The Self-Help Podcast with Deepali Nagrani

25 Microhabits To Boost Energy, Mood, And Focus

Deepali Season 1 Episode 28

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We share 25 microhabits that boost energy, calm stress, and improve focus without relying on willpower. Simple, fast moves stack into real change, from water before coffee to a one-song dance and a two-minute tidy.

• hydration before caffeine to wake digestion and focus
• morning stretch and sunlight to set circadian rhythm
• walk-and-talk calls and movement snacks to offset sitting
• 5-5-5 breathing and 20-20-20 eye care to reduce stress
• protein first and veggie add-ons to steady energy
• digital boundaries and bedroom phone rules to protect sleep
• gratitude notes, thank-you texts, and a wins journal to lift mood
• mini strength, posture cues, and a one-song dance for easy fitness
• two-minute tidy to cut clutter and mental load
• brain snack learning and evening walks to sustain momentum

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Why Microhabits Matter

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Everybody welcome anything about it. Because I have seen it in my own life. I have a little bit of really understood that I'm making tiny positive improvements to my health. And that's exactly what we're talking about today. Something that often gets overlooked: microhabits. These are the tiny, almost invisible daily actions that don't feel like a big deal in the moment, but when repeated over weeks and months, they create massive changes in your health, in your mindset, and your energy. So really think of them as tiny seeds on their own. They don't look like much just at the outset, but give them consistency and they grow into trees. So today I'm going to be sharing 25 of my favorite micro healthy habits. And believe me, each one of them takes less than a couple minutes. And the best part is that you don't need equipment, you don't need money, and you don't need the willpower, which is the size of a mountain. Because let's be real, we don't have it all the time, all the days, right? The first sip wins. Most of us wake up and reach straight for tea or coffee, whatever is your recharge fuel for the day. A bit overnight your body gets dehydrated, your body loses water. So instead start with one big glass of water first thing in the morning. It just wakes up your digestion, clears fog, and sort of sets the tone for hydration for the entire day. Now try this: fill a glass or keep a small bottle before bed. Just leave it by your nightstand. And when you wake up, it's the first thing your body gets. Because if you see a glass of water kept next to you on the bed or a water bottle, you're more than likely to have it. Number two on the list is stretching before screens. Before you pick up your phone, check emails, or just scroll randomly through Instagram or Facebook. Please give yourself 60 seconds to stretch. Raise your arms, open your chest, bend from side to side. It's a way of telling your body that we've woken up and I come first, not my notifications. And a little tip here is even doing this while standing on your bed wakes up your circulation instantly. You don't need to get out of the room. You can just step out of the bed or sometimes even step on the bed and like just stretch, stretch a little bit. You don't need to do proper yoga poses, just a tad bit of stretching just to get started and get your circulation going. Then we have a 20-second cold splash. So the end of your shower, turn the cold water for just 20 seconds, not more, not less. It sort of boosts circulation, it reduces inflammation, and we know the benefits of cold plunge. It's all over the internet now. All of this gives you an instant energy shot. Just small, even 5 second counts. When you're done with your shower, just be under it for 5 seconds. Let the cold water run by you, and over time you'll crave the rush. It's beautiful, like it's killing, but you gotta do it. It gives you a different kind of thrill. You have to try it and experience it to like it. Number four is walking and talking. Every time you're on you are on a call or on a Zoom meeting, and wherever possible, pace around instead of just sitting. Maybe you can have a standing desk or you can screen share or look at the screen or the presentation that's going on on your phone and just walk and talk. Now, this habit adds thousands of extra steps a week without you even realizing it, without you even needing to schedule exercise. So just keep your wireless headphones handy. So simply you can walk and just talk. Number five is the gratitude note. Write down one thing you're grateful for every single morning. If you don't have the habit of writing it down, or you know, you say the Bali life's too busy, can't pick up my pen and paper and note and just write everything. It's okay, no problem. Every day when you wake up, think about a thing that you're grateful for. And I do it even in the night, just before you go to sleep while you're lying down on the bed. And of course, it takes a few minutes, if you're lucky, a few seconds before you fall asleep. Just think of one thing that you're truly, truly grateful for. And it doesn't have to be a big sentence, it doesn't have to be a big novel, but just a single thing or a quick sentence telling your brain that okay, I'm so grateful for this and this. Even if you've had a bad day, even if you're worried and anxious about how your day is going to be, which is yet to come, you do one thing which is right, one thing that you're grateful for. And what it does is really it shifts your brain from scarcity to abundance before the day even begins. Hack is use sticky notes and filler jar. We call it gratitude jar. So if you have time, but it again needs some consistency and you sticking to it. So watch it pile up, it feels amazing. Maybe you can use different color sticky notes and keep it on your dining table or in your living room, and it adds up the colour and makes you happy every time you see it. Sunlight reset. That's very important, my friend. Your circadian rhythm runs on light. Getting five minutes of natural sunlight within an hour of waking up signals your brain to wake up and sets up for a better sleep at night. We we've been treated by nature. We need to work in alignment and in accordance with nature. So every time you're up, don't rely on the artificial man-made lights that we have have set up around the house. Just go open your window, open your balcony, and just be there for a quick minute. And all this helps you, of course, A, absorb more vitamin D. And we all are highly, highly deficient in that. That's one vitamin that's really a struggle. Unless, like, you are supplementing regularly, in which case you're a pro already. But also, it helps you sleep better at the night. Step outside, even if it's cloudy, even if like you don't feel like there's enough sun, just open your eyes and go see outside your window or balcony. And we all have that liberty. If you do not have a window or balcony near you, just go step outside and just be at your door for two, three minutes. Now, whatever your schedule allows you to be. But morning light matters more than the brightness. Number seven is again a micro movement break. So, you know, when we are working, we get so engrossed in work that we continuously keep sitting on a desk. And your body really turns into a statue. And as they say, sitting is the new smoking. So please, for the love of God, set a timer every 45 minutes to stand, stretch, walk, just for maybe 2-3 minutes. You don't need to do it more. It prevents the buildup of stiffness and keeps your energy from crashing. You can link it to your tea breaks or for you to disconnect for 2-3 minutes or just five minutes and take a breather between all the crazy chaos and madness that your day is. Or link it to a quick washroom break. Then we have the 5, 5, and 5 breath. Stressful moment, breathe in for 5 seconds. Hold for 5 seconds and exhale for 5. It lowers your cortisol and brings you instant calm and helps you to calm down your anxious nervous brain. And simply doing 5-5-5 technique, three rounds of it can reset your mood in under a minute. Number 9, protein first, which I had to learn the very hard way, is that many of us eat carbs first and forget protein, which leads to energy crashes. And I, for one, have done it all my life. But adding one source of protein in the morning breakfast is essential, and I keep reminding myself, I'm really working hard on this side, which is to look at your breakfast as a complete meal, which starts with protein, and then of course you pair it with good fat and carbs and fiber, definitely. So things like eggs, lentil, tofu, yogurt, Greek yogurt essentially, nuts, or if you eat chicken or any other meat to every meal. It kind of keeps you fuller. And this is a very late realization in my life that every time I would eat my lunch, like a proper, hearty, comforting meal, but like in a matter of few minutes, I'd be hungry again, say after 30-40 minutes. And I'm like, no, but I had a plate full of hearty meal. Where is the meal? And how quickly can it be digested? So it's not about it, it's about the energy crashes that just eating carb will give you. So if you begin to intentionally add protein in every meal of yours, you would notice that your energy crashes have gone down and you are full and like satiated for a longer duration of time. And of course, it's very important for your cells and muscles. Even sprinkling seeds on your bread or like you know, salad, or just like any fruit for that matter counts. Tech-free first hour. When you wake up, the internet doesn't have to come in your hand. It's okay, you can pick up and see the phone later. If someone needs to make an important or urgent call, they will call you and you will listen and answer. So scrolling right after waking up floods your brain with dopamine and delay social media until maybe after breakfast or when you are, you know, trying to take a break, or when when you're done with the most important thing in the day. For me, it's just getting up, getting my son ready and out of the door and into the daycare, and everything else can wait. So keep your phone on airplane mode overnight and please give yourself your mind space before the word bulges in. Number 12 on this list is the two-minute tidy. I know it sounds as terrible as it is, but a cluttered space is equal to a cluttered mind, and I, for one, have oh my god, experienced it so many times, and to a point where I have now become obsessive about decluttering and cleaning. But there is so much of energy drain that happens when you're in a cluttered space. So just spend two minutes cleaning one small area in your home, could be your desk, could be your hallway, your entryway, your kitchen counter, your bedside table, and over time your environment would feel lighter without the deep clean red. Like there were times when I wouldn't just go about with the two-minute tidy in my entire day, and at the end of the evening, after my work ends, I would just be looking around the house, and we have piles of laundry everywhere, and like dishes kept all around, and you know the entire chaos that comes running to you in just one moment, and that is very energy draining, and you don't want to be spending hours and hours cleaning like cleaning the house if because you haven't given it one minute of attention or thought through the day. So just remember to do the two-minute tidy reset. If it can be two, if it can be done in two minutes, please do it then and there. Then we have the green boost concept, which is adding one extra veggie to your meal. That's it. Could be a green vegetable, could be any other vegetable. As we we were kids, our parents used to tell us add your greens, eat your greens, that's it. Spinach in your dal, or like cucumber and rita, bell peppers and curry, or just maybe a bunch of coloured fruit and veggies in your salad. Just small additions add up to uh 30 veggies a week without any effort, you just have to be intentional about it and you have to work on it actively. Then we have the IRelax rule, and it's so important in today's world of digital media. We are on our phones all the time, and if you're working, it definitely adds up to working on your laptop, right? So try the 2020-20 rule. Every 20 minutes, look 20 feet away for 20 seconds. Now, you don't have to learn it by heart, it's like once you start doing it, your brain will automatically program itself to take a break and a pause after every 20 minutes. So after every 20 minutes, you look 20 feet away and just disconnect for 20 seconds. It reduces your eye strain, will prevent any kind of eye vision issues, and protect your vision in the long term. Then we have the digital detox minute. Once a day, please put your phone down and spend one full minute just being could be just simply sipping your tea or spending time with your partner or your family, or just simply sitting or reading a book, anything. You don't even need to do anything for that matter. You just need to simply sit and be still in the moment for one full minute. Look out of the window, breathe. That tiny boss resets your nervous system. Then we have the gratitude thing. Send a quick text to someone. Hey, I appreciate you because so and so. Or it will cook thank you for cooking a lovely meal. I really enjoyed it. Maybe send them a quick picture of the meal that you're eating that they made. You get the drill, you get the point. It strengthens relationships. Just send a message saying, thinking of you. It brightens someone's day and makes you happier too. Posture. Now, poor posture can affect mood and energy. So please stand tall. And every time you walk through a doorway, use it as your cue. Roll your shoulders back, stand tall, and over time your body learns how to be confident and appear confident. And this is a tough one. You don't need to quit coffee, your tea, or just soda, cold turkey. I know it's impossible. But just swap one set. Just swap one daily drink for water or herbal tea. That's hundreds of fewer calories and less sugar over time without you feeling deprived or like frustrated about giving up your favorite drink in the day. Uh then we have the one song dance. Put on your favorite upbeat song and dance. Not for fitness, not for people, but simply for fun. Movement enjoy is instant stress relief. Plus, it sneaks in cardio without calling it exercise. So I'm sure you have your favorite number that you love to dance to. Go show yourself some dance moves in the mirror. Go do it because you will come out feeling so fresh and light. It's beautiful. And then we have journaling. Journaling before bed. Write down your top three wins of the day. It shifts focus from what you didn't do or what wasn't accomplished to what you did accomplish, right? It builds momentum and quiet bedtime. And quiets bedtime anxiety. And we don't need any kind of negativity anytime in the day. So think of it as a moment to reflect. You write down your three wins. And also, if you if you are a realistic person like me, write down three things that didn't go well or could have been done better. And you go on from there. There's no point beating yourself up about something that you did or did not do. It's just all learning and lessons and experiences. And doing that builds momentum and your mind will be quiet before you go and have your deep and restful sleep. Then we have grateful bite. Now, before eating, pause for three seconds and silently thank your food. Really. Remember when we were kids at the dinner table? Our parents were like, Okay, say thank you to God for this wonderful food on the table and bless all the people that have worked so hard to bring this food right here for you so you can nourish your body. Just take three seconds, pause, and say thank you, food, and say thank you, God, if you believe in the universe or in God and be grateful for that bite that you're having. It creates mindfulness, slows you down, and helps digestion. Then we have mini strength. Sneak in strength moves during daily task. You know, while you're brushing your teeth, stretch or do 10 scores. Waiting for water to boil up, try some push-ups on the counters. Now these micro reps add up and in no time you will see that your mind has turned to these as it's the fall setting. And every time now you s you uh warm up your water in the kettle when you're up, just do 10. You just do a quick stretch. Then we have the bedtime reset. Charge your phone outside your bedroom. We all have the charger that can stay outside in the living room or anywhere else but the bedroom. It removes late-night scrolling. I've seen my husband do it religiously, and for me it's very difficult to put my phone down and just leave because then I'm left with my own anxious thoughts. And it's very difficult for me to overcome my mind. But he, for one, has learned this, like has mastered this habit now of keeping the phone on the dressing table, not necessarily outside the room, but isn't tempted to pick up and do mindless doom scrolling just because he isn't able to fall asleep. And he tells me, I promise you, every time you have this temptation of picking up your phone, just try to sleep. Just just try. Like it will take a day, two day, three day, or or at times, even if you have fallen deep into this habit of doom scrolling and then sleeping. It may take even a week, but then after that, you will be able to fall asleep automatically. For me, it is you know, just cuddling my son or just like holding his hand. Kind of it gives me so much peace and joy, and then I sleep like a baby. So remove your phone from your bedroom or keep it away from your site, and all of this removes late night scrolling and helps your brain link bed with sleep and not Netflix binges. But then we have the brain snack. Every day, feed your brain five minutes of learning. It could be an audiobook, a podcast, an article, or something that you've been wanting to read on, say a website. It keeps your mind sharp and inspired, and you don't need an hour-long study session. Or, for example, revising what you read yesterday, maybe it's for work. You are preparing something for the next move in your career, or you have an interview, just keep looking at it for five days for five minutes, your brain will learn and register things a lot better than it would otherwise. Evening walk ritual or anytime walk ritual, just whatever works for your family, say after dinner or just even before dinner, all of this helps digestion and lowers blood sugar, and walking has been linked to great heart health too. Pacing, even pacing inside of your home counts, pair it with music or just chatting with family, but just move, don't keep sitting. An sedentary lifestyle is the number one cause of so many chronic illnesses that we're seeing right now. It's very important that we walk around. Smiling. The most important thing, and most of us often forget it. Every time you catch your reflection in the mirror, just smile at yourself. Or you find yourself looking at a mirror in a store or in an elevator, or just anywhere randomly. Please smile at yourself. You deserve that kind of joy. It feels silly at first, but it kind of rewires your brain for self-kindness and confidence. So, yeah, that's it. Those are 25 tiny habits that can transform your energy, your health, your mood, and even your relationships. And here's the secret: don't try all of these today. You will aid me for it. Pick one or two that feels easiest, practical, and practice them until they are automatic and then they stack on the next. We all know stacking too many changes at the same time isn't going to give you any good. That's how real lasting change happens. Not overnight, not by overhauling your life, but little by little every single day. And these are the 25 tiny habits that can actually completely shift your energy, your health, your focus, and your mindset. And you know, I have learned that it's not the big dramatic changes that transforms our life, it's the small, everyday things, consistent ones, the little choices that we make every single day that quietly build into something powerful. And that's why I'm so passionate about finding ways to make small positive improvements to my own health. I'm hoping it helps you do the same. So don't overwhelm yourself trying to do it all. Just pick one or two that feels easy, light, doable. And don't feel pressured to practice. Because the magic happens when you start, not when you're perfect. And if you love this episode, please share it with someone who's on their own health journey. If you try any of these microhabits, I would genuinely love to celebrate your events. Let me know. Leave a wonderful review for me, hopefully. And if there's any feedback, remember big changes begin with tiny steps. Keep showing up for yourself, keep learning, and keep growing one healthy habit at a time. And until next time, please stay kind, stay curious, and keep taking very good care of you. Bye bye.

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