Hyvara.ai - Episode 3 – Misaligned Stakeholders: The Hidden Deal Breaker

Data Sources:

• $400,000 telecom, $300,000 retail, $500,000 financial services losses: Estimated from enterprise sales misalignment trends. https://www.kalungi.com/blog/saas-churn-rate
• $50,000–$100,000 SE time, $1,500–$2,250 rework: Calculated from 10–15 hours at $150/hour, SaaS discovery inefficiencies. https://www.poweredbysearch.com/blog/b2b-saas-churn-rate-benchmarks/
• $250,000 pilots, $500,000–$1 million implementations, $2–$4 million annual loss: Approximations from SaaS cost trends. https://www.scalexp.com/post/saas-benchmarks-2023-part-4-revenue-retention
• 20–30% churn, $2–$3 million ARR: SaaS churn benchmarks for B2B. https://www.vitally.io/post/churn-rate-benchmarks-b2b-saas-2025
• $240,000 SE time, $180,000 AE time, $75,000 turnover: Calculated from 20% SE time, 15% AE time at $120–$150/hour, 10% turnover. https://zylo.com/blog/111-saas-statistics/
• 15–20% CAC increase, $50,000–$100,000, 10–15% renewal drop, $1–$2 million: SaaS retention metrics. https://www.gong.io/blog/saas-churn-rate/

Transcript

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Welcome back to the SE Work Life Podcast. I'm Kevin Kunz, your host. Today, episode three, Hivera.ai, Misaligned Stakeholders, the hidden deal breaker. We're going to spend a little bit more time here, whereas the other podcasts were five, six minutes to kind of get you in the swing of things and understand how I present information. You know, the last time we talked about the sheer cost of pre-sales breakdowns, not just in loss deals, but in churn, wasted resources and missed growth opportunities. Today we're going to deeper into what most damaging and often invisible contributors to those losses, stakeholder misalignment. Why misalignment is the silent killer? In complex enterprise sales, you're not selling to one person. You're selling to an entire ecosystem of people, the economic buyer who controls the budget, the technical evaluator who decides that the solution can work in their environment, the operational owner who will live with it day to day. And then ultimately the end user who basically adopts, makes, or breaks the ROI. These roles aren't just boxes on an org chart. Each person brings their own personalities, priorities, incentives, and concerns. Some are thinking about cost savings, some are thinking about integration risks, others care about usability, security, or compliance. When we fail to identify and align all of them, bad things can really happen. Feels stalled without warning. This goes back to the whole, why buy anything, why buy now, and why buy in this case, let's say Adobe or Oracle. You don't have all three, you don't have a deal. The most frustrating part, on paper, nothing looks wrong until it's too late to fix. And that's when we talk about pipeline analysis and happy ears, I think is what Don Beck used to call it. These reps got happy years on. Everything has rose-colored glasses, right? So let's talk about a deal. There's a telecom deal that disappeared, and this was, I believe, at Oracle. I'll never forget a $400,000 telecom deal where uh the AE built a fantastic relationship with the marketing lead. They were enthusiastic, engaged, and fully on board. But the CTO, who actually held the budget authority, was really never part of that conversation. When procurement finally pushed the decision to the CTO, he had no context, no trust in the team, and his own set of unanswered questions weren't getting answered, right? The deal died quickly. No objections, no negotiation, just gone. Along with it, about $50,000 in SE time and effort. This wasn't a lack of selling skills. It was a lack of stakeholder mapping and qualification. In frameworks like BMantor, MedPick, et cetera, there's always the who is the economic buyer question. Missed it, and you're gamble with the entire opportunity. So, how misalignment really starts. Most misalignment doesn't happen because teams ignore stakeholders. It happens because they never find them in the first place. Too often, discovery starts and ends with that first contact. A mid-level manager shares their pain point, the team gets really excited, and the pitch builds around that perspective. But without mapping the buyer committee, you're operating in a very narrow lane. I once saw a retail deal collapse because the compliance officer was never consulted. The security requirements didn't surface until the deep in the process, at which point the proposed solution couldn't meet them without major rework. That $300,000 opportunity was lost. Not because the product couldn't be delivered, but because the wrong people were in the room. The pilot trap. Even worse, misalignment in stakeholders can green light projects that are doomed from the start. Think about pilots. You know, the whole proof offering thing, I have a whole chapter on proof offering in all three of my books I discuss it because it's a giant rabbit hole filled with a lot of lost time and dollars. But if you think about pilots, a $250,000 proof of concept goes ahead without buy-in from the technical decision maker. The SE teams build it, demo it, hand it over, only to find out it can't integrate with a core system the technical lead had in mind all along. The pilot fails. The deal ends and months of effort vanish. I've seen healthcare pilots fail for exactly this reason. IT directors brought in the last minute, pointing out showstoppers no one had considered. Each failure cost not just the pilot value, but the credibility of the selling team. I recall back in the day when we did a lot of on-prem work, we always had the ARB team, architectural review board. And that team would crush us because they weren't involved from the beginning. And a lot of those teams have a lot of big egos. And the last thing you want to do is upset anybody who has an ego. That's definitely an area that you want to focus in on. Next, you think about the multiplier effect on losses. Here's where the impact snowballs. When misalignment kills a deal, the loss isn't just the deal size, it's the customer lifetime value that never materializes. It's the renewal that never happens because the relationship never began. It's the referrals you never get. For a mid-sized sales organization with a $10 million pipeline, misalignment stakeholders can be rep responsible for about $3 million in deals that never close, which equates to $2 to $3 million in churn for recurring revenue, and $2 to $4 million in failed implementation or pilots, hundreds of thousands in wasted SE and AE time, chasing the wrong conversations. It all adds up, and you're looking at about an $8 to $12 million in annual impact. Also, let's pivot to the human costs. The numbers are bad, but the human impact is just as corrosive. Sales engineers burn out when they're pulled into endless calls that go nowhere because the real decision makers aren't present. Imagine spending eight hours a week or 20% of your work time on the wrong stakeholder in a 50-person SE team. That's $240,000 a year is wasted. The constant reset erodes confidence in both the product and the process. Even customers lose trust. They see you struggle to keep your own internal alignment straight. They'll question your ability to deliver a coordinated solution for them. These are challenges that you really need to look at. Now, why is it hard to fix? Well, if it's so costly, why do so many organizations make the same mistake? Well, partly it's speed. Sales cyclers are under pressure, and mapping the full decision process feels slow. There's always a temptation to get moving. Time kills all deals, and the hope that rest sorts itself out during the way. We all know hope's not a strategy. Partly it's siloed knowledge. The A may have part of the picture. The SE may have the other part. The partner may know more. But without a single source of truth, no one sees the complete map until gaps surface too late. And particularly when you're thinking about how some teams actually work, you know, asking about budget authority decision-making process feels uncomfortable. These are hard questions to ask because no one wants the bad answer of, gee, I don't know, or I don't have a budget. But avoiding these questions almost guarantees misalignment will creep into the system. What needs to change? Fixing stakeholder misalignment isn't about working hard. It's about working with clarity from the start. It means making stakeholder mapping and qualification non-negotiable in discovery. It means ensuring every person in the sales process has visibility into who's been engaged, what they care about, and what gaps remain. It means using data and process discipline to avoid building an entire pursuit around an incomplete picture. In the future, this is exactly where technology can give teams an edge, automatically surfacing likely stakeholders based on similar deals in the past, highlighting missing roles in the buying committee, and prompting the right questions before the first meeting ever happens. All right, looking ahead. In our next episode, we're going to explore what's possible when you flip this dynamic, when every relevant stakeholder is identified early, engaged effectively, and aligned on outcomes before the deal moves forward. We'll look at what a coordinated, insight-driven sales process could actually feel like and how tools like hivera.ai can make it a repeatable reality. Thanks again for the time today. Remember, go visit hivera.ai or seworklife.com. And if you like what you're hearing here and you want to provide some input, I'm always open to having a conversation. And if you're willing to record it, put it on tape. Listen to me, tape, right? Put it on the digital world. Happy to do that. I think uh the more people we have in this village, the better the solution's gonna be.