Love & Life, Sorted
A Cambridge PhD sociologist's intimate, no-BS talk about love, family and everything in between.
Join Dr. Sandy To, marriage and family sociologist and author of the acclaimed book, China’s Leftover Women: Late Marriage among Professional Women and its Consequences (Routledge), featured in TIME, CNN, BBC, and more, for no-BS conversations about the stuff that really matters: dating as a high-powered career woman, finding a marriage partner over 30, who's doing the work in the marriage, what's the catch on motherhood and fertility etc.
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Love & Life, Sorted
Who Pays On A Date? Why Men Should Still Show Chivalry in Modern Dating
In this eye-opening episode of "Date Right 4 Your Type," Dr. Sandy To dives into the age-old debate: Who should pay on a date? Sparked by a recent viral Hong Kong story where a man abandoned his date with a staggering $10,000 bill (including a $9,000 bottle of Krug champagne) on their very first meetup, we explore the controversy surrounding dating etiquette, splitting the bill, and traditional values in today's world. Dr. To argues why men should pay for initial dates to demonstrate respect, value, and chivalry—without it being about money alone. Hear real-life examples, including a high-powered woman's frustration with a "penniless" partner who always splits cheap street food bills, and tips for broke guys like cooking a homemade meal to impress. Whether you're navigating modern dating apps, feminism in relationships, or red flags in courtship, this episode offers practical advice for accomplished women seeking meaningful connections. Tune in for insights on the different types of women like Satisficers, Maximizers, and Traditionalists, and join the discussion on Instagram! Perfect for anyone tired of awkward check moments—subscribe now for more dating tips and stories.
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🔑Key Topics:
- Who pays on the first date: Guy, girl, or split?
- Viral Hong Kong dine-and-dash scandal: $10,000 first-date bill horror story
- Chivalry in modern dating: Why traditional values still matter
- Dating etiquette and red flags: Feeling undervalued in relationships
- Alternatives for broke guys: Cooking homemade meals to show appreciation
- Contrasting different types: Satisficers vs. Maximizers & Traditionalists
- Practical tips for men and women in courtship and relationships
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