Love & Life, Sorted
A Cambridge PhD sociologist's intimate, no-BS talk about love, family and everything in between.
Join Dr. Sandy To, marriage and family sociologist and author of the acclaimed book, China’s Leftover Women: Late Marriage among Professional Women and its Consequences (Routledge), featured in TIME, CNN, BBC, and more, for no-BS conversations about the stuff that really matters: dating as a high-powered career woman, finding a marriage partner over 30, who's doing the work in the marriage, what's the catch on motherhood and fertility etc.
Whether you're single and skeptical, married and mystified, or parenting through chaos...Let's sort life, one chat at a time!
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Love & Life, Sorted
3 Reasons Matchmaking Is the Best Way for Finding Love | Singles' Day Special
On this Singles' Day (11.11) episode of Love & Life, Sorted (previously Date Right 4 Your Type), Dr. Sandy To reveals why matchmaking is the most successful way to find a lifelong partner—outperforming random encounters, dating apps, and rom-com "meet-cutes." Discover the R.A.E. framework: Reliability (vetted character to avoid frauds like the Tinder Swindler), Accuracy (matching exact criteria like height, income, or zodiac signs), and Exclusivity (headhunter-style intros for high-achievers, like Lady Gaga's mom-set-up). Dr. Sandy To shares her own matchmaking success story (meeting her husband after 20 years!), real couple wins, and tips to overcome matchmaking stigma. Perfect for busy professionals tired of swiping. Stop wasting time—get introduced to quality matches! Subscribe for more dating psychology, like/comment your criteria, and tag a friend who needs this.
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🔑Key Topics
- Singles' Day China (11.11 bare branches)
- Reliability in partner vetting (Tinder Swindler, Good on Paper movie)
- Accuracy with criteria (height, income, zodiac compatibility, Virgo-Cancer match)
- Exclusivity for high-achievers (headhunter analogy, Lady Gaga story)
- Matchmaking and blind date success stories
- Overcoming matchmaking stigma
- R.A.E. framework for successful relationships
- Netflix shows: Indian Matchmaker, Jewish Matchmaker
- Meet-cutes in rom-coms vs real life (Sex and the City, Serendipity)
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