, lowers cortisol, and helps you shift into rest-digest-reproduce mode. Translation: better ovulation, steadier cycles, deeper sleep, happier digestion… and a body that feels safe to conceive.
Resources mentioned:
- 💛 Free Emotional Acupuncture Quick-Start Guide — tapping points, sample script, and my go-to phrases
- https://abiwilde.myflodesk.com/eft
My resources + ways to connect:
- 🌿 Ultimate Preconception Checklist
👉 https://abiwilde.myflodesk.com/preconception-checklist - 🤖 10 AI Tools to Support Your Hormones, Cycle & Sanity
👉 https://abiwilde.myflodesk.com/ftgqt3aylm - 📲 Instagram: @abi.wilde
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If you’re craving a little extra support, my link in bio is full of free resources to get you started — including my IVF Prep Checklist and my Two-Week Wait Support Kit to help you feel a little more grounded during that in-between.
You can also book a free 30-minute call with me if you want to chat through your fertility journey and what your next steps could look like.
And I’m currently creating something really special… BLYOOM — a supportive app experience designed specifically for women on the trying-to-conceive journey, with nervous system tools to hold you through the real, everyday moments… the two-week wait, negative tests, pregnancy announcements, all of it.
If that feels like something you need right now, you can join the waitlist here so you’re the first to know when it’s live 🤍
And if you want more, come hang out with me on Instagram @abi.wilde — it’s where I share lots of free tips, tools, and fertility vibes for whole-body healing.
Until next time, mama x