The Wilde Way: Fertility Unfiltered
Sick of bandaid fixes, confusing fertility advice, and a body that feels overdue for a software update?
The Wilde Way is the no-BS guide for women who are done guessing and ready to heal their fertility, balance their hormones, and finally understand what their body needs — without burnout or overwhelm.
Hosted by Abi Wilde — Integrative Fertility & Hormone Coach and mama to two miracle babies — this podcast is all about radically transforming fertility, whole-body healing, and getting to the root of what’s really holding you back.
Whether you’re deep in TTC burnout, navigating endo or PCOS, or quietly freaking out that your eggs are expiring faster than your oat milk… this show is for you.
Each week, Abi shares science-backed strategies, nervous system support, and holistic tools — so you can stop spiralling and start healing from a place of trust.
Don’t want to do this alone? Come connect with Abi on the ’Gram @abi.wilde for hugs, support and freebies.
The Wilde Way: Fertility Unfiltered
14: Inside IVF with Emma the Embryologist: Myths, Mistakes & Mind-Blowing Science
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Hey beautiful đź’›
Okay buckle up, because today’s episode is an absolute cracker. I’m joined by Emma Whitney, also known as Emma the Embryologist, Director of Embryology and Genetics at The Evewell in London, and honestly, one of the smartest, coolest, most down-to-earth humans in the fertility world.
If you’re doing IVF, thinking about IVF, or just trying to wrap your head around what actually happens after egg collection, this is your backstage pass.
Emma’s been in the fertility world for over 20 years and spills all the juicy behind-the-scenes details from inside the lab. What embryologists actually do, how eggs and sperm get their sexy dance on, the myths that make her scream at Google, and how mental health plays a huge role in this space (yes, even for the scientists).
This chat is equal parts science class, girl talk, and emotional support sesh. You’ll laugh, probably gasp, and walk away with a whole new appreciation for the women and men creating life both in and out of the lab.
Inside this episode, we cover:
✨ What really happens from egg collection to embryo transfer
✨ IVF vs ICSI vs PGT-A (and why none of them are “better”)
✨ The truth about day 1–3 being all mum genes, and when the dad’s DNA actually kicks in
✨ The wildest things Emma’s seen under the microscope
✨ How preconception prep can totally change your outcomes (yep, she’s seen it)
✨ Why mental health in the fertility field matters more than you think
✨ The biggest myths about IVF success rates (and what clinics don’t always tell you)
đź’› Why this matters for you
Because IVF can feel like one giant mystery box. Equal parts hope, heartbreak, and “what the actual heck is going on in there?” Emma breaks it all down with compassion, a bit of sass, and real talk that’ll make you feel informed and empowered, not terrified.
If you’ve ever wondered what happens to your embryos while you’re at home refreshing your email every five minutes, this episode is your peace of mind.
Resources mentioned:
💛 Emma’s 10 Questions To Ask Before Choosing a Fertility Clinic (pinned post on her Instagram)
👉 @emmatheembryologist
👉 emmatheembryologist.com
My resources + ways to connect:
If you’re craving a little extra support, my link in bio is full of free resources to get you started — including my IVF Prep Checklist and my Two-Week Wait Support Kit to help you feel a little more grounded during that in-between.
You can also book a free 30-minute call with me if you want to chat through your fertility journey and what your next steps could look like.
And I’m currently creating something really special… BLYOOM — a supportive app experience designed specifically for women on the trying-to-conceive journey, with nervous system tools to hold you through the real, everyday moments… the two-week wait, negative tests, pregnancy announcements, all of it.
If that feels like something you need right now, you can join the waitlist here so you’re the first to know when it’s live 🤍
And if you want more, come hang out with me on Instagram @abi.wilde — it’s where I share lots of free tips, tools, and fertility vibes for whole-body healing.
Until next time, mama x